Don t many school age young people want to get married? Why?

Because for today's men and women, the premise of marriage is to be able to obtain benefits, and if the income does not meet expectations or even loses, it is impossible to get married. The vast majority of people in life are mortals, there is no vigorous love, there is no love to die and live, the probability of meeting true love after walking out of college is small and pitiful, we analyze from the position of ordinary people: from the perspective of girls, now an office woman, self-sufficiency is generally no problem, most of them hope to improve the quality of life through marriage, specifically through marriage to get a house, car, money, or to obtain spiritual benefits, such as the pleasure of appearance, life care, Spiritual dependence, etc.

If you don't have a house, a car, or a deposit, it's not good for a long time, I can't think of any other reason than to take over, yes, the reality is so cruel. Is the man all right? No, no, no.

Boys with bad conditions were directly passed. And for a man who meets the requirements of having RV money, marrying a wife has to be like Lafayette every day, spending all kinds of your money, all kinds of tricks, why bother, it is far better to be at ease alone. You say there is a lack of love and companionship?

It's not a problem for you to fall in love until you are 60 years old, anyway, there are few women nowadays who will hurt people, why do you want to get married? ‍‍

From a male point of view, afraid. Originally, I wanted to find a woman to live a simple life, I ploughed the field and you weaved, caring for each other and working together. As a result, people think that the times are different, you have to plow the fields and weave, otherwise, you are not a man.

Most women nowadays no longer have the virtuous virtues of traditional women. They want you to have a good job and move up quickly at work, but they also want you to take care of her and not allow you to work overtime and travel far away. You work hard every day to become a dog, and people come back early, but they still hope that you will take over the work of mopping the floor again, and it is better to wash your clothes again, and it is better if you can cook.

The place where I live is a mess, and there is no homekeeping to speak of. I hope to be able to travel abroad once a year, at least once every six months. As for themselves, they are average-looking, their work income is below **, and occasionally cooking requires you to wash the pot, and some of them don't even know how to cook.

You don't dare to be nice to your siblings, even if you pay for all the expenses of the family. They are not very motivated themselves, they watch entertainment programs one day, go to yoga and learn the piano, talk to their sisters about who their husbands are good to whom, and then come back and ask you again. In short, they will only take, forget to give, and be insatiable.

I don't want to be a virtuous helper, I think it's too traditional, I don't have any ability, I can't be independent, and I have to care for all kinds of things.

I really want to get married, and those who don't want to get married are a minority. At present, the most important thing to get married is the economic problem, whether there is a house, whether there is a car, how much is the salary, whether the parents need to support their children, etc. If there are no these practical problems, men and women should be able to have a lot less contradictions, after all, strange and wonderful are a minority, and whether the character is good or not, whether the three views are correct or not, whether the concept of consumption matches or not, these can be observed by themselves or from her or his friends.

I've always been clear that where there is a beginning, there is an end. In order not to end, simply reject all beginnings. We all know that love will slowly turn into family affection in marriage, and for a long few decades, I don't think I can hold on, and I don't want to see love disappear little by little, and then look at each other and get tired of each other.

It's better to be happy, be together if you like it, and you don't have to pull any marriage certificates, if you don't like it, you can separate and continue to find the next relationship. I can live well on my own, and if you want to join me in my life and you can make it more fun, then I welcome it. But if you want to be with me every day with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, I don't want to accompany me.

Relationships and marriage can only be the spice of my life. My life should be self-centered, and I will not hesitate to throw away everything that stands in my way. I am a person who will feel joy from realizing self-worth.

But love doesn't make me feel fulfilled. I didn't want to get married because I was capable enough to pursue something else instead of going around the family. I'm glad to see more and more unmarried and dink.

This means that our country is becoming more and more developed.

I don't want to get married because in the past, my parents quarreled every day in order to raise four children, a small quarrel every three days, a big quarrel every seven days, and when the quarrel was terrible, they said that you poisoned them with pesticides, why were you born, suffer! Therefore, I know more clearly that life is not easy and family is not easy! In order to avoid becoming like this myself in the future (because if I really don't have the ability, then I think I may also be like this), I want to live alone, even if I get a salary of 3,000 a month, send 1,050 back to worship the second elder, and take 1,500 myself.

I won't fall in love with others, because I will only drag others down and make others suffer, and it's enough for me to drag the second elder in my life, and it's enough to go to the eighteen layers of hell. When the second elder also goes, and then lives to be about the same age, I will kill myself! Of course, I won't cause any trouble to this society!

The main reason is that the current women are more psychologically heavy and vain, and the previous women are completely two concepts, one in the sky and one underground, drinking too much poisonous chicken soup, pastoral women's rights have come out, and they are too demanding of men and can't see themselves clearly, men are a little unhappy and force melons to say that it is all men's fault, what is the monthly salary of two or three thousand to look down on the monthly salary of more than 10,000, all kinds of work, only talk about rights and obligations, selfishness, greed and enjoyment, do not want to pay, what is the meaning of this type of woman marrying, So marriage is now a thing that has been burning money and low cost performance for men, some women will say what I want to give birth to a man and be filial to the man's parents, I will hehe, you give birth to a man, don't call this child your mother, filial piety is really not much, don't kidnap men with children and filial piety, and some boys want to live for so long, some men just don't want to waste too much time on women! It's better to be at ease alone, don't blame men for being selfish if they don't do a good job, anyway, everyone has to think differently about this problem, mainly because there are not a few women of the type I just said in China, I always believe in a sentence, people are self-aware!

Women are too expensive to get married, and they can't afford to get married, and women treat their divorce as child's play, and they don't dare to tie the knot, and now they dare to get married only if they inherit the lineage as everything, and it is a woman who can give birth to a baby.

It's not that I don't want to, it's that I can't Background, I'm a Shanghai drifter. With my current salary and position, I can't find a similar one in Nanjing, and it's really not always available.

Some people say, you can't sacrifice and go back to Nanjing first? I asked rhetorically, if I am demoted and my salary cut, will the girl who used to look up to me look up to me again? Now, basically, whether it is in the Shanghai work circle or the Nanjing blind date circle, I am a hot item, and everyone is vying to get in touch.

But there is no real hope of developing to get married. So, it's not that I don't want to, but I can't.

Just like today, after a day of moving bricks on the construction site, climbing up and down, freezing for a day, when I got home, my boyfriend said that he hadn't eaten yet and asked me to order takeout for him, but the fact is that my salary at the end of the month is 1500, and his salary is more than three times that of mine, and I don't pay rent, I don't pay heating, I don't care about water and electricity (I queue for two hours each time to buy it), and occasionally buy a dish....Then the businesses were closed and asked me to cook for him, and I said that I was tired for a day and didn't want to cook, so let him get some food by himself, and he began to count me down for not doing anything at home, and I couldn't drag my tired body to cook for him, and at the same time put the clothes that had been piled up on the sofa for a few days and washed them in the washing machine. I really couldn't say anything at this moment, and it strengthened my idea that I didn't want to get married. Don't say that you are unladylike, I think marriage is a burden at all, why should you get married?

I don't want to get married, it's good to be alone, now I'm 20, I'm still in college, I hope to continue to study and work hard to earn money, support myself, buy a car and a house, my parents raised me so big, I want to honor them well, that's enough! Also, I'm lazy and longing for freedom

Women are not obliged to let men be fathers, men do not recognize the value of childbirth, why should women be burdened and unpleasant. Let men be taught a lesson in the last name!

The family is not good, and it has never been seriously pursued by a person.

Don't look for a city lady, you can't afford to wait. Or it's okay to be single all the time.

Today's girls are more feminist.

Is there a game for getting married? If you don't have a game to play, why get married?

1. Unwilling to be unscrupulous.

After all, marriage is not child's play, and once a choice is made, no matter what the outcome is, it will have an irreversible impact on our future.

Many people feel that people who come together through blind dates do not have a deep emotional foundation, they don't know much about each other, and they even have to talk about marriage after just a few months of getting along, which is more like completing a task than choosing a lover.

You can't be sure if he's good enough, if he's a good person, if he's not in too much contact, and if he's going to get married, he's going to have an intimate relationship. Although feelings can be cultivated, after all, it takes time, and as the shortcomings of both parties are exposed little by little after marriage, there will inevitably be more contradictions in the absence of an emotional foundation, which will affect the harmony of life.

On the contrary, no one does not fantasize about being able to experience an unforgettable love, to be able to hold the hand of their lover and walk into the palace of marriage together.

2. Excessive pressure in life.

Compared with the previous generation, the post-90s and post-00s generations are facing exponentially increased pressure despite living in an era of extreme material abundance.

As an adult with full capacity for behavior, the first thing after entering the society is to completely get rid of the protection of parents and be able to live independently, but whether in a first-tier city or a small county, it is not easy for us to support ourselves when we just enter the society, let alone get married.

After all, the house, the car, and the bride price, the three mountains that can't be moved, can completely crush anyone to the ground and can't get up. If we choose to get married under such circumstances, it is conceivable that we will not be able to shoulder the burden of life at all, and gnawing old age has become the only choice.

Starting a business first and then starting a family is not only responsible for yourself but also responsible for your family and lover, after all, whether it is gnawing on old age or paying off debts, it seems to be a very bad thing.

I feel that the age of marriage is 24 or 26 years old, which is a more appropriate age for marriage. Because marriage at this age is generally mature both physically and psychologically, and it also has personal experience, it is tired of personal single life, and it is eager to have a happy family life. More importantly, it is important for women in this age group to have a more stable job and be able to share the burden of the family, because family life needs the support of both men and women.

In fact, sometimes there is no need to consider age when getting married, as long as you reach the legal age of marriage stipulated by the state. Two people truly love each other, and both parties feel that they are suitable together. If you are happy and have the ability to support the life of the whole family, you can register for marriage.

The reasons for not wanting to get married are:

1.Alone, you can also have a good life.

A person can support the years and live freely, although this kind of life occasionally feels like something is missing, more often it will only feel that it is good to live like this. Since a person can live well, the desire for love and marriage will naturally not be so strong.

2.I didn't meet the right person, and I didn't want to compromise.

It is often said that life is improvised, and there is no perfect. However, even though two people will have all kinds of problems together, many people still have their own expectations for the future other half, before everything comes to firewood, rice, oil and salt.

Compared with finding someone to marry because of pressure and age, more people hope that their other half is what they really like, and the other party is also sincere enough to them. A low-quality marriage is far inferior to a high-quality single. If there will be regrets no matter how you choose this path in life, then the most important thing is to make yourself comfortable.

3.I feel that marriage is too expensive and tiring, and it is good to be single.

In contrast, if you are alone, you only need to support yourself, and you only need to take care of your own mood, which seems to be much easier, and life is much better than getting married.

Moreover, the pressure of life, the high cost of living, housing, children's schooling, self-support, etc., most people's income cannot solve the above problems, and it is difficult to get married, so they are afraid of marriage.

To be honest, marriage may not be as good as imagined, but there is no need to be unwilling to love, or choose not to get married. For marriage, you don't have to settle, but you don't have to reject it, you still have to look for it and try to experience it as much as possible.