What is the heart of a child growing up in a divorced single parent family?

Children from divorced families often show low self-esteem, loneliness, reluctance to contact others, and avoidance of family-related topics. The solution, of course, is best for the parents to reconcile. The second is that the family should give care, and the society should give love.

To give him more love, don't let him feel that he lacks maternal love or fatherly love, play the role of two people, mother and father, not all single parents will have problems in their hearts, the main thing depends on how to teach him, and love.

When I was about 13 years old, my parents divorced, and now I'm 13 years old, and my heart is always unstable, and I always want to cry all of a sudden, in fact, even if my parents don't divorce, I think, they don't have a good time. There's no way, I can't control it, I just look forward to being coquettish to my dad in front of my dad again. But for me it can't be.

Hehe, there is no way, since it is already like this, I have to pray silently. I wish my father a safe life, and I can't be filial to him anymore. I really feel that the road ahead is so confusing.

People with psychological problems don't necessarily come from single-parent families.

Some people do not come from single-parent families, but they also have psychological and personality problems.

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Families that do not have a little love for their children are more harmful to their children, and many parents shout under the guise of being good for their children. It's better not to get divorced. But the quarrels at home continue all day long, and when the child comes home like opening a blind box, you never know if there is a restless dog behind the door.

When they quarreled, they scolded each other, smashed things, and then said to the child. If it weren't for you, I would have divorced her ...... him

quarrels every day, dies and doesn't get divorced, and you still need to fool your children. Your parents will not divorce for you, this is not home, it is the bottom of the heart. Surviving in such a family is the greatest damage to the child.

Children are always scared, their hearts are full of fear, and they never have a sense of belonging and belonging to the family, and this kind of psychological trauma may last a lifetime. I once heard a friend who had close parents who were alive and had detailed family details say that 80% of her unhappiness in her life was due to her parents. If the parents are there, but the child never knows what deep love is, this is not more sad.

Money and love must always be the same, and there are some family standards although not very good. But the parents love each other and the family is harmonious, and the children do not have sufficient financial support, but they have won sufficient emotional comfort and the confidence of love. I am afraid that many families will continue to quarrel for a long time, but they will be poor, and children will not only have to bear the mental damage of their families and parents, but also bear the lack of self-confidence brought by poverty, which is the most fatal harm to children.

Gu Ailing and Jay Chou warned us that it is not scary to hold the skin alone. If the emotions of the parents are really to the point where they can't reconcile, they can no longer create a healthy and harmonious family environment together, and it is a good choice to leave. After the divorce of the husband and wife, they coexist with a different real identity.

It is very likely to reduce the feeling of seeing each other in the past, but to be more peaceful and coexistent, and each other is still thinking about the child, at this time, you can give the child a stable mood and environment, so that the child gets a lot of love. It is expected that parents will know that what their children's development needs is relatively stable financial and emotional support, that is, someone who loves them has money to spend. It is really not as big as the legend is that it is not related to single parents.

It should be a family where parents don't care about their children. It will lead to a great lack of love for the child, and it will also make the child very lonely and lonely.

What hurts the child a lot is to kidnap the child morally in the name of being good for the child, not caring about the child and not having parents by the child's side.

Parents who do not have a harmonious relationship and always quarrel and cannot provide a harmonious and warm environment for their children's growth, which is the most harmful to children.

Whether it is an adult or a child, there are all kinds of negative emotions.

Adults will self-adjust, children do not have a good ability to self-regulate, then they need the help of parents to help children adjust their bad emotions in a timely manner, but single-parent families.

children, lack of parental care, emotional adjustment can cause a lot of damage.

There are many children who do not understand their parents and hate their parents because of their parents' divorce, in fact, their hearts are very conflicted, and they hate their parents while hoping to get their parents' love, so after knowing that their parents are divorced, children will involuntarily do some extreme and out-of-the-ordinary things, so as to arouse the attention of their parents and others, and even want to do something more serious, so that their parents can feel guilty for a lifetime. Divorce of parents can easily make children feel abandoned, so as to dislike or hate their parents, especially when they see their peers spoiled in front of their parents, their psychology is more complicated, coupled with the ridicule of their peers around them, they will be afraid to interact with others, behave more reticently, and dare not make friends, do not understand the joy of friendship, only loneliness. At first, the child experiences the living environment of his parents, and later sees the process of his parents becoming single parents, and will think that feelings are not trustworthy.

Because for children, the relationship between themselves and their parents should be the most solid relationship in the world, if this kind of relationship can be broken casually, then there is no relationship in the world that can be trusted.

Along with the feeling of abandonment, a strong sense of insecurity can arise in the child's heart.

The intact family of the past no longer exists, and the child will become very lonely. Children are not only facing restrictions such as living environment and economic conditions, which are not as secure as before, but even facing an unknown new family, and children are very insecure in their hearts. In the past, in a complete family, the parents made money together, or the parents supported each other, and the economic conditions would be better, but in a single-parent family, only one party can make money, which will correspondingly reduce the standard of living, especially the children who follow the mother, will also bear the financial burden of the family prematurely.

Single-parent families will have a certain impact on children's psychology, children will no longer have expectations for love, children are more fragile, and they are likely to be afraid to make friends and become withdrawn.

It will lead to low self-esteem, and it will also lead to children's lack of self-confidence, which will make children very cowardly and have no clear judgment ability in the process of interacting with others, and will also affect children's health and affect children's psychological state.

After divorce, single-parent families have a great impact on the growth of children, and children in single-parent families are unsound and insecure, so parents are advised not to divorce for the sake of their children.

I think that children from divorced single-parent families will have all kinds of problems, and their psychological factors are either lack of father's love, or lack of mother's love, or they have lost confidence in marriage, or they have an aversion to um, the opposite sex, in short, they will be more or less thinner in their hearts, and the impact is because they are. Fear of being hurt, that's why it's like this.