How will the influence of fathers and mothers on the development of children differ in the family?

A person is born with two directions. One is intimacy, in which the mother has a natural advantage, and the other is openness, in which the father has a natural advantage. Therefore, it is true that the direction of the influence of fathers and mothers on children's education is different.

Maternal teaching is a kind of root teaching, and the policy is to make life moisturized and full. From birth to elementary school, the teaching and experience that a person undertakes is the foundation of his life, and during this period, the child's first day is at home, receiving home education. Children spend the most time at home with their mothers.

Every detail of the mother's interaction with the child, from breastfeeding the child to dressing and eating, constitutes a cultural whole, and the influence of this whole on the child is lifelong.

It can be said that the mother's learning attitude determines the child's academic performance, and this is not to say that the mother is required to urge the child to study, find him a good school, find a good teacher, but whether the mother herself has active learning, willing to change, not afraid of failure, and dare to try innovative practices. When a child hears and sees what his mother is doing, he will naturally try to learn from him.

Therefore, the mother's behavior is a role model for the child. Since the child is born with a blank slate, curiosity, learning ability and imitation ability are the strongest periods in life in early childhood, so the mother's preferences and behavioral habits will be imitated and learned by the child intentionally or unintentionally.

On the other hand, paternity teaching is a kind of backbone teaching, and the policy is to establish the backbone of life. Therefore, when the child is a little older, the influence of the father's education is far greater than the mother's education.

If you want to be a good father, start by doing some small things well: be a squatting father, whimsical with your children, enjoy reading with your children, take your children on long trips, and broaden your horizons.

Both fathers and mothers have a particularly strong influence on their children, including appearance, IQ and personality. From a genetic point of view, half of a child's genes come from the father and half from the mother, so the child's appearance, IQ and personality all have characteristics from the father and mother. Of course, children's growth is not only based on congenital genes, but also has a great relationship with acquired education and training.

During the child's growth, in terms of family structure, there is a father, a mother, and the mother is more delicate and emotional, while the father is more rational and has a view of the overall situation, so for the child, the father gives the child who is currently irreplaceable, and the child who lacks father's love will be more sensitive, fragile, and prone to extremes. Father's love and mother's love are equally important, and the lack of the same will have a profound impact on the child, and even the life can not make up for it. Fathers and mothers have different influences on their children at different stages.

Parents are role models for their children, tiger fathers have no dogs, mothers are filial to children. Nowadays, everyone is very busy, and even too busy to spend time with their children, resulting in many problem children, which is the result of the lack of father's love and mother's love. Whether a person has a tutor or not, tutoring is home education, and children learn from their parents.

Hello, fathers generally bring children a deep love but not publicity, and the father's sense of responsibility and responsibility makes it easier for children to learn, and the father's hands-on and decisive and brave ability is easy for children to learn. However, what our mothers will teach their children is a careful, kind and tolerant quality. Moreover, it is generally easier for mothers to think twice before doing things, so let children be brave and full of vigilance and sensitivity.

Finally, the mother brings to the child in general sensibility, while the father is generally a symbol of reason.

The love that parents have for their children is both the love we give to our children directly and the love we give to our children through each other. While we love our children, we also love each other very well, so the other party will pass on this love to the children. This process is a bit like when a child is breastfeeding, and the husband knows how to let the mother eat more good and nutritious things, so that there will be sufficient and nutritious milk to feed his child.

And the same logic applies in ordinary life. Because in most families, the mother is the main caregiver and educator of the child, and the mother's emotions determine her attitude towards the child. And most of us will have this feeling, that is, when we are in a bad mood, no matter how many theories we know, they are empty, and we will be uncontrollably angry, especially when facing children.

This is especially true for women. And a father who loves the mother of the child will undoubtedly give his wife a good mood, and this good mood supports the wife to run the family with higher enthusiasm and face the child with more patience.

Another key point is that the father's attitude towards his mother will make the boy naturally learn to treat women as a gentleman, and the girl will naturally learn to enjoy life, and the boy who comes out of such a family will know how to treat his wife well, and the woman who comes out of such a family will be more likely to reap happiness.

In the past, the education was "loving mother and strict father", that is, in the process of children's growth, the father was always "singing black face" - tall, mighty, stern, and indifferent, and the mother was always "singing red face" - kind, charitable, soft, and loving, which also affected the character traits of fortitude and humility, decisiveness and subtlety in the growth of children. Under this kind of family education, the formation of children's personalities may be relatively extreme, that is, they are either like their fathers or their mothers, and they are likely to be unbalanced.

In modern family education, many experts believe that "strict mothers and loving fathers" should be advocated, so that the influence of parents on the formation of children's personalities in the process of growth will be more balanced.

In the family, the influence of the father and the mother on the child is very different, because the father's perseverance and resolute character are very related to the child's personality formation, and the mother's tenderness can also affect the child's growth.

The father affects the child's behavior, the mother affects the child's IQ and character, all the external performance will be affected by the way the parents get along, the character determines the fate, the choice changes the life, the character is affected by the parents, and life will naturally have different opportunities. The father plays a decisive role in the future development of the child, while the mother plays a decisive role in the child's future family mate.

In a family, father and mother, is not a multiple-choice question.

Fathers and mothers have different tendencies in their education, and it is not possible to simply assess who has the greatest influence.

As a father, he gives his children a leading approach that is pioneering, adventurous, a little stern and frustrating.

From the father, the child learns how to create, how to take responsibility, how to take risks, how to progress, what is boundary, what is principled, these are the so-called male power.

As a mother, it is a soft education method, and children learn from their mothers how to be careful, how to nourish, and how to tolerate, which are female powers.

As a mother, I will love my children with all my heart, so in my children's hearts, the mother is the harbor, and the mother is the guardian. But the role of dad can't be replaced by mom. For a boy, dad is a role model who influences what kind of man he will become.

For a girl, her father is the first man she comes into contact with, and her father is a symbol of security that determines what kind of partner she will find in the future. In the traditional life, the father is outside the home, and the mother is inside the family, and now there are mothers who are working hard outside, and the father is guarding the family at home, and the father takes the baby from a different perspective to promote the progress of the child.

In a family, the father and the mother have different methods of educating their children, the father may be the stricter one, while the mother is the kind of nurturing education, so the two methods of education are completely different.

Parents are the best teachers for children, and whether parents teach well or not has a great impact on children's growth.

The power of example is great, subtle.

I can't raise my godfather's fault, and I can't teach my mother to be lazy.

The father brings the child brave, it is easier to improve the child's courage and ability to deal with problems independently, the mother brings the child delicate, more able to understand others, good at observing the difference in life, can better empathize, push oneself and others.

The influence of fathers and mothers on children is certain.

In a family, the father is like a mountain for the child, and the father will affect the child's pattern and the child's perception of the outside world. Therefore, it can also be seen that for children, the father's company is also very important. In fact, if the father's pattern is big, then the child's pattern will be big.

And if the father teaches the child more knowledge points in front of the child, then the child's cognition will gradually broaden. Some parents are very poor at their children's education, so their children's growth is also poor.

While not paying attention to children, they focus on some things outside of education every day. Moreover, while the father is educating the child, if the education given to the child is strict, then the child will become very restrained, afraid to communicate with the father, and also afraid to stay with the father. The father's harshness towards the child also affects the child's personality later in life, and for most children, they crave better communication with their father.

But because the figure of the father itself is very serious, they feel that the father and themselves cannot talk together. And every father should see his position in the family clearly, and don't think that his serious education can make his children grow. You must learn to play with your child, learn to accompany your child, and let your child know that he is also very gentle.

Only by staying in the state of a friend with the child will the child be willing to accept the father.

And many fathers don't spend much time with their children because they earn money outside the home all year round. In the only time available, fathers should also learn to give their children love and care, instead of being stingy with their praise and care. Don't use the old way of education on today's children, otherwise it will not only lead to incomplete children's cognition, but also make children unable to achieve a comprehensive improvement under this cognition.

I hope that the father will change his education method in order to make his children's lives more sound.

The influence of fathers on children is very great, which can make boys have a sense of responsibility, give girls enough security, and make children's personalities more lively and cheerful, with a tenacious character.

The impact is particularly significant. Because a father's love is like a mountain, and the father is the backbone of the family and the pillar of the family, the father's behavior will affect the child's life and will also affect the child's character. So the father must be a good example.

The influence of the father on the child is very great, because the father plays a vital role in the child, and many of the children's behaviors will imitate the father.

What influence does a father have on a child's development?

First, it has an impact on the development of children's gender roles.

When talking about the influence of homeschooling on children, we usually say that mothers play an important role in children's education, while fathers' influence on children's growth is easily overlooked. The famous psychologist Gedi once said: "The appearance of a father is a special existence, which has a special power for cultivating children."

A child's initial perception of gender comes from their parents, and children often imitate their parents' behavior to form their own gender roles.

Studies have shown that without a fixed father figure, boys will lack role identity and masculine characteristics, thus becoming weak, lacking independence, autonomy and persistence of goals, prone to the formation of boys' feminine tendencies, poor adaptability to the environment, and difficult to adapt to men's independent life. At the same time, the image of the father can also have an impact on the gender role of girls. By observing the words and deeds of the father, a perception of the opposite sex is formed.

If the role of a father is missing in the process of growing up, then problems such as anxiety and confusion will arise when dealing with men during adolescence.

Second, it has an impact on the child's intellectual development.

Psychological studies have found that children who are raised by their fathers themselves, whether boys or girls, not only develop better academically and professionally than their peers, but also have greater empathy for others and a closer relationship with their parents. In family education, mothers pay more attention to the details of education, and fathers pay more attention to the overall and direction of their children's education. Increasing the amount of time a father spends with his child helps to improve the child's logic and planning.

Third, it has an impact on the child's personality.

In the play interaction between fathers and children, interactive games are mostly motor and technical, and fathers have a greater influence on children with their inherent masculine characteristics. The characteristics of enthusiasm, generosity, and risk-taking become a model for children to learn and imitate, which is conducive to the formation of a more perfect personality foundation for children. For example, when a father takes his child to exercise, he will encounter various difficulties and challenges in the process of exercising.

In the process of constantly pushing the limits, he gained a sense of accomplishment, learned courage and perseverance, and cultivated the qualities of enterprise, self-confidence and determination in his character.