My boyfriend asked me to say I love him, but I refused again and again?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
63 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't understand why you didn't say it now? Since you love him, you should say it, I know you're embarrassed, but you don't say it three times in a row, and I suspect you don't like me if it were me! I've already gone through the sequence, and the boy asks you just to be sure that you really love him, so that he will focus on you in the future!

    If you are like this, you will live for the rest of your life, unless you don't like him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Why don't you say it? Or do you really not love it?

    Love needs to be expressed

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How do you say?

    I know what to do, and I still ask. Just say no, unless you don't love him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are only three good things.

    Why don't you say it? If you love him, tell him out loud, he asks you to say it three times, and if you don't say it, he will feel that you don't love him, and his self-esteem will be hurt.

    Now tell him that you love him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't want to say it, does it mean that you don't really love him, he must be angry, and everyone else would be like this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Angry, if you really love him.

    You might as well say it.

    Unless ......

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you're angry, you can coax him too, quack!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He may be angry, why don't you say it, is he treating you badly, not necessarily, in fact, you said that he would be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can say it, and whatever.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What there is in love is thinking about each other, thinking about each other from the other party's point of view, rather than blindly wanting, nor in the name of love to avoid forcing the other party to do what they don't want to do!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You have the right to refuse. It has nothing to do with loving him. Conversely, are you not an object of affection for him, but a tool for venting his desires? You ask him if he loves you or not?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You and him.

    Just because you have sex doesn't mean you have to be love.

    Is there no sex.

    Don't you love me spiritually?

    I'm just not that enthusiastic about that.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He said this, no, his desire is so strong.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The more intimate the relationship, the more Dong loves it, it's normal

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Leave it to my husband If you really love me Wait for me, there will always be a day when you will be the one who puts a wedding dress on me

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Tell him to stay until the time of marriage is the most formal!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If he is sincere, he will respect you, understand you, be considerate of you, tolerate you, and will not hurt you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let's just say it, just wait until you get married.

    If he loves you, he will wait.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    So is it the first time for him, he has to be fair.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The first time is more precious for girls, first of all, you have to find out if you want to enter the palace of marriage with this man, and whether this man thinks the same way. There is a saying, if you can't put her in a wedding dress, don't take off her clothes easily. Besides, you've been talking about it for three years, and you still keep it for the first time, so why rush it?

    And the girl has to learn to protect herself, to be responsible for herself, to her future husband, the world is unpredictable, who knows who will be who in the future?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No need to refuse, give it to him, you also have fun.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't believe what he said, he just wants to get your body,,, don't believe him easily, the first time is only once, for yourself and your future husband, be cautious. Self-love point.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Resolutely don't give, really love you and won't force you, will respect your decision, will protect you, he is selfish.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You tell him that if you really love me and care about me, please respect me, otherwise you will break up, and this man is not very reliable.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Insist on your own opinion, you can ask him when he will marry you, he does not love you, but wants to possess, so that he can dispel that idea.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't listen to him fart, you ask him directly, is it that if I don't give you the first time, you're going to break up??

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If he truly loves you, he will respect your choice.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you don't want to, don't let yourself regret it, if he really loves you, he will understand you, not force you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on whether he really loves you, and if he really loves you, and you love him, there is nothing 'no'.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you don't give it, if he wants to love you, he will protect you, such people are scum, and if you give it to him, he will have a reason to dump you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    For the first time, if you want to give yourself someone you can really entrust, you can do it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Give it to him is that he doesn't love you anymore.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If he says that, he doesn't really love you, he just wants your body.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you give it, he won't love you, and he will get what he wants

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's just forcing you to comply, and you can ignore it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Call him dead, such a man is garbage. There are no conditions for someone who truly loves you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You tell him, don't force the other person to do things you don't like when you love someone, you will give it to him in the depths of your love.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Don't be fooled, you tell him that it has nothing to do with love, and that if he loves you, he should respect you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Of course, you can't give it to him easily, if he really likes you and doesn't just break up for fun, he should understand you; If you propose to break up for this, just break up, he is not worthy of your love.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Your decision is the right one, don't take it so lightly.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    He doesn't respect you enough, so it's best not to accidentally fall into it, and then you have to be him.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You did the right thing and very much agree with your idea! Because of this to break up, then' let him break up! A person who truly loves you won't care! Looks like you're meeting a scumbag!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Breaking up is just an excuse that I'm really with him, but I won't cherish you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Don't give, I'd rather break up, my boyfriend used to be like this, but I didn't think he was good enough for me, so I didn't give it to him, and then he mentioned breaking up, and I'm glad I didn't give it to him.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You are right. Your boyfriend threatens you. Look up the information, a lot.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Or don't give it well, some of you will be like a person if you give it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You can say what's the hurry, and it will always be given to you after you get married. If he says he has to do it now, do you think you want to be irresponsible?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's normal, this kind of person is obviously only with you because you are a virgin.

    To put it bluntly, he's a scumbag! Still a scumbag with a sperm worm on his brain!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    That's a good idea, but your boyfriend is too anxious.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    You don't know him, you live with him, huh?

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You are right. I didn't want my ex-girlfriend for the first time, but she didn't understand, I love, she broke up with me, so what they wanted was sex! Not love!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You're right, don't give yourself up easily until you have made up your mind to live with him for the rest of your life!

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    It really shouldn't, you should break it off with him quickly.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    It's just that you want your body not to be worthy of your love.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    I think it's good to refuse, in case he breaks up with you, it's too late for you to regret it, because a woman's chastity, especially a woman's first time, must not be dedicated to him casually before getting a marriage certificate.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    For the first time! It's not as good as it seems!

    It hurts! I cried

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I would only give my husband the first time on the day of my wedding...

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Kid, you're still too young, tell him after college.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Draw a red line for him, don't cross it, and say please respect me! If you don't listen, then the least respect he has for you is not worthy of your love.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Directly refuse, this kind of thing can't be casual. Not to mention age, the mind is not yet mature.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Just say no! Don't want this kind of man.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Is it necessary to ask such a simple thing here?

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    If you don't give it, let him hate it, and he will ask for it again, you say that if you love me, you won't be willing to let me hurt, unless you don't love me anymore.

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