What do you regret the most, what is the most guilty, sad thing?

What I feel most guilty about is that I still have nothing to do, gnawing at home every day, looking at my parents' gray hair, and feeling particularly incompetent.

When I was a child, I was ignorant, so I set fire to my house, and my parents struggled for another three years to live in a new house.

After getting married, I lived separately from my parents because of my wife's relationship, and I was considerate of my wife, but I felt a little guilty about my parents.

When my grandfather died, I was taking the college entrance examination, and my whole family didn't tell me that I was afraid of affecting my studies, and now I regret it.

Now I go home twice a year when I get married, and I feel that my parents have raised a daughter like me for nothing, and I can't see them twice a year.

After divorcing my ex-wife, my 70-year-old mother helped me take care of my son every day and took care of my daily life, and I was unable to change it.

When I was an adolescent, I quarreled with my parents because of rebellion, and now I feel quite guilty, and I was really stupid or too young at that time.

The friends around my parents are already full of children and grandchildren, but I am the only one who has not let them hold their grandchildren.

regrets that he didn't treat his wife well, always hurt her again and again, felt guilty about his son, and didn't give him a complete home.

Growing up, I never told my mom that I loved you. I think it's a hurdle for me.

When my grandfather was about to be cremated, there was a farewell ceremony outside the glass cover, and then he would be pulled out and cremated, and they asked me to leave, and I didn't want to leave but left obediently, and every time I thought about it for the past 20 years, I felt extremely regretful, extremely regretful, extremely regretful, and ......

Leaving all the smiling faces to outsiders and giving all the tempers to Xihu's own people is probably the thing I regret the most and feel the saddest.

When I was studying, I always felt hard, I wanted to fall in love, and then I wasted ten years of my youth for an unrequited love.

I shouldn't have suspected him of hurting me.

When I was in college, I felt that the most humiliating thing was failing the course, because I didn't study hard and caused myself to fail, so I also felt very ashamed.

At the beginning of my sophomore year, I passed the make-up exam after some targeted revision. At that time, I said to myself, "This is the first time I have failed a course in college, and it must be the last."

Aside from a series of small or big impacts, but also because I don't want to be embarrassed, I don't want to live up to myself.

After that, like a "prodigal son", I began to listen to lectures seriously, study seriously, not only the kind of learning from books, but also began to spend my leisure time in the library, constantly browsing those books that study** and reading more.

Gradually, the idea of "not wanting to fail in college" became "not wanting to achieve nothing in college".

I don't want to end my four-year college career, and everyone will go their separate ways, some stay in school, some go away, and I will still be as confused and useless as when I entered the college campus.

In fact, many times, whether on campus or in the workplace, we have more or less done some "embarrassing" things, but in the end, what determines you and him is your choice after experiencing "embarrassing" things.

We can't prevent all mistakes from happening, the probability of such things is zero, we can only minimize the occurrence of mistakes as much as possible, and the only way is to make ourselves better.

As Camus said, "I don't expect life to go well, but I want to be its opponent when it comes to difficulties." ”

The most regrettable thing should be a waste of time, almost at the end of the year, there will be a habit of looking back on the past, feeling that a lot of the time has been wasted, and there is no good change in yourself. Of course, there is no regret medicine in this world, so I can only keep it in my heart.

The thing I regret the most is that I didn't go to the sea to start a business. Because I was one of the few college students who studied computer science at that time, there were very few people in society who made computers, and even fewer who made software.

At that time, for the sake of my family, I wanted a stable family and was responsible for the children's family, and I finally gave up this idea.

Now that I think about it, my heart is indeed too small, and if I dare to come out, it may be more difficult at first, but it will definitely get better and better in the future.

The thing I regret the most is that when I was a child, I didn't listen to the teacher's words and studied hard to learn math and cheats, and dropped out of junior high school, so that I couldn't find a good job without a degree, so I could only work in the society and suffer from it.

Veterinarian finished, <>

If I can choose again, I don't want to choose my current major, I don't like it so much, but at that time, I didn't do well in the college entrance examination, and my family wanted to choose a good job when I chose a major, but I really didn't like it at the time, but because of the small number of exams, I didn't dare to say anything, and now it's really Nosan who doesn't like the current job, <>

I like animals very much, cats and dogs, I feel very relaxed with them, you are really good to them, they will sense, but with people, all day long, intrigues, I cheat, too tired, I am sincere to people, in exchange for may be deception, <>

If I want to study veterinary medicine, I can rescue small animals when they are sick, and I am very happy to think about it, and I think my life will become more interesting, at least more interesting than now, <>

But in reality, how can there be ifs, and where can there be new choices?

1.Didn't do what I wanted to do.

A lot of times, we're always pushing ourselves, wearing masks, and doing things we don't like. No matter how scrappy he once was, in the end he was all rubbed off the edges, lost to reality, and lost to blandness. There is nothing I regret most in life than not being brave.

Go after your heart's desire, be yourself, and do what you want to do. I'd rather laugh and cry than cry and regret.

2.The dream did not come true.

It's hard to be able to hold on to your dreams and put them into action. For dreams, what people really regret is not that they did not achieve it, but that they did not pursue it. When you are doing nothing, growing old, looking back on your past life, will you regret that you have achieved nothing?

The biggest regret in life is that I could have been. Take 100 points of effort to chase your dreams, and even if you fail, at least you won't regret that you didn't do it.

3.I've done something that I'm sorry for my conscience.

People make mistakes to a greater or lesser extent throughout their lives. When you are young, you don't know if the sky is high or you are impulsive and frivolous, and you will inevitably do something that you regret. However, there are some mistakes that have irreparable consequences, and when you think of what you have done, you will feel uneasy and regretful.

But since the matter has already happened, what is the use of blindly blaming yourself? Instead of living with guilt, learn your lessons, always remind yourself, and think twice.

4.Spend your life swayed by feelings.

The most easily stumbling block is feelings. It is not the whole of life, but it can affect a person's life. Or you are used to being emotional, or you are stuck in a quagmire and can't extricate yourself, when you can't control yourself, you will lose your rationality and be controlled by your feelings.

In such a life, it is easy to fall into myths, lose yourself, and wait until you have nothing to do before you know how stupid you are. Don't be confused in your heart, don't be trapped in your feelings, so that your life can be well.

5.Didn't try to help others.

People are sometimes selfish. In the face of other people's helplessness, he is obviously capable, but for the sake of interests, he is afraid of getting into trouble, so he finally chooses to ignore it. Often in retrospect, I will feel unbearable and ashamed.

In fact, when you help others, you are also helping yourself. A little thing, do your part, when you illuminate the darkness of others, you are also illuminating your own life.

Each of us should often look back at the path we've traveled and ask ourselves:"What do I regret the most? "

A Belgian magazine conducted a special survey of the elderly over 60 years old in the country. The title is:"What do you regret the most? "More than a dozen things in life that are easy to regret are listed for the respondents to choose from. So, there is such a result—

72% regret that they didn't work hard enough when they were younger, and that they didn't succeed in their careers. If you work for others, you also work, you rest for others, and you entertain for others, then you can only get what others get. If you want to get what others can't get, you have to pay what others don't want to give.

Especially when you're young and there's still a chance to compete. Also entertaining, then what others get, you can only get. If you want to get what others can't get, you have to pay what others don't want to give.

Especially when you're young and there's still a chance to compete.

67% regret making the wrong choice of career when they were younger. It should be said that the mistake is not in what career you choose, but in choosing stability. The concept of choosing a career at the time is for many people"First goal", yes"Drought and flood protection"。

When the time comes, you will be able to get a salary and receive benefits. But they forget that without pressure, there is no motivation. Without motivation, you can't tap into potential.

It's not that there are too few Bole in the world, but that he buried himself.

Sixty-three per cent regretted not educating their children enough or using the wrong methods. These parents did not regret it at the time and even thought they had done it"That's right"。Until years later, found to follow their own"mode", their own"Experience"and their own"Method:", and did not make their children talented, they will regret it"Education is not enough"or"Improper method"。

58% regret not exercising enough. I forgot who said this:"Before the age of 60, I want to exchange my body for everything, and after the age of 60, I want to use it to switch bodies.

As a spirit, perhaps worth advocating. But forcibly push"Sick car"、"Broken car", you can only push more and more sick, push more and more bad, shorten the life of the car, reduce the value of the car.

Only 11% regret not making more money. This can be a good consolation for young and middle-aged people who haven't made a lot of money yet. Although you can do a lot of things with money, making money is not the most important purpose in life.

Regret when you are young can still be improved; When you are old, you regret it, and it is too late to make amends.

Therefore, each of us should always look back at the road we have traveled and ask ourselves: What do I regret the most?

Personally, I think it's something that should be mine, but it's lost for my own reasons, and I can't get it back.

I regret not going to college, and I regret that I don't know much about marriage.

Lost what he liked best.

Take a person too seriously and take yourself too lightly.

……I regret that I didn't take online classes and didn't keep up with my studies. Today, a bunch of seniors (netizens) encouraged me to study, and I really regret that I didn't take online classes.