Why is it always cold when chatting with someone I like?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, the family is the best place to exercise a person's eloquence, a family is happy, parents and children have a peaceful mind, share interesting things in life with each other, so that children can develop a good personality, but also let them become the leader of the topic and have a good expression of appeal. Back to the topic, it is true that the more you like it, the easier it is to talk awkwardly, when a person faces his sweetheart, there will be a lot of complex emotions, nervous, excited, happy, scared...Once so many emotions are intertwined, it is easy for a person's brain to become blank and clumsy, and awkward conversations will arise, and the more you put your mind into it, the more serious it will be. To solve this problem:

    1. Expand your horizons, and there will be more topics when your horizons are broadened; Second, there are more common topics to learn more about each other's lives; 3. Improve emotional management ability (emotional intelligence) and alleviate the impact of emotions on reason (this is the same as some people have poor stage performance and some people are stronger); Fourth, improve the appeal (talking interestingly), the awkward conversation is actually two-sided, but it is just that the result is borne by the active party. Improve your chat appeal, naturally the other party is interested in chatting more, and it is not so easy to talk awkwardly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because he doesn't like you, it's useless for you to find a topic, because he'll talk to death, and then don't expect him to throw out a new topic.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1. Study more and enrich your knowledge, so that when chatting with others.

    Just a little more. 2. Learn.

    The easiest way to do this is, "As soon as you say this, I think of something else." "Then start a new topic.

    If you are interested, the topic is sufficient, such a topic is enough. If this topic is finished, a new topic will be brought to you right away.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm afraid of talking about the wrong thing, but it's nothing? I want to say to my dear: If you don't organize a classmate meeting, relax your mind. Kill more than one stone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I care too much about each other, and I'm a little restrained.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because in fact, you should have body language, which is the true thought of your heart, and it is also the most natural way to express it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If one person continues to be cold, it's just that the other party doesn't want to take care of themselves, so the reason is that the person you like doesn't like you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be careful, afraid that he will hate me, afraid of saying the wrong thing and annoying him, maybe it is from the time he deleted me, no longer nagging like before, I am clingy just because I miss you too much, and you have become the focus of my life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because there is a lot of talking, people who don't like it are too lazy to chat, how can there be a cold talk.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She doesn't like you, and then replies to you with an oh or um, or laughing and crying, and you still let me find a topic,

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's because words are not speculative.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because people don't like you!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The other person picks up topics that you don't like or don't want to think about for a while.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I haven't found anything to talk about yet, I don't know what to talk about, if two people can talk nonsense, there is no cold field.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I care too much about other people's feelings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm still nervous, I'm afraid that what I'm saying is not right.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not because he doesn't like you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Not really like each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Who knows, maybe it's unfamiliar, but it seems uncomfortable, right?!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't know what to say, I don't know how to say it, I don't dare to say it, I'm afraid that he will hate me if I say the wrong thing. When we walked together after school every day, I could feel that he was always looking for a topic, and I felt like my head was empty.

    But when he is not there, this becomes a thief, that is, he wants to say what he wants, he will not have too many worries, and from time to time he will tell a joke to liven up the atmosphere, and he can't say it as soon as he comes

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