What should I do when I am rejected by a girl!

Updated on psychology 2024-06-16
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There are two scenarios when encountering this kind of problem:

    One is that she does treat you as a brother, if so, then you have to change the way you get along now and choose a new way of appearance and contact.

    If so, then you have to insist, try to understand the other party's innermost thoughts from different angles, and know yourself and the other party in order to survive the battle

    Whatever the case may be, you have to be confident, constantly confident

    Imagine if a girl likes a boy who hesitates to make promises, if you are confident enough, you will be in the upper position in love, and you will be relatively proactive

    Or you can continue to care for each other first, keep caring, take care of everything, and care as a friend first

    Then I want to get away with it, and don't take the initiative to look for her for a week or two, so that she will not get used to it

    Remember, to make him feel that you are very different, you have to keep learning to recharge yourself

    Finally, I remind you that no matter what the outcome is, you should not be too attached, because you are still young, you still have a long way to go, and if you are worth it, there will be people who will approach you

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's no big deal, fall, get up, cry again....Hehe, just kidding, why does the big husband have no wife, maybe it's the wrong time, or maybe it's the wrong place, but what does this mean? I can't explain anything, if you admit it, then I suggest you cry, if you feel like a man, there are two ways: 1 play your greatest advantage, attack again, 2 turn around gracefully, there is no one here, there is a place to keep people. Hehe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Dude, this matter depends on whether the school where you and she will go to school right away is a city, so there is hope, and the dead face is chasing! If it's a long-distance relationship, then give it up! It's going to be tiring, and when you get to college, you'll be better than her...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    For your question, first of all, every girl is qualified to be a princess in a fairy tale. Don't you think it's really feasible for you to just say a word or two in exchange for a girl's approval?

    Also, when a person is frustrated (frustrated, not going well), her emotions will be affected, do you think about your future? They all have to go back to school.

    If you really like it, show some sincerity.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In my opinion, let's let it go, there is no grass at the end of the world....

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ay! It's that you can't lose it, and it's not that you can't grab it

    Love is something to talk about....

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because confessing that a person is in pain when they are rejected, it is very irresponsible for their own health. It is a fact that we have been rejected and cannot be changed, but we can change our attitude towards this matter and adjust our mood. Don't just pay attention to the person in front of you, there are many people who love you and are silently watching you behind your back.

    Don't just stare at one person, but open your eyes and reach out to someone who is better than this one.

    If the other party rejects you after you express their hearts, and has a very bad attitude towards you, and all kinds of bad words are resigned, then this kind of person can ignore her. Because this kind of person is not good at dealing with people, even after being with her, you will be in a lower position than her everywhere, and you will feel that everything you do for her is deserved, and it is difficult to find your goodness. It's impossible to be very good to you, two people will easily have conflicts, and life will naturally not be pleasant.

    There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but you can't like the wrong person. To love someone is also to love with dignity, no one is inseparable from anyone in a person's life, and there is no stipulation who is to serve whom. Life is neither long nor short, and you must live your own posture to live this life in vain.

    If it's a good friend who has been with you for a long time and the relationship has become awkward because of your confession, you shouldn't give up right away. You can continue to choose to be friends with the other person, but don't reveal that you still have intentions for the other person. It may be that the good old days are gone, but you can reconnect with each other as a normal friend, and she can't refuse your friendship.

    If you are not friends with the other party, you can also take the opportunity of confession to let the other party know you and become her friend.

    You think you are excellent in the other person's mind, but the other person may not take you seriously at all. The first impression cannot be broken, but you can improve your image in the other person's heart and become the person that the other person likes. Analyze your own shortcomings, the reasons for your failures, whether you are not the type that the other party likes or the other party does not understand you, whether the other party has no feelings for you or your age, wealth and other indicators have not been reached, solve the symptoms, do not deal with it blindly.

    A confession failure does not mean that you are useless, after the confession failure, you must adjust your mentality, be more confident, improve yourself through learning, and improve your personal charm. Whether it is the external dress or the internal cultivation temperament, it will add points to yourself and make you more favored by the opposite sex. Confession failure must be that you are not enough of the other party's standards, not good enough, constantly improve yourself and learn the skills of getting along with the opposite sex, I believe you will definitely meet someone who appreciates you.

    Therefore, after being rejected, you should not stay in this stage of loss, but should rise up, improve yourself, and wait for the right person to appear at the right time with the best attitude.

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