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Sometimes, caring too much about a person will make you lose your due reason, send two, she doesn't reply, just forget it, explain three problems: 1, too busy, no time to pay attention to you 2, you don't have to reply to the message you send 3I don't like you and don't bother to reply to you.
Two people who really love each other don't need to get tired of being together every day, sometimes they will understand each other with just one look. Be open-minded and be a good man with responsibility. Afford it, put it down!
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What you want me to do. Maybe she's picking up something that's important to her life. If it's small talk, I think if she cares, you'll hang up ** to ignore you.
Think the other way around. If you're picking up a very important ** your girlfriend is angry with you like this. What will happen to you.
Find your questions. It will be solved. Hope it works for you.
I don't want to give points.
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I'll tell you two little stories:
1, A doesn't like to eat eggs, and every time he sends eggs, he gives them to B. At first, B was very grateful, but over time I got used to it. Once you get used to it, you take it for granted.
So, until one day, A gave the egg to C, and B was not happy. She forgot that the egg was originally A's, and A could give it to whomever she wanted. For this reason, they had a big quarrel and broke off their friendship ever since.
2. One year, in a very hot summer, a group of people went out rafting.
The girl's slippers fell off and sank when they were playing in the water. When they got to the shore, it was full of hot pebbles, and they had to walk a long way. So, the girl asked for help, but everyone only had a pair of slippers.
The girl was very upset, because she was used to asking for help from others, and as long as she was coquettish, she would get a satisfactory answer. But not this time. She suddenly felt that these people were not good, and they would not be saved.
Later, a boy gave her his slippers and walked barefoot on the hot pebbles. He also laughed at himself and said that it was teppanyaki. The girl thanked him, and the boy said, "You have to remember that no one has to help you."
Helping you is out of friendship, not helping you should be. The girl remembered the boy's words and has since learned to remember those who have given a helping hand and to give them a greater reward.
Many times, we always want to be good from others.
In the beginning, I was grateful. But after a long time, I got used to it. When you are accustomed to being nice to you, you take it for granted.
One day when it's not good for you, you feel resentful. In fact, it's not that others are bad, but that we have more demands. Accustomed to getting, he forgets to be grateful.
Below, your question:
First of all, you are a very good child, and there is nothing wrong with liking to help people, but this kindness will make them develop a habit of dependence and make them feel that you were born to lend them paper. Once you start complaining one day and won't lend to them, they won't get used to this sudden rejection.
Secondly, for you, you are a self-disciplined person, and you feel that if it were for you, you would not be as insatiable as them. But not everyone will be as disciplined as you, and there is no shortage of people in this world who like to be greedy. But remember, the world is fair, and there is truth to the old saying that greedy for small gains and big losses.
People who like to be greedy for small and cheap will not be recognized and liked by others.
Let's talk about what you should do: the next time I borrow from you, you can make a small excuse and say that you don't have any paper, or just tell them that you have to buy it yourself. If you feel that you are stingy, then you should not pay too much attention to it, if it is your real friend, it will not make you embarrassed.
Over time, they will get used to it.
Finally, little sister, I want to tell you a word: not everyone can be friends, don't be afraid of refusal, appropriate refusal is not only to protect yourself, but also to admonish others. As long as you treat others calmly and learn to grasp the principles and proportions, I believe that you will also be treated equally by others, and you will have a lot less troubles.
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This is common in dormitories, you borrow paper towels quite lightly, some borrow money and don't pay it back, some often ask you to do this and that, and some don't even ask you and take it yourself. When you encounter this situation, first of all, you can't be in a hurry, let alone get angry, once you get angry, they will definitely say, you are too stingy, and you will leave, and you will lose. The next time they ask you to borrow, you can cry poor, half-jokingly
Dude, come to me to borrow paper towels again, this month's living expenses are almost gone, you have to buy paper towels next time! You can also ask them to treat them and say, "I've borrowed tissues so many times, you should treat me to a meal!" You can also borrow something from them and ask them to help buy tissues, but it really doesn't work, the next time you run out of paper, just delay it for a few days, borrow it from others first, and see how others deal with it.
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This is easy to do, he borrows your tissues, you borrow his more valuable things, first think about what to borrow from him, when he will ask you to borrow tissues, when you will ask him to borrow the things you have thought.
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Focus on learning and improving your self-cultivation, and everything else is a trivial matter. If you have it, you can borrow it, and to give convenience to others is to make it convenient for yourself! Because it's worth the loss to be unhappy! Remember!
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It's right that you take tissues, but you borrow them unconditionally every time, so that it becomes a habit for them to ask for tissues, this is that you didn't solve this problem in the first place, and now you can't help it, but for a little tissue problem, you have the impression that your friendship is not worth it! You should talk to your two roommates about this in private, don't talk about them in front of many people, otherwise it will make them very embarrassed, or mention it in a joking way to give them a wake-up call! Don't reject them with a straight face, no one will be comfortable.
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Willing to be willing to give up to have to be willing to get the heart to be generous in order to become a big thing What is enough to bother you Let go of your heart and think about something worth thinking about Why bother to take it to heart.
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Just give them a roll......Then say it's not enough to buy it yourself.
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It's your mistake.,It's your fault that you've been borrowing them tissues.,Once or twice it's just like that.,More times than you borrowed it.,Let them develop.,That's how it should be.。。。
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Hehe, our dormitories are all mixed and bought one by one.
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This kind of unconscious person can't get used to it, and if he learns to be tactful and tough, Liu Shao's opinion is good.
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You're not wrong. This kind of person doesn't have to care about him.
For people he doesn't care about, it doesn't matter what he says.
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If you are willing to give up, you will have to give up.
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Hehe, it's better not to make this kind of friend, it's not good for you, because ah! He's got that habit! Hey.
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Be generous. In particular, students interact with each other.
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...Let the talkers buy it themselves...
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I also think that the two people in front of me are in half, and your husband is too much and shouldn't use his hands and feet.
Just had a child, both of them worked hard, the woman was tired of taking care of the child, and the man was also tired of working to support the family, so both sides were not very good-tempered, and it was easy to provoke conflicts. But the quarrel between husband and wife is normal, and the anger is dissipated afterwards and the communication is good.
But your mother's approach was not wrong, even if your husband was wrong at that time, if she helped you, the quarrel would escalate, and she was starting from the principle of family harmony. Imagine if it was your mother-in-law at that time, if she didn't say that her son was wrong and said that you were wrong, would you feel better? I feel that your mother is still a very authentic person who knows how to be a human being.
There is nothing that cannot be solved, it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel a few words, and try to consider the problem from the perspective of the other party in the future and communicate well. This trivial matter is not a matter of principle.
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If the company initially transfers you to a job that you are not good at, and has not consulted you, it is likely that it has already asked you to leave. And now you leave early because of dissatisfaction, and you happen to be caught by the company and ask you to resign, in fact, it is already obvious that the company will not let you stay very much, this is a trick made by the company, and they do not want to pay compensation for firing you. And you didn't hold your breath and just fell into the trap.
If you want to have a good development in the future, it is recommended to leave this company, as he said, you have no room for development, because the company has cut off your way, of course you have no way out, you can only leave. However, even if you leave, you must pay them enough compensation, or ask them to write you a good letter of recommendation, otherwise it is okay to go to the workers to sue them and scare them, and you can't let these profiteers harm the interests of employees casually.
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Personally, I think it's your fault to leave early! In fact, working for others will not be exactly what you want, you have to remember that gold will shine wherever it is, and you should think about why the boss arranges you to do the work you are not good at! If you really can't stay, you can also try to find a job first, every boss is very similar, not you change jobs to solve the problem, you should start from yourself to find the problem, these are my personal opinions, I hope it will help you.
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Of course, you left early, but the company transferred you to work in a targeted manner, and I think he should have an opinion on you. But suddenly it's not fair to you.
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I don't know much about your work situation, but looking at your description, it feels like your boss has already wanted you to leave, so he gave you a change of position. I'm also a supervisor, and I don't let my employees go just because they leave early.
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You're right, maybe because the son of a relative or friend is coming to your company and there is no place for him, so he fired you.
Don't do it, you don't have much room for your kind of company. Let's go find a new job!! Support you!!
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It's really wrong for you to leave early, and you should wake up. But there are also some of your bosses who are deliberately targeting!
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You are doing something wrong, at least you should communicate with your boss and let people know about you, but you don't, but you take confrontational behavior.
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Then you explain to the company's leaders, saying that there is something too late to ask for leave, and take the initiative to admit your mistake If the company still insists on asking you to leave, it proves that it was premeditated.
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I think that there is actually no one right or wrong in emotional matters, only who thinks more, after all, if a girl doesn't love you, you won't care so much about all the information about boys, and boys won't be angry with girls if they don't love girls!
The main thing for men is that their girlfriends don't trust themselves! In fact, the woman's approach is indeed a little underconsidered, and you can't blindly question your boyfriend when you can't be sure, since you are looking for him to be your boyfriend, you must have at least trust, and the girl is telling the boy that I don't trust you so much!
But it is also understandable that girls sometimes care too much about their boyfriends and do do things that are not considered, which is also because women are too afraid of losing him! is like the hero who loves the hero very much in many idol bubble dramas now, but the hero doesn't love her, and the woman does whatever it takes. Of course, this is just a metaphor, not that the girl will be like in the TV series!
Girls should also have the courage to apologize, because one of the two people must bow his head first. This incident is indeed caused by the suspicion of the girl. I believe that men will definitely forgive when they see girls who dare to apologize to themselves!
But men should also learn to be tolerant and tolerant! To love your girlfriend is to love all of her, all her strengths, all her shortcomings, after all, people cannot be perfect, people always have shortcomings, including herself. Sometimes you have to learn to empathize and think about what you would do if you were yourself!
The relationship is to be managed slowly by two people, to care for it together, and to bear it together, so that the love will last for a long time.
I wish you happiness to your friends, and I wish you happiness.
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I have a different view than the upstairs.
I think the girls are doing the right thing.
On the contrary, if the boy is angry because of this.
Just rule out the reason why the boy has a bit of a character.
It's a bit of a.
The speaker has no intention and the listener has the intention.
And the fact that girls do this proves that they care a lot about boys.
He was angry and I didn't feel the need for it.
If you get angry because of this little thing, you don't have to quarrel in the future.
There's a lot going on.
What I'm talking about is that guys may have some problems with other things.
Because I think if you get angry because of a little thing, it will only prove that your heart is empty, and I don't think it will make the man feel that he is being distrusted.
Anyway, if I were a man, I would never get angry because of this.
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Since you misunderstood someone, you should apologize.
Her boyfriend just felt that his trust was being challenged.
Trust is the foundation of two people's relationship and cannot be easily destroyed - once broken, it is difficult to establish.
Therefore, if you want to give face to your boyfriend, you might as well be coquettish and admit your mistakes, hoping to restore your original trust.
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Hello, 1 person thinks it's a trivial matter, don't take it to heart.
You go to question him, it means that you are jealous, and it proves that you care about him very much, and he, as a man, will be angry because of this little misunderstanding, a little stingy, and lack a little manliness.
There is a chance for everyone to communicate and clear up misunderstandings.
I wish you all the best!
Copyist buddy, people like you are desperate, you need to find a girlfriend to make a sound. The woman you said above don't say the signature of the real estate certificate, I feel disgusted when Lima sees her mother, you are right with the woman, and you used to say that the woman touched you, that is just the surface, once people have been in contact for a long time, they can see the real inside, there is a saying that if you want to find a good girl, you can find it in the countryside, and the city is afraid that you will not be able to bear it After all, when you get married, you can't hold it hard, and you will regret it when the time comes. >>>More
It's funny. That's all there is to you!! Oh, yes, this thing is too small, let's put it intuitively, the way you persuade her is not right, analyze it, whether it is rebellion or childhood trauma, the other party is a stepfather, this point has changed levels, and then consider the trauma when she was a child, it is obvious that she herself is still holding a grudge, and you have to say that your stepfather is good for her, any girl will scold you! >>>More
No, because she doesn't really care about you.
Hehe, they misunderstood you, because you don't know how to use it urgently. But at work, this happens all the time. You have to think more about doing things yourself in the future. >>>More
My boyfriend and I had this experience as well, but we've been through it and are in a good relationship now. In fact, this can't say who is right and who is wrong, this is the difference between boys and girls, girls sometimes provoke conflicts or cold wars, sometimes they just want their boyfriends to notice themselves, especially when they doubt that they are ignored by their boyfriends or something, they are wronged and provoked, at this time they can make girls feel how much their boyfriends care about themselves, and put more energy on girls. At that time, I liked to provoke conflicts because I was insecure with my boyfriend in a long distance, but now I have run in, and after we quarrel, we will talk about why we quarreled, and my boyfriend told me not to have a cold war and to say what I thought. >>>More