Do you have a brother who is very good to you?

My brother and I have been fighting since we were children, but the older I get, the deeper the relationship becomes, and when I was still studying, my brother had already graduated and worked, and then he used his salary to change my computer and mobile phone. I didn't have a salary when I was interning, so he gave me his salary as living expenses.

When I was a child, my brother and I stood on the roof to watch the firecrackers during the Chinese New Year, and I was stupid at that time and didn't know how to cover my ears, so my brother helped me cover my ears. I was thinking that my brother helped me cover my ears, but what about his ears?

He's only three years old now, and he's the son of my parents. However, he is okay with me, every time he calls me **, I call me very sweet, and he will share his snacks for me to eat when I go home.

Since I was a child, my younger brother has taken good care of me, even now at home, for example, if I want to eat something, and I am too lazy to move, I will say soft words, please, your sister wants to eat, help take it! He had to complain every time: "Every time I ask you to help you with something, why don't you take it, you know that you are directing me."

But I'll still take it obediently.

For the first time in 41 years, I felt family affection, and my cousin was also a relative who took me to watch two movies, snacks, and a dinner, and said a very touching sentence: I bought a car and went home to live, my room was given to you, did my cousin understand? The cousin is not the own brother.

I once couldn't hold back and told my brother, who was only a few years old, a little bit about my first love, and cried (I had been abandoned at the time). My brother said he was going to beat him with a frying pan of the red wolf!

My brother is ten and a half years younger than me. A few years ago, I had a career for a few months, and I was alone in the field, and my younger brother, who had just entered junior high school at the time, said to me in **: Brother, do you have any financial difficulties, I have New Year's money, I can give you some money. I was in tears.

One day my mother talked about me getting married, and said that she hoped to have a wedding like a Korean drama, so that my father would give my hand to my man. The younger brother interjected: "When you get married, I'm going to pat your man on the shoulder, and tell him that if you dare to bully my sister, you'll die, and then I'll turn around and walk away (his eyes were red when he said it.)

I think he might cry when he sees the scene of my marriage, and we're a sentimental family.

My brother is now 185 and I am 166, so he often fights with me, and then I will bark his teeth at him, because he has bad teeth, and I have a straight tooth, and every then he will have a black line...Haha, this trick is not unpleasant! And I can eat very well, my brother will say that I am a pig, a rice bucket or something, I will grit my teeth at him, and say: Good teeth!

Appetite is good! My brother has a black line on his face again...

I was also eight years older than my brother, and every day after school, my brother would come with his family to pick me up from school, and as soon as he got out of the car, he would run and call my sister, and then pounce on my lap. When I was a child, many people told me that your parents would have a younger brother who didn't like you or something like that, and once when I heard them say that, I ran back to the room and started crying, and my brother chased me to the room and said, "Sister doesn't cry, I love you when I grow up." ”

I'm eight years younger than my brother. He was in kindergarten when I was in junior high school. My junior high school was completely closed, so I could only go home on Friday nights.

My brother came to pick me up more than my parents. When I got home, I had to share his snacks and sleep with me at night. In a blink of an eye, now that he's in college, I'm married.

My brother and I are four years apart, my father died early, and my mother grew up with my sister and brother in the empty envy shed.

We both have similar personalities and don't have very good tempers, so we grew up fighting.

But it didn't affect our relationship, in my mother's words, just after the chicken and the dog jumped and fought, turned around and played together.

My brother went to work in the field after graduating from junior high school, and as soon as he came home and saw my mother, he asked my sister what he was, and then our family chatted about his business outside the business with good food and drink.

When I got married, my brother went to send me, and my husband told me the next day, yesterday when your brother left, I cried, it turned out that not only did I think my brother and mother were the closest people in the world, but I thought it was the same in his heart, our blood is thicker than water, and this can never be changed.

Later, he also got married, became the pillar of the family, and became my strong backing in my mother's family.

There have been many times when I have trouble with my husband, and my brother has tried to help me, if I don't have such a powerful brother, I really don't know what kind of day it will be now.

So I'm very grateful to God for letting me have such a brother, giving me enough security, it's really good to have a brother.

1.Age and Responsibilities: I would consider it based on the age gap between me and my younger brother and how old I am.

If I am much older than my brother and already have relatively mature financial ability and independent ability, then I may be willing to help him. If I am still in the financial dependency phase, I may need to share the responsibility with my parents instead of providing subsidies for my younger brother alone.

2.Family's financial situation: I will first consider the family's financial situation and financial ability.

If the family's financial situation allows, and my financial situation is stable, I may be willing to provide some subsidies for my younger brother. If the family is in financial distress or I am facing financial stress myself, I may need to work with my parents to find other solutions.

3.My brother's needs and circumstances: I will consider my brother's specific needs and circumstances.

For example, if he is receiving some kind of education or training, I may be willing to provide some financial support in this regard. I also consider his life and development needs and whether there are other better solutions to meet those needs.

4.Education and Independence: In addition to providing financial subsidies, I will also encourage my younger brother to develop his independence.

I will work with my parents to develop financial awareness and resource management skills, and teach them how to spend, save and invest in moderation. I believe that such an education will be more meaningful for his future development.

5.Communication and family discussions: I will have open and honest communication with my parents and younger brother.

We need to discuss and understand each other's perspectives and needs together to ensure that we can make informed and fair decisions. Such discussions can help us find a balance that is appropriate for the interests of the family as a whole and for the individual development of each individual.

6.Brother's Effort and Commitment: I may ask my brother to show effort and commitment in some variance in exchange for my financial support.

This can be him doing well academically, participating in community service activities, or doing something extra to help the family as the case may be. In this way, I hope to motivate him to develop himself and be grateful for the support he has received.