Tell us about some people or events that are still in your mind after all these years?

We were all very happy about nothing, the most important thing was that I met the right person and did the right thing, laughing together was loud and there was almost no reason to cry when we were not together, I wish my people happiness.

When I graduated from college, the last time my dorm classmates got together, I never drank, but that day I was very drunk.

The day before I got married, my dad handed me over the real estate deed. Tell me that when a boy gets married, he will start a business, and he will have to take responsibility for his wife and children in the future.

Seven months pregnant, I took the bus home, only two stops away, but there was a father and daughter on the bus, and they insisted on giving me their seats.

I'm still single, it's been three years since I broke up with my ex, and I've been with him for seven years, and I've spent those three years of my single life honoring our love.

I have always had low self-esteem, and when I was in high school, my essay was read aloud by my Chinese teacher in front of the whole class, and that was the first time I felt confident.

My first love was in high school, and for my sake she gave up her ideal liberal arts and chose science. Although we didn't come together in the end, I always remember my persistence.

When I was in junior high school, I liked someone for the first time, and I had a crush on him for three years without confessing, and now I really regret it.

I was brought up by my grandfather since I was a child, and he left me forever the year before last, and I think that when I am gone, I will still remember him.

My best friend who grew up together, she was admitted to college, I worked part-time after graduating from high school, and now I have almost no contact because I am afraid of disturbing her life.

I still remember when my husband proposed to me, kneeling in front of me with a ring, although I have never received flowers since I got married, I am still very happy when I think about it.

I think this situation divides people, and some people will think that I didn't get it, so Chen Jingwen didn't forget it. Some people will think that his ability is limited, so they will be entangled and so on.

I never forget a person, and when I grew up, I realized that there are many of the following psychological characteristics:

1. Loneliness: Spiritually lonely, deep love, love can achieve a sense of attachment of symbiosis and coexistence, so obsession.

2. Withdrawn: There is little social interaction, not a person who allows others to enter his heart at will, and he may also be enthusiastic on the outside and cold on the inside. It is not easy to accept people to come in, so they are not very willing to empathize with other lovers.

I'd rather guard the ruins of love and mourn myself. Mourning becomes an epitaph, lost, not developed, love can always be beautiful in the heart, become a classic and eternal.

3. Low self-esteem: I don't trust that I am so beautiful, so good, I don't trust that the world is so big, so moving, and there are so many people worth loving. In the constricted and narrow heart, I love the deep love, the spiritual infatuation, and it is all deep narcissism.

4. Conservative: Men and women are lonely and conservative, and they can't release their sexual instincts, so they can only keep to the old feelings and conjectures.

5. The love experience is simple: the more love you see, the less precious it is. I love too little, so I take the state as a baby. Love a few more times, love a few more people, and experience more experiences, and it will be fine.

In fact, let go of the old love, take a step forward, find a new person to try, and the feeling of deep love will soon be gone.

Probably, love is incomprehensible, and there is no fate, so there are some regrets.

In the end, the person who appeared in our lives like a flint and a lightning bolt could only wave goodbye.

I never felt that the love of my youth should be suffocated to death, and in many people's memories of youth, I was like Xiao Shui in the Thai youth movie "The Little Thing of First Love", trying to become excellent in order to be worthy of the person I liked. The self who was in a crush, for the first time, knew that he wanted to live in front of him like a dog.

A person's youth always has to experience an unforgettable crush.

The person you really want to be with him for the rest of your life, the person you know will eventually leave, the person who you may not remember what he looks like after a few years, but you still miss him, and the person who regrets accepting him, will run through the whole youth.

Crush, this youthful and beautiful word, accompanied me throughout my junior high school girlhood. It is a ray of sunshine in my life, warming me inch after inch of youth; It is also the gentle drizzle of my youth, which moistens my girlish feelings one after another.

It made me understand the beauty of the beginning of love, like a seed, growing little by little in my heart, taking root and sprouting.

The person I never forgot would still appear in my dreams many years later, and I had fantasized about reuniting with him countless times.

I guess I wouldn't have seen each other even if I had the chance.

Not bothering is the last way I love you.

The heart is you, and the regret is you! I don't regret meeting you, because you are really a ray of light in my heart when I was young, I have loved and have no regrets.

The person hidden in my memories, the person who will still be remembered by me many years later, may you be happy and stable for the rest of your life.

It shows that you really want to change the life you lived at that time and get a good life, but you must understand that the past is what the past cannot change. Nostalgia is human nature, and if you don't forget about things, you may suffer from any psychological symptoms. You must also know that the consequences of this will be very serious on your life!

It's already doomed, you can't change it if you want to, you can't change it, why bother with it, it's better to be like those bookworms: "Grasp the knowledge, grasp the present, grasp the future" How desirable is the "future", why do you need to "cherish the present" There are bookworms who say "The road of life is originally potholes, and the road needs to be filled with your own physical strength, not to remember to block your steps" I don't know if I persuaded you, but I was persuaded a lot by myself Follow-up: What you said seems to be what I thought at the time Maybe it's because there are still fantasies in my heart, but I can't put words into words!

Because I don't want them to know! I don't want to leave it at that, but I feel so conflicted. It's because it's because of me that I'm separated, not because I don't love, but because there's a reason.

If I try to redeem it, I think it should be OK, but it's too much to worry about causing me so much Emotional things are not clear to anyone. Answer: Yes,,, just like you said, no one can say anything about feelings, maybe you put too much pressure on yourself,,, we don't know what you're for, but I feel that you are an emotional person,,, you also want to save face, and your personality is more stubborn, but my little opinion is, you still don't think about it deliberately, Even if you redeem it, I don't think the result is very good,,I don't know if it's right to say this,,It's possible that the last person to hurt is still you,,Let it be,,You can adopt it or not, just propose Sorry! Follow-up:

You said that I am an emotional person,,, but also to save face, and my personality is more stubborn Indeed, this is more like me Maybe I'm not mature enough, and I'm not rational enough. If I had made the brave decision in the first place, I think my love would have been perfect. Now I don't feel bad, but I still have a trace of nostalgia in my heart, and I always feel unwilling to let go!

Hehe answer: Concern may be a kind of beautiful memory for you! I don't feel like that's the case, maturity and feelings are two different things, maturity is your own business, but feelings are mutually tolerant, only mutual tolerance can be perfect in love, even if you are mature at that time, he doesn't work hard when he is rational enough, everything is in vain, put it when it should be, don't recall it when you shouldn't recall, live the life you want to be in, and solve the current relationship is your important thing.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars. When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

Approach life with a happy mood and a happy attitude. You will say that I tried, but I suffered too much, how can I be happy? This may be related to the influence of genetics and personal childhood experiences, according to experts, different people look at the same thing in different ways, some people look at the positive side, some people look at the negative side.

It's not easy to have a good mood every day, and it's still possible to be happy often, which you need to reverse yourself. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.

Don't think about deliberately forgetting someone, so that it is not easy to forget, and don't feel annoyed when you think of someone, but you should laugh it off, and over time, you will not sigh at your own success when you think of someone. It's not so easy to forget someone in your heart, and it's impossible to forget it completely, at most it's just to reduce the number of times you think of someone, that's all, so when you think of someone, you can miss it to the fullest, and tell yourself that you can remember it happily now, and you don't feel sad anymore. In addition, you can also find something you like to do, make yourself happy, and let your mind go free.

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It may be that I haven't been warmed for too long, so I mistakenly thought that the sunshine on his body was love, but fortunately, the cold wind woke me up.

The biggest regret is not that you missed the best person, but that when you meet a better person, you have already lost the best of yourself.

His current said that he envied me as the girl who accompanied him through his youth and hid in the deepest part of his heart. In fact, I envy her for being the one who can spend the rest of his life with him.

Those who can be together, please cherish them. Because, some people want to be together, but can't.

My extravagance is only to hope to meet you later, and then the rest of my life will be all about you.

I'm not waiting for you. The past is a poem, and Nong is a fool and he doesn't know.

Someday, you won't need a banging love, all you want is someone who won't leave you. He will give you a coat when it's cold; He will give you hot water when your stomach is upset; He will give you a hug when you are sad; Just be by your side all the time, accompany you every step of the way. It's not a rhetoric that loves a lot all day long, but a serious sentence, don't leave.

In fact, if I really want to contact you, I can persuade you with any reason. However, some things that have passed are in the past, so not bothering is my last tenderness.

I have a thousand and ten thousand reasons to see you, but I am missing one identity.

It takes you a long time to accommodate someone, just to get a message don't care too much about someone. yes, if you care about him too much, he won't care about you.

I hope you understand that I really waited for you for a long time, until I lost patience and courage before I had to let myself go. I can't describe that feeling to you, after all, you don't understand it. Anyway, it's not easy to meet someone who likes you.

It's a long time coming, you just happened to miss a me.

The person you like may not be suitable for you, and the one who is by your side is always the best. If you can't be together again, forget it, in fact, a lifetime is not that long. You must understand that you can't keep the people who are leaving, you can't wake up the people who are pretending to be asleep, and you will never be able to move the people who don't love you.

To put it bluntly, feelings are things that don't exist without contact. You didn't keep it, I didn't look back, so the rest of my life was fine. It's not that I'm pretending to be tall and don't eat the fireworks of the world, it's that you missed me who was serious at the beginning. May you be so well that you forget I've been here.

For countless moments, I was thinking about you. It turned out that I survived all these moments alone. Then you showed up, but I didn't need it.

The meaning of not being able to let go is probably that even if someone else appears around me, or even someone better, I can't help but think of you. I think of the callus on your palm when you held my hand, the smell of your breath, the last hug we had, so gentle and so heartbreaking. The end is better than the beginning of the pain, just as melting snow is colder than snow.