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<> you can succeed, you will not be happy. Boys must have the spirit of boys, girls must have the content of girls, a humble boy will have no masculinity, and girls will become no gentle temperament. Two people can be united for a short time, but they can't be happy for a long time.
In fact, in my opinion, whether it is a boy who humbly pursues a girl, or a boy who is a girl who is humble in the ball, the result will not be happy, even if he is married, he will not be happy. It's not that I'm extreme, but I feel that love doesn't make people humble, but makes people stronger in love.
Zhang Ailing loves Hu Lancheng, love is dead and alive, love to the bones, but in the end, the love that is humble to the dust does not bloom bright flowers. Therefore, boys are humble and want girls the most, which is unscientific.
Many guys are willing to do anything for their beloved girls, and this is as it should be, and there is nothing wrong with it. But it shouldn't be that there is no principle at all, a boy can endure it for a while, but he can't act for a lifetime, unless he really changes his temperament because he likes a girl. The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change, and it is not easy.
Once you catch up, girls will like humble boys, and boys will not be so attentive and tolerant, and the consequences of the time can be imagined.
It's not that I'm pessimistic, but that's the case, when boys become humble, they won't show their true selves, and girls will become stronger and stronger, more and more tempered. This kind of relationship is about to walk on thin ice later. knew that the two of them couldn't get along anymore and parted ways.
Therefore, there must also be a bottom line and dignity in love.
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I can only say that I can't say anything like this, Because the world is changing, maybe the boy has nothing when chasing a girl, nothing is as good as a girl, so he will feel very humble, and when he chases, he will definitely have a feeling psychologically: What if I chase a girl and refuse me, if I don't chase, what if there is a miracle?
Just like a substitute teacher in our school, she told us about her love history, when she was in high school, the boy liked her, but the girl didn't like the boy very much, the first is mainly the heavy academic weight of high school, the second is that the boy's family burden is heavier, there are two boys in the family, and there is no economy**, the most important thing is that the boy does not study well all day, swaying all day long, the girl was very reluctant at the beginning, so he rejected him, at first the boy was quite faceless, Because she always thought that the boy hated her because of his family background, and then he targeted the girl everywhere, and the girl was very angry, and one day in the classroom she scolded the boy on the spot, and the girl said that she had nothing to do all day, didn't study hard, wasted her parents' money, and knew the difficulties in her family, then we should change ourselves, but what about you. As soon as he heard this, the boy suddenly reacted, the girl was because of this, after all, the girl was the first in the class and was a good student. Since then, the boy will talk to the girl every day and study hard, and in this way, the boy's grades have improved step by step, and the two of them have been admitted to the same university in the college entrance examination.
After the college entrance examination, the boy took the initiative again, and the girl at this time agreed to him desperately, and it lasted for four years, after graduating from college, when the two were ready to get married, the girl's parents disagreed, because he was afraid that his daughter would suffer and nothing, but the girl didn't think so, because she thought that the boy would give him happiness and would be good to him, so the two got married despite the opposition of their parents, and sure enough, the boy took great care of the girl, and the girl told usHis former humility has made him the glory he is today. In fact, each of us is the same, when someone has low self-esteem, you should not hit him, but encourage him, so that for a long time, he will always be grateful to you.
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Here's what I've done and heard of the humble and poignant things I've done to pursue girls.
1.In high school, he liked girls at work, and at first he just had a crush, and later confessed to the girl before graduation, and the girl rejected him. After that, in order to get close to the girl, the boy waited for the girl at the school gate every day and did not give up until the girl graduated and left.
2.In order to impress the girl, the boy began to learn to write poetry and gave the girl a rose every day. But the girl was not impressed by the boy's actions, and even somewhat disgusted. The boy eventually gives up sadly because of excessive pursuit.
3.In college, the boy fell in love with his assistant teacher. To get the attention of the teaching assistants, the boy stayed after each class to ask questions.
But the teaching assistant did not show any interest in the boy's movements. The boy eventually realizes that things are no longer possible and begins to study harder to become an excellent student.
4.In order to make the girl notice him, the boy even stupidly openly expressed his affection for the girl on social **. But instead of responding to him, the girl became even more indifferent. The boy eventually intends to give up, but finds himself in a deep emotional quagmire.
5.The girl and the boy were first loved, but later separated from each other due to some misunderstandings. The boy waited for the girl's return for ten years, calling the girl every day, texting, writing letters, but the girl did not respond to him.
Ten years later, the girl reappears in the boy's life, but already has a new boyfriend. The boy realizes that his insistence was in vain, and finally chooses to leave.
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Girls with low self-esteem often lack self-confidence, so you should give him more encouragement at this time. Give him more patience, give her more care, and touch her with heart and love, and you will be able to catch up with her easily.
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It is more difficult for a girl with low self-esteem to interact with others, first of all, you must have a warm heart, to influence his inferiority complex, make him happy, so that you may be able to catch her.
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Chase with heart, chase with money, and chase with love.
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Who can catch up with a girl with low self-esteem?
Most of the girls here are not confident.
Then you make him confident.
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