They think what I m saying is childish, and think I m not as normal as 20 years old?

Judging from what is said in the group chat, it is really childish, not like the appearance of a 20-year-old person. Maybe you are also relatively young, so everyone judges that you are only in your teens based on these. That's normal.

In fact, if you speak naïvely, it means that you have less experience, and then you are more simple, and there is no bad meaning.

Because you are a very simple person, you speak like a child, so they think that what you say is childish, but this is actually quite good. It shows that you are a very kind person.

I don't think it's normal for them to feel this way, I read a few words you said, I don't think you're naïve, I think you used to be quite normal, so you don't care what other people think of you? Do what you have to do?

Read more books, usually improve yourself, make more useful friends, you know, and then I have a diary, called talking and doing things, and write down your harvest and insights at any time, and then you are a little young, and you will carve out more things after experiencing more things.

Normal, maybe everyone sees the problem differently.

Hello, I think maturity and naivety, are relative, so they think you speak childishly, that's their understanding, what do you think?

It's possible, I don't think you need to worry too much about it! After all, people only learn to grow slowly.

It is true that many of us do not match our personalities and ages, so it is inevitable that there will be such a statement, but in fact, it is nothing.

At the age of 20, it is time to mature, but people's growth environment and personality are different, so it is understandable that you are like this.

Depending on what you say, these words are a bit naïve. It's not very mature, but you'll mature over time.

Twenty-two years old is not a very old age, but it is not young, in the eyes of the older generation, it is indeed necessary to understand many things, to understand the world, not like a child who does not understand anything, will not, is simply a big child.

1.If you rarely go far away, often stay with your parents, with some good friends, and don't experience too many things, you will still be very naïve in front of some things, you don't have the ability to exercise to deal with things, your parents will also treat you as a child in many aspects of daily life, and it will also make a lot of your words and ideas very naïve, your age is growing, yes, but your thoughts are not growing with your age. Your views on many things will be a little more childish, that is, naïve, it is a difficult thing to grow up in proportion to your age and ideas, and you may not realize that you have always been surrounded by the same group of people, how can you know that you are different from other circles of people, everyone has their own circle, we have to dare to make our own comfort zone, to see the outside world, this will help you grow, so that you are not so naïve.

2.Your own heart has not grown up, you have experienced very few things, and you have not seen some very realistic things in life and society, you will retain the kinder and naïve side of people, naïve can also be said to be childish, when you are facing difficulties, others will not think that you have the ability to deal with this problem, and reality proves that you have indeed not, in fact, age is not the reason for others to laugh at you, naivety is.

3.In the stage of your life growth, you spend most of your time at home and school, at home you are the baby of the family, although there are teachers and teachers in school, but teachers are for the sake of your grades, most of your classmates are also like you, and the idea is relatively simple, and there are not people in the society like philistine, your thinking will be relatively naïve, to be honest, the impact of the environment on people is really big, the people you come into contact with are kind, and you have not met the great evil, It is also very possible that you have a good view of the world, that others have experienced and understood more than you, and that your thoughts and words will be more mature than you.

You are a 20-year-old girl, and many people say that you are naïve, and I don't know why everyone says that you are too naïve. In fact, you feel that you are very simple, honest, and don't know that you are **naïve. Sometimes it's not that you're naïve, it's that the world doesn't know when it's getting so complicated.

In the past, we always thought that it was a good thing for people to live a simple and happy life. And now if people want to live a simpler life, they will be perceived by others as naïve, stupid, and have low emotional intelligence. In fact, I think that people have become too complicated, and people in the past are easily satisfied, so they don't think so much, care so much, and calculate so much.

And now, people are becoming more and more materially greedy. Everything has to be considered for pros and cons. Almost everyone has the potential to be a conspirator.

So naïve, simple, honest people become an alternative sign of disdain to be like them. It's hard to stay true to your original intention and always be yourself. Sometimes, people who were originally very simple will become complicated after the baptism of society.

But I still hope you can keep your original self. Even if we can't change the world, don't let it change easily.

You are a 20-year-old girl, many people say that you are naïve, it may be true, or it is possible that outsiders only look at your appearance and do not really understand your heart and have misunderstandings about you. In fact, you are a good child who is simple and honest, just try to be yourself, and don't be influenced by external factors.

Observe your own behavior more to see if there are a lot of immaturity, if the problem is not big, you can ignore the opinions of others, after all, no one is perfect.

Of course, if you are naïve or ignorant of some of your ideas, perhaps you have less social experience.

You may feel that you lack the maturity of your peers from your words and actions or demeanor. The idea is relatively simple. The mind is relatively immature. May feel more childish. Sometimes this simplicity is not bad. Because some maturity comes with suffering.

People are like this, they know how to talk about others and comment on others with a mouth, and there are very few people who can reflect on themselves and comment on themselves. Don't care too much about what other people think, because they don't understand you and talk about you casually, there's no need to pay attention to people like them. You have self-knowledge, you just need to know yourself clearly.

Girl, don't care about the person who says you're naïve, who isn't naïve, growing up is just turning what you think is a big deal, into a process that doesn't matter, don't care what others say, this is also a kind of growth refueling, 20 years old.

Actually, I think it's okay to look at the right things, for friends and family, I think it's okay to be naïve, and for work, 9 It's better to be mature for people.

It may be caused by the influence of the family of origin. Don't care what other people think, just go your own way, just be able to distinguish between right and wrong.

In addition, "naïve" does not mean that there is no wisdom, naïve is a neutral word.

The reason why the word is related to "ignorance" is because in childhood, childishness and childishness often appear at the same time as ignorance, so naivety is used to refer to ignorance. Strictly wrong, it leads to cognitive errors that children must be ignorant. Children also have wisdom, and I have probably heard many examples of philosophers and scientists praising children.

The innocence of adults, that is, the free and easy and dignified temperament, does need material guarantees so that they do not have to ask for society. If the economy is not independent, the personality will not be independent, and if the personality is not independent, the mind will not be independent. Lu Xun and Li Ao can show their true temperament, because they have little demand from others in society, and they may not care about the approval of others in society.

Because they initially faced a lot of disapproval from others in society, the biggest one was the disapproval of **. However, material guarantees are not necessarily naïve, and material guarantees are only necessary conditions, not sufficient conditions.

There is no right or wrong in this case, everyone's growth environment and the people they meet are different, so their minds and ideas are definitely different.

It's not wrong, it's still necessary to mature when it's time to mature.

Mature as soon as possible, sooner or later you will grow up.

It's normal, I'm still naïve at the age of 40.