Can the so called high school first love really succeed?

Updated on healthy 2024-06-28
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It is basically impossible to tell the truth and tell the truth, and of course it does not deny the existence of individual phenomena. However, in an environment like a university, do you feel that you can tolerate loneliness for each other? In addition, even if each other insists on enduring loneliness, then, if you don't live in the same environment for a long time, you will eventually find that there are great differences between each other, and the original feeling will change, so that the two people become people who are not in the same world.

    So, think about it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's too early for you to say that.

    Because no matter how well you think now, no matter how good you speak, how well you plan.

    Plans don't change fast.

    This is especially true of emotional matters.

    Let it be.

    But you have to keep one thing in mind.

    Don't take love for granted.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're a boy, aren't you?

    College is the happiest time of life.

    This statement is the truth.

    It will never change.

    Of course it would be better to have her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    To be honest, most of them don't succeed, and in the end it's just a good memory, but as long as you are strong, cherish each other, and get to the end, I believe you will, bless you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    1% success rate! Hope you're the one! Go all the way!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on whether you are true love or not, but I think that since you ask like this, it seems that it is not true love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Not necessarily. See if your minds are mature.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on how you deal with it, whether you work hard, and the time has come to test you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Just playing in college love can't succeed a few.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can't just play.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, yes! The key lies in how two people get along, if they can care for each other and understand each other in their later lives, they will continue to walk and enter the palace of marriage!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's hard to succeed. But unsuccessful is also a very precious memory and experience, forget to cherish.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, less than 1 in 10,000.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, I have friends and relatives around me, there is a couple who have been from elementary school to college, and they are about to graduate and get married, and they want to believe in love, as long as they are attentive to each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are really not many people who stick to the end, but love is a beautiful experience in life, even if it doesn't work, then you have to try it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I didn't have a serious relationship in junior high and high school, and I regret it very much now, when I was in junior high school, I didn't feel like falling in love, but I did have feelings for someone chasing me at the time. It's a pity that I was too well-behaved at the time to talk about it, and I didn't want to talk about it.

    I really didn't have any interest in those youth campus dramas before, and every time I saw it, I felt that it was boring, most of them were the same scenes, the same plot, and the same ending.

    Now that I leave the junior high school campus, whenever I see this kind of youth campus drama, I can feel that sadness, and I deeply realize the meaning of the existence of this kind of drama. The grief is more of a loss, yes, I finally left that closed prison and grew up.

    Seriously, I really regret not having a big relationship in middle and high school. After time passed, I realized that except for junior high and high school, there is no one you can be so familiar with, you know what his handwriting looks like, his books are placed in **, and the clothes he loves to wear. There is no longer a chance to talk to him alone in the classroom about the future.

    Later, I realized that the liking in college was so sloppy and purposeful, maybe it was just that I needed someone to fall in love, that is, you, or maybe you had a good family background and could match me. I can't find the simplicity I like in middle and high school anymore.

    The love of junior high school and high school should not be asked, there is nothing that should not be asked, this love is conditional, after all, the first task of junior high and high school is to study, and love is not love for the sake of love. If you really meet someone you want to protect for a lifetime, then you must catch it, and the premise of this grasp is to keep your own learning, after all, you are still a student, learning is the most important thing, no grades, how to give others a future? It is best for couples to progress together.

    What is not advocated is the kind of love for the sake of love, junior high school and high school students are not lonely, just learn well, don't make yourself unique and then go to fall in love and have fun, this is really too undesirable.

    In short, you must grasp the love on campus, after all, it is the purest, and there is only one time in those years, so don't let yourself have regrets.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is a lifelong regret that I didn't fall in love in junior high school and high school, because when I graduated from college, I was still a single dog.

    If God could give me a chance, I would say that I like you at my junior high school table, otherwise I would still be a dog.

    Many parents believe that falling in love may cause their academic performance to drop significantly, resulting in their future future, we are not sure. Parents who think like this, I can only say that you should need to understand before you can judge. Because I have really seen that after falling in love, the academic performance of both of them has risen, and the rate of rise is better than mine, which I am ashamed of.

    I regret it myself, why didn't I fall in love back then!

    When I was in college, I found my junior high school table on my own. I myself asked her once, did you like me a little bit when you were in junior high school? She said one thing, she just didn't see your actions.

    I said to myself that I regret a little, I didn't confess to you back then, I don't know if I still have the opportunity to say such a sentence to you, I like you, is it okay to be my girlfriend? When she saw it, she gave me a voice, and I was a little moved. It's a voice I'll never forget, but I'm not going to tell it to everyone.

    I myself feel that fate is in front of me, and I don't know how to cherish it. When I was young, I didn't know how to cherish it, I could only say that my love was not in full bloom back then.

    This is also a kind of regret and regret for yourself. Life is like this, I myself regret it, fate is God gave me a chance when I was young, I didn't catch it, graduated from college, and still didn't find my own fate.

    Here I also suggest that you remember to protect your academic performance while falling in love in middle and high school

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I should regret it, and I haven't tried this life in early love, is it a little incomplete?

    I think falling in love in middle and high school is a test for students, both good and bad. Studying in junior high and high school is the student's own job, everyone thinks that at this time, early love not only affects learning, but also does not talk about love, all children are playing, what feelings can they have? In case someone can't think about it, it may cause lifelong harm to this child, but have you ever wondered why adults are so old and single?

    Why do so many people choose to go to extremes when they are emotionally frustrated? One of the advantages of early love is that you can contact love during the ignorant period, but you don't understand love in your heart, you will have a deep understanding of love, and there will be no extreme results when you are in early love. When I was a child, contact with me when it was easiest to forget and heal allowed many people to gradually accept and understand love.

    Puppy love is also a kind of exercise for people, exercise their will, exercise their own means of doing things, see if they can arrange and allocate their time and energy reasonably, and whether they will deal with all kinds of things well. I think people who have experienced this kind of thing will have a full understanding of time and energy, and will be able to fully realize their own abilities. And early love is also a good way to exercise your personality and forge your own quality.

    After all, if you want to get the favor of girls, you must first correct a lot of problems, so that starting from a young age, it is easy to correct your shortcomings from a young age.

    Of course, puppy love is not a tool, a tool to exercise yourself. There are a few classmates around me who started from early love, love to the present, and the direction of marriage, from youth to maturity and then to old age, which may be the best memory in this life?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    To be honest, I really regret it, there is no soul in high school without love, I recommend watching two anime, "Just Because" and "Moonlight is Beautiful", after reading it, you must regret that you are not in love in high school. I was really well-behaved at the time and didn't understand anything, so when I graduated from high school, I realized that I used to like the representative of the English class in junior high school, and I had a feeling that I had lived in vain for 18 years. If I had a relationship like just because in high school, I could blow it for the rest of my life.

    After going to college and entering society, there are really fewer and fewer simple girls.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not a pity, and it's okay if you want to talk about it.

    In high school, it didn't mean that it was okay to fall in love, and our teachers said that if we were together, we could promote each other and make progress together, and it would be a good thing to be admitted to university together, so I think it's okay.

    Of course, studying is very important, but it doesn't say that you study and love conflicts, do you have to watch each other chat when you study, do you have to stare at your phone when you do homework? In fact, there is also a problem of self-control, if you like it, let's go together, who said that you can't study if you must be in love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not a question of whether you need it or not, it depends on whether you can meet the right person. Anyway, when I think about it now, I really regret it, and I'm afraid I can't find that kind of simple love in high school anymore. You said how I was so naïve and stupid at the time, girls asked me questions, and I scoffed.

    It is true that the heavy academic burden has made this group of energetic young people out of breath, and how can they bear the "burden" of love. However, when I really matured and grew up, I found that the real flawless love seemed to be the purest kind of love in that time, without a little impurity.

    Everyone who has experienced that time will reminisce about that good time, but if you are willing to travel through time and go again, I don't think anyone will be willing, the memories are sweet, and the experiences are bitter.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can be in love or not. But it is still advisable not to fall in love. Learning is important.

    In fact, to put it bluntly, love is two people of the opposite sex doing happy things together, but in high school, you should still focus on academics, and you have to deal with the college entrance examination, so you should still consider studying. The college entrance examination is really important.

    If you want to make your life a little more fulfilling, focus on your studies, and live a fulfilling life, you won't envy the friends around you who fall in love. And most of the relationships in high school don't last long, so you shouldn't fall in love, and when the time comes, it will only add troubles to yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You must study hard in high school, you can talk about falling in love during college, and you must be admitted to a good university.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, all you have to do in high school is study, and it's not necessary to fall in love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not a question of whether you need it or not, if you meet it, you can give it a try, and if you don't meet someone you like, forget it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, the most important thing in high school is your studies.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Need. I don't fall in love in high school, and it's even harder to get out of my singles in college.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is not necessary, high school study tasks are heavy, and falling in love can easily affect academic performance.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Need, early love, let you recognize the cruelty of feelings in advance.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is not recommended to talk about it, but high school is still focused on learning.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, what you have to do in high school is to study hard.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think if you meet the right person, you can give it a try.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's barely counted, because everyone's definition of first love is different. See what you think in your heart. This hazy emotion is very precious in the heart, so it will remain for a long, long time.

    There is a saying that what you can't get is always the best, and there is some truth to it. Because you haven't gotten him, haven't really lived with him, and won't fully know his shortcomings and faults, his image in your heart will always be good, and there will be a pure memory in your heart. So it's hard to forget.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    As Sesame upstairs said, your situation is a crush. However, some crushes are really impressive, and people in high school are generally more simple and persistent, so they are more likely to be nostalgic.

    As for why it's hard to forget, the possible reasons are as follows:

    2.That guy is so good that you are impressed.

    3.Your life may not be fulfilling, giving you more time to reminisce about him4You have a good memory, and you may have just left high school, because generally a lot of things are faded after about two years of college.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The more deliberately many things are forgotten, the more fresh they are remembered. Because every time you think about forgetting, you deepen your memory. If you really want to forget, don't think about it. If you can't put it down, express it boldly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I liked one in junior high school, and I really can't forget it, I empathize with it!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    First love wants to be together again, you are a crush...

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The first boy you fall in love with or fall in love with will be hard to forget. Maybe you can't forget it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    No, because you haven't been in a relationship. It's hard to forget for the same reason.

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