How do you mix out of college? A lot of people in college are messing around, why would they want to

First of all, I don't know if you graduated. If you don't graduate, you can still work hard to shape something for yourself and add some qualifications, which will still help you find a job after graduation. If you graduate, you can only find a job first, and then you may experience many failures, but of course you can also start your own business, which may be more difficult.

Many of my classmates have failed many times, some have found suitable jobs, some have not, I was also very confused at the beginning, I was confused during college, and I soon got mixed up, and I had a headache after graduation, so I had to be able to support myself first. I looked for a job for a long time, either I didn't get accepted, or I had a job that I didn't like or didn't like very much, and finally I still worked, but I soon changed and decided to start a business, during which I experienced a lot of ups and downs, and now I finally stabilized and established a small company.

I can only say that I will tell you some of my experiences, everyone's situation is different, and my own life is still the best I know and have the most right to decide.

You can mix it up as you want, as long as it's not illegal.

Mixed jobs. Mix up a daughter-in-law.

Mixed house.

Work your own, don't be impetuous!

Society is not equal to rivers and lakes, and you can't mix it up! Because I don't know if the direction LZ is pointing to is the workplace or something else, so I'll talk to myself.

During the internship, it is best to grasp the opportunity and solve the employment on the spot; If the internship unit does not have the intention of recruiting, it is necessary to submit a cover letter to participate in the job fair for a written examination and interview ......All of this has to be planned, according to the map, not as you please! Of course, the most important thing is to harness the power of human relationships!

In the past few years, do your job well, if you really don't have any reputation in this job in the end, change industries, don't easily change jobs, don't have any complaints about the company, remember, only if we have real skills, we have the ability to bargain with the company, otherwise it's all.

Everyone's situation is different, and the pursuit is different, which leads to different strategies chosen in the four years of college, which is a normal thing. So, why do you have to live in the shadow of others and compare yourself with others in everything you do? When you chase others and want to compete with others, will others be willing to compete with you?

So, don't always stare at others, and don't judge a person randomly, others are different from you.

Others are messing around, but you don't know what others are thinking, what are other people's goals, maybe others are taking the next big picture, but others are not obliged to tell you what their plans are that you can control, only your own life, figuring out your own goals, is better than anything else.

Take 10,000 steps back, even if others are not the second generation of rich, and they have never thought about taking the civil service exam, they are really messing around, and that is someone else's choice, maybe people have already decided to live their lives like this? In fact, this kind of thinking is the same in the workplace, don't preset your position, and don't judge others with your own position.

Isn't it supposed that there should be many different kinds of people in order for a university to be rich? Could it be that your university forces students to study on their own at night and take the exam every year? Seriously, it's good to be able to eat, drink and have fun at university with the energy that a young person should have.

What can be played, play now. Don't think of them as "characteristics of identity differences", and don't think of them as beasts of prey.

If we don't do these things now, when will we start doing them? If you do, you may be regarded as a "messy day", so what does it matter if you are a "messy day"?

Moreover, you have to know the fact that you think they are messing around, but in fact, they already have a good choice and direction, and at the beginning, they have already planned it. Those who are messing around have made a good choice for themselves early, even if they have no choice, they accept the consequences, nothing more than not finding a suitable job, but those who study hard have found a satisfactory and suitable job? Not necessarily.

Because they went from the stressful life of the third year of high school to the unrestrained of college, this environment made them indulge in a relaxed life at once.

It's because they feel that they don't have a future, and even if they don't study hard, they will get their graduation certificates, so they don't work hard.

You're wrong! No, of course, on a case-by-case basis. Generally speaking, if you mix well in college, you will generally have a better life than most ordinary students in the school after you go out.

Because there are too many reasons that affect whether a person mixes well or not in the future. I'll give you a ranking ...... of what I think college students do well after they go out

First place: In the university, you can really cultivate your thoughts, be a person, do things, and cultivate your ability (ability mainly refers to professional or interest-related industry ability, and leadership ability and management ability can not improve anything, only a little thought).

Second place: Graduate students from prestigious universities.

Third place: Those who have won various scholarships at the school and participated in various competitions. Participation in various organizations (although it is generally useless to participate in school organizations).

Fourth place: ordinary learners.

Fifth place: eating, drinking, and having fun, all kinds of lazy ......

Of course, the first one is the most difficult to practice, because basically the vast majority of students don't know how to practice, and they dare not practice, and there are too many uncertainties. But this kind of person is definitely the best to mix when you go out, and if you are lucky enough to meet this kind of person, then make more friends. As for the rest, it's hard to say, because a person may be involved in several of the above situations, but he still has a major bias, such as focusing on the first type.

Remember that the school is pediatrics, and when you go out, you know that the university has won so many awards, which is basically just a stepping stone, so there is no difference between you getting 20 awards and 5 awards of the same level, as long as you can knock on the door, you can go in, there is no need to knock on the door to open to the maximum, rather than so, it is better to learn more about what is in the door, and what is inside the door refers to the first kind.

But for the first type of people, in the later stage of cultivation, we must pay attention to down-to-earth, not too high, the answer I give is the freshman and sophomore cultivation, to form their own set of principles of life, a set of principles of doing things, as well as some related basic guidelines or routines for dealing with people, looking at things, analyzing problems, solving problems, etc. But after the third year, you have to concretize your thoughts, use the things you have cultivated in the past to solve problems, and apply them in a down-to-earth manner. In your junior and senior years, you should learn more about society and revise what you have done to better adapt to society and be more comfortable in water.

Not necessarily, because society is different from Ah Xue.

Many people say that the college entrance examination is a single-plank bridge crossed by thousands of troops, and not everyone can pass it, which is a huge competition. In this society where classes are becoming more and more solidified, the college entrance examination is the best and fairest way to change one's fate. It's just that such an important turning point is in such an ignorant youth, and some people haven't realized the importance well, and time can't go back.

Those who come to the university, still think that after the college entrance examination will be liberated, in fact, the new competition has just begun, before you can be ignorant and ignorant, you can not care, but after going to college, you will begin to slowly transition into the society, we are easy to get lost in the university, after graduation, only to find that there is no chance to start over.

College can be hectic and hard, or it can be easy, depending on the individual's choice. Some people have been playing for four years, but after graduation, the family has already arranged everything. But most of us don't have that capital.

We can't afford to lose, we only have ourselves, and we even bear the hope of our family. In the small society of the university, we often follow the crowd and slowly lose ourselves. I thought that tomorrow was far away.

Sometimes I am also very confused, there are always people in college who don't take classes much, but at the end of the semester, find resources, review well, you can get high scores, cheating is very common. There are also people who have no pursuits, and in addition to attending classes every day, they sleep in the dormitory, play games, watch dramas, and brush Weibo. Some people are obviously very smart and know a lot of truths, but they can't help but give up their efforts.

There seems to be no difference between working hard and not working hard, so why be so tired?

Those who don't care about life will eventually be punished by life itself. As the years go by, we are no longer young, not as curious and naïve as freshmen and sophomores, and we are more and more worried about the future, worried about whether we can live up to ourselves who worked so hard to get into college, worried about whether we can find the job we want, and worried about the expectations of our parents and families. At this age, we drank too much chicken soup, but there was no fundamental improvement.

It's simple, but it's so hard to do. It should be that the current university life is too easy, the Ministry of Education of the People's Republic of China stipulates that college students should increase their burden, primary and secondary schools should reduce their burden, and colleges and universities should cultivate high-quality talents, not exquisite egoists, not opportunistic and deceitful people, nor people who do nothing and do nothing.

How do you live a meaningful university? Let me give you advice in the general direction. During the freshman year, you should pay attention to studying, not skip classes, and not be overly immersed in various clubs and student organizations.

It's okay to train yourself, but you can't leave your studies behind. Arrange your time reasonably and carefully learn the basic office software such as word, excel, and ppt. English level 4 and 6 strive to pass at one time.

Try to get your GPA as high as possible. The consciousness of the freshman year is very important, because when they first enter the university, many people have a sense of freshness, they are busy with various party activities, and they pass in a daze, and many people start to work hard until the sophomore year, if they have the consciousness to study hard in the freshman year, they will not be too panicked in the future.

Everyone's ideas and goals are different, some people feel that they have achieved their goals when they go to university, while some people feel that they must set a lofty goal and ideal for themselves to climb better mountains and see more beautiful and vast scenery. I hope that the landlord will study hard and not mess around in college, college is a paradise of knowledge, and there are many things to learn! You have to give yourself a clear goal, but in the end, it depends on what you think, maybe your way of thinking is different from others, right, it's not just college to go, but don't mess around, no matter what, you have to work hard to fight for your ideals and goals!

Be who you want to be! I wish you a bright future and get ahead!

Because now many people think that it is good to get a graduation certificate after graduating from college, no matter what you do, it is better to find a job with a college student's graduation certificate than those who did not go to college, and I only need to be admitted to college, anyway, the university is mixed.

In fact, when you go to college and then enter the society, you have to ask for this graduation certificate, and the knowledge you really learn in college is generally not used much in society.

Some university teachers dare not compliment their education level and character. It's hard to find a job after graduation, and the job you find has nothing to do with your major, so of course I can't agree to it!

From the earth to the class, there are all kinds of people and things, some study hard every day, some live in a mess every day, and the same is true for teachers and professors, just to see what you want to become!

There are many reasons for this, the main ones being the following:

1.The majors in colleges and universities are chaotic, and most colleges and universities have poor teachers, so they cannot improve the level of education services for students;

2.Lack of understanding of the major when applying for the volunteer, the difference between what you have learned and your hobbies, lack of interest, but it is difficult to change majors;

3.College students lack clear planning and positioning for the future, lack the guidance and inspiration of those who have come before, and are full of blindness in learning;

4.The teaching materials are rigid, one-sided emphasis on theory, ignoring application and practice, and the education model is very rigid and rigid, which is seriously detached from the needs of society.

That's about it!

Everyone wants to mix up a certificate, and now this society does not require a certificate degree.

They are making their last struggle to enter society.

There is no standard answer, there are many things to look at.

1. It depends on the school, different grades of undergraduate schools have the same resources, and also determine the future and opportunities of different students.

2 It depends on the conditions of the individual, if the individual does not work hard, he will not be able to mix well.

3. It depends on the family background and strength, and the current graduates come out to find a job, and the family background plays a great role in supporting. The background is hard, and it doesn't mix badly no matter what.

In short, the good or bad mixing of undergraduates is the comprehensive result of the beam mu of various cherry slag tolerance conditions. Do your best, let it be the fate of heaven.

I don't know what do you mean by mixing well?

I think after graduating, there are a few things that do well in my class.

1. One of the students in the class is the vice president of the school's student union. After graduating, it is said that he entered a state-owned enterprise through the recommendation of a school teacher. Salary and benefits should lead among our classmates.

In his words, I rarely see him come to class, and my time is basically spent on taking care of the relationship between the student union and the teacher. I guess there is something to do with him himself. However, he was quite serious about the exam, although he failed several subjects, but in the end, he basically completed the make-up exam or retake.

2. There are students in the class who are admitted to the selection and transfer of students and civil servants of better units.

If you're a student like this, you're a very motivated kind. Usually the grades are quite good, and they are cadres of the academy or something. I have a good relationship with the tutor and teacher in the class. Joined the party very early. It seems that in many places, this kind of examination requires party members. The treatment is good and quite stable.

3. Some students in the class have been admitted to graduate students of other majors in other schools.

This kind of student has his own opinions. Professional, biology, this major employment is average. Some students change majors through relationships when they enter the school.

Or take a second major. I was preparing for the graduate school entrance examination early in the morning, and then I was admitted to Peking University, which seems to be the entrance examination. . . Very good, very good English.

4. Maybe because of the major, when I graduated, my classmates were not very happy when they worked. Now that a year after graduation, many people have changed jobs a few times...

One word. Professionalism ruins a life...