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Don't let your desires control your heart, and don't try to suppress your desires. All you have to do is pay attention to it and take it seriously. If it is not in the positive range (hope, expectation, gratitude, love and joy), then or choose to let it go; Or, more simply, go for a simpler desire idea, such as spending money on an unforgettable experience, choosing to watch a play, planning a trip, or taking a comfortable hot bath.
There will definitely be a difference between desire and ability, sometimes ability is greater than desire, then desire is easy to achieve, for example, I have 100 yuan now, I want to eat an ice cream, that is very simple, as long as you find a convenience store, you can achieve it. Then if you only have 100 yuan in your hand and you want to go to Eason Chan's concert, then you can only make good money and postpone the realization of your desire.
If you always think that I just want to watch a concert, but the money is not enough, I am useless, and the money is really hateful, then you can only scold yourself and the bright red coin, or scold the organizer for why the ticket price is so expensive.
After analyzing and comparing abilities and desires, find the distance between the two, either to enhance your abilities and learn skills, or to lower your desires and slowly realize them.
When the advanced desire does not match the existing ability, do not deny all the previous efforts made to acquire the ability, it may really be your mentality is wrong, analyze the crux of the problem objectively, and do a good job of "desire reduction" or "ability enhancement" change, perhaps, the problem can be solved.
The way you see the world reflects your inner thoughts, the happy eyes see the beauty of the world, the tired eyes see the ugliness of the world, and the eyes of desire always dislike the imperfection of the world.
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The road must be walked by itself, the hardships must be borne by oneself, and no one can give all dependence. Don't avoid, don't retreat, face with an open-minded attitude, and yours will eventually come! Marriage, love, must tolerate each other, cherish each other, to 80....
90 years old, think about how beautiful it is, hold on to what belongs to you, let go if it doesn't belong to you, find a boyfriend and girlfriend, you love me, in order to succeed.
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Let you skin her???
It shouldn't be interesting... But I'll give you something to show that the relationship between friends is not bad.。。。
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What kind of factory is it? And then let's analyze it.
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It means auspicious. But in love, some say that the crush means that I love you, and some say that it is sweet and sour love.
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Girls naturally like to share things, and giving you an orange may just be that she happens to have an orange and gives you one for a cousin.
This is not a noteworthy move.
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The first time I met a girl, he gave you an orange, I think it should be. I like you. Thing. It's done.
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The first time I met with a girl, I gave you an orange, maybe he just had an orange, he could only send an orange to you, he himself was resigning, and at this time he gave you one, not to say that he wanted to give you an orange, when they met for the first time, if you were in a relationship, you could also exchange gifts to give her a memorable souvenir.
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This is also to avoid the embarrassment of the first meeting between the two parties and having nothing to talk about.
This girl is very smart.
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There may not be any special meaning, you don't have to think about it, you can have more contact with girls and increase understanding.
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It's nothing, the girl's personality is pretty good. Very welcoming. Also sensible. It's supposed to be a very knowledgeable girl.
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I've taken a fancy to you. When you smell the fragrance of oranges, you will think of this beautiful lady. You are so blessed.
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I'm going to buy a few oranges, and you stand here and don't move.
From Zhu Ziqing's "Back".
Zhu Ziqing was going to study in Peking at that time, and his father sent him to the station and told him not to move around, go buy a few oranges and come back, and then the author was very moved when he saw his father's back.
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Congratulations! You can definitely reconcile. I'm also a girl, the reason why she said to consider thinking about it is actually to let you reflect on yourself, she is giving each other time to make your relationship more mature and strong, quarrels and breakups are compulsory courses in love.
She actually wants you to recognize your shortcomings, and she still cares about you. All you have to do is find an opportunity to admit your mistakes, talk to her sincerely, give her a step and she will reconcile, the girl is very coaxing. Come on, wait for your good news.
Good luck to the two of you soon!!
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Who proposed to break up first? You? Why do you regret bringing it up!
She? She loves why you want to break up!
If I deliberately give two oranges to a boy, I must like him, because I love oranges! I mean give you my favorites!
I just don't know what your girlfriend thinks!
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It's going to be fine. Rest assured. Don't always pester her, tell her to be quiet after a while.
I'll promise you, but I can't think about it in wartime!
If she's really dead, then she won't pay attention to you.
Don't be in a hurry!
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When it is possible, it is possible, but it can't be too forceful, let people think that you are very busy, you have to be not far from her, let people feel that you are by your side, and you have enough private space. She'll consider being with you again.
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Yes, I don't think you have done enough to care about her, so I said to break up, I hope you cherish it, it's not easy to find someone who loves you!
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Haha, of course, it's a breakup commemoration
It means 88 (oranges have to be broken and eaten, so it's 88).
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The custom of giving oranges to each other during the Spring Festival is popular in the coastal areas of our country, and this custom is closely related to the culture of the Chinese nation. In the folk, people are accustomed to write orange characters as orange characters, and orange characters and auspicious characters are very similar, in the Spring Festival, folk use oranges to give each other auspicious, hoping to be auspicious in the new year.
In Chaozhou, people call citrus orange, and its homonym is "Daji", therefore, to the relatives' house to celebrate the New Year to bring citrus, the host will take his own orange and the guest to bring the exchange, in order to do their goodwill.
Anyway, I think it's all good intentions. Girls need to be coaxed slowly, don't be in a hurry, tell you not to scream, maybe it's that kind of coquettish expression.
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Women are also easy to mess around! If you don't hurry, you probably won't be able to get there.
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When it's okay, keep going with her
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Feed the oranges. That is, what it means to please - well. Yes. was flattered.
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Oranges peeled like peeled oranges hahaha.
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You think too much, maybe she ate an orange and felt sour.
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You give her a sweet and sour feeling, so she notes this. It's also possible that she likes to eat oranges very much, and you are the person she likes very much, so you are equal to oranges.
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It can only mean that this is the nickname given to you by your girlfriend, and I think you look like an orange.
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Maybe it's for good sound, easy to remember, or maybe this girl loves oranges.
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If you like someone, you will give her (him) a nickname that belongs only to you and me, such as I like to call someone I like'Han Bao', I have a girlfriend who notes the boy she likes'Daughter-in-law'In short, I like you, your nickname, milk name, nickname, nickname can only be taken by me, I call. Thank you for adopting.
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Maybe this boyfriend is like an orange, sometimes sweet and warm, and sometimes it will make the girlfriend sour and uncomfortable.
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Girlfriend notes to boyfriend, orange is a nickname, sweet and sour is you.
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Oranges are sweet and sour, maybe I just like this sweet and sour feeling.
What does that mean? Only by asking her will you know.
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The name itself is a code name that distinguishes it from others, and the note is more of a mark for you to know, so it's convenient for you to pay attention to it.
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I gave my male girlfriend a note that yes
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