Should the child be kept in free range or captivity?

I think children should be free-range, because such children are subject to too much constraints, which is not conducive to the improvement of children's comprehensive abilities.

It should be free-range, and it is impossible for parents to be with their children all the time, so they should still be free-range and let the children do something independently.

I think it should be free-range, because it can promote the child's character development, can promote the child's growth and development, and is better for the child's growth.

Captivity will make children very good, and it will also allow children to get a particularly good job in the future, and parents should be responsible.

The choice between captivity and free-range is actually a question of how parents grasp the "degree" in the process of educating their children. In reality, there are examples of successes and failures in educating children in both ways. The most typical example of free-range children is the fairy tale king Zheng Yuanjie.

He was ordered to drop out of school when he was in the fourth grade because he wrote that "early bugs are eaten by birds." This has created a generation of fairy tale kings. Captive children are born successful.

They follow the route of their parents all the way, the school's education system, and step on the shoulders of giants and forge ahead. You can't say that captive babies are mediocre.

The reason why parents hesitate to do so and attack each other is because of the influence of the "black and white" concept, which leads to mistakes. In recent years, under the influence of the concept of "free-range" education, many parents adhere to the principle of "free-range" and implement free-range education, but the effect is not ideal, because they do not grasp the essence of "free-range" and are mere formalities. Parents who only advocate captive breeding find that children who "follow the rules" seem to have a number of problems, most notably a lack of independence.

Whether the child is released or in captivity, see these major differences, don't let this simple choice make a mistake, what is the difference between free-range and captive children?

The so-called "free-range" refers to allowing children to grow up in a relaxed environment, allowing children to be properly exposed to nature and society from an early age, and receiving social training earlier, rather than a rigorous, dogmatic test-taking education. The advantage of free-range education is that it can stimulate children's exploration autonomy and is conducive to the cultivation of independent character. Children who grow up in this environment tend to be more assertive, hands-on, dare to put forward their own ideas, and can actively implement them.

The relationship with parents is also open-ended. The biggest misunderstanding is that many parents regard "hoarding" as "laissez-faire", and deviate from the educational goals, resulting in the destruction of educational results. On October 18, 2015, three left-behind children beat the female teacher on duty to death after stealing from a store, making it clear that:

Under the age of 14, there is no need to go to jail". There was also a 5-year-old boy who locked a 2-year-old girl in the elevator and pressed the 18th floor, leading to.

In the city, many parents are too busy with work and do not have time to take care of their children's studies and life. They think that as long as they can financially support their children, they can send them to kindergartens, nannies, or the elderly. In rural areas, the problem of left-behind children is even more worrying.

They are almost completely in a state of "reserve", and their psychological state is worrying.

It will be better for children to be stocked, and I will choose to teach children to be stocked, because in the process of stocking, children can form a strong physique, reduce the chance of getting sick, and can make children have a good ability to communicate with others and develop a good temper.

I think it's better for children to be free-range, and I will choose to be free-range, because free-range children are generally outgoing and brave, independent and self-reliant, and can do some things on their own, which can make their children better.

I will choose free-range, so that I can cultivate the child's independence ability, cultivate the child's problem-solving ability, the child can have his own ideas, can face life better, and the ability to resist frustration will be stronger.

Will choose to stocking, so that you can cultivate the child's independent ability, cultivate the child's ability to deal with punishment grades, the child may have his own ideas, can better face the career, and the ability to resist frustration will be stronger.

Educate children that they should be free-range.

First of all, "free-range" is not "laissez-faire".

Some parents regard "free-range" as "laissez-faire", and parents who are busy with work, career or part-time work to make money all day long provide their children with only the security of life, and ignore the inner world of their children? Education experts believe that in modern society, families should try to avoid closed and isolated "captivity", and should also abandon unrestrained and laissez-faire "free-range" - which can easily lead to the lack of children's gregariousness and cooperation, and are most likely to form "problem children".

Secondly, do not use your child's small age as an excuse to forgive him for his bad habits. Every child is a blank slate before they form a habit, so establishing a good behavior habit from scratch can benefit him for life, and parents will be much more relaxed because of it.

Loving your child is not the same as doing everything for him. The current education is that parents are too protective of their children, and their children have become well-behaved babies. A new term has recently emerged in Japan"Herbivorous man"。

In a nutshell, men are becoming more and more feminine, unwilling to take on family and social responsibilities, unable to withstand failures and setbacks, and still rely on their parents to live with their parents. The reason for this phenomenon is the parents"Overprotection"。Being too protective of the child seems to be the parents who love the child and worry about everything for him.

In fact, he is missing the opportunity for his growth. In the end, the parents began to complain again, why are our children not growing up, and we have to worry about it at such an age, but in fact, the problem is all on ourselves. So don't blame the child for being bad, but reflect on yourself.

Finally, let the child suffer the frustration himself. Many parents are afraid of their children's setbacks and do everything they can to protect them. As everyone knows, this kind of protection that does not let him suffer losses can easily turn the child into a coward in the end.

Children often have more courage than adults to make mistakes, and at the same time, they have more courage to push their limits. Frustration education is easy to say, to look at the child's failure with a calm mood, in fact, it is also a psychological challenge for parents.

The appearance of "I am a mother in the United States" continues to impact the sight and hearing of Americans, and at the same time it has set off a lot of repercussions in China! Because it is in the "parent" world, it is even more extraordinary! Influenced by the new ideas of parents about educating their children!

The book tells the legendary experience of a Chinese mother who made her two daughters become ** prodigies through her strict discipline of her daughters! Chinese mother Chua Meier uses "Chinese-style" education methods to nurture her two daughters! After an arduous struggle and a "battle of wits and courage" with her daughters, Sophia and Luisa finally became the first prodigy!

Among them, Cai Meier's strict teaching method made the term "tiger mother" come into being!

In the United States, a country that advocates happy education, the strict education model of "captivity" is not recognized by most people. Of course, children under the "free-range" style do not necessarily refuse to learn, and children under the "captive" education do not all learn well. The key lies in the details of education, and the details are often not enough to be noticed, this detail is the correct guidance of parents, leading children to a brighter direction on the way to school!

People are born with a blank slate, and education can make people understand many things. Everyone's educational experience is different, and the "pictures" left on the "blank paper" are also different. How to make their children draw beautiful pictures on "paper" makes many parents rack their brains.

No one is born very studious, and they are all guided by nurture. And what is good to learn? What will it work for you?

It's something that people can't understand when they're children, so they need the guidance of their parents. It is not enough to have a direction, no one will supervise the quality of learning, and it will be difficult to stand out, so at this time, the strict discipline of parents is important. Educating children cannot rely on school alone, family education is more important than school education, which requires parents to have firm beliefs, strict discipline of their children, and appropriate skills and correct guidance!

Parents should integrate into their children's learning atmosphere, so that children know that the progress in learning is not only their own business, but also makes parents happy and sad! This is like an airplane flying in the sky, delineating the destination, in order to get to the destination faster and safer, the tower is indispensable, when there is a deviation from the course, the correct navigation of the tower can make it less detours, and the navigation is safer! All parents have to do is be this "tower dispatcher"!

Nowadays, parents in China are often confused about whether it is feasible to educate their children in captivity, "captivity", or "free-range". "Tiger Mom" tells us with her own story that with a positive and correct oriental education, supplemented by appropriate skills and perseverance, oriental education can also give birth to flowers that are admirable to people!

When parents conduct a free-range safety education for their children, they should set a rule for their children, and they should not let their children be free at will. Parents can give their children a certain degree of freedom, but they can't give their children all the freedom, parents should explain this rule to their children, and let their children be safe and free within this rule, otherwise there will be punishment. Parents should use rules to regulate some of their children's behaviors, and they can't let their children's behaviors do as they please, which is not okay.

When parents educate their children in the free range, they must carefully grasp this degree, if parents do not grasp this degree, it will make the child become very reckless. Children will learn bad behaviors, form bad concepts, and cause children to have wrong cognitions, which will lead to defects in the child's personality and cause psychological deviations. Therefore, it is very important for parents to know how to master this hands-off education.

The degree is not well grasped on the impact on the child.

Misconceptions are formed.

If the parents just carry out a stocking of the child, and do not do some proper guidance or education, this will make the child form a wrong concept. Because parents do not teach their children which concepts are good and which are wrong, children mistakenly believe that all concepts are good and learn bad ideas, which leads to the formation of wrong ideas in children.

Develop a flawed character.

The child's personality is easily affected by the environment when he is young, if the child is given a free-range safety education, if the parents do not carry out a proper regulation of the child's behavior, it will make the child form a bad sexual character, will let the child form a wanton, selfish character, and even cause harm to themselves.

This degree of grasp is very important for the child's education, parents must not think that completely letting go of the child is good for the child, you must know that completely letting go will only lead the result in a bad direction. In the end, it becomes a good intention to do bad things, and you must know that the appropriate letting go is the best education for children.

Regarding the cultivation of children, some parents think that captive children can set rules for their children and can better adapt to the rules. And some parents think that free-range breeding will give their children more freedom, and their children will be more creative and willing to explore. So is it better to raise children in captivity or free-range?

The so-called free-range is to let the child find his own playmates, find happiness, do not restrict the child, and respect the child's ideas. And if all the children are really raised, the parents are not at ease, after all, the children are still young and still lack the ability to protect themselves. It's a good idea to give your child freedom while being in captivity, and to give your child bounded love.

We can first set up rules for our children, let them know what the bottom line is, and let them live freely within this range.

Captivity can teach children to understand the rules, and children who know the rules and boundaries can better adapt to the rules of society. Free-range care allows children to feel more free and to be able to do things independently. It can also develop children's independence.

Therefore, the combination of captivity and free-range breeding can better raise children.

When children enter the age of 3-6, they begin to have their own initial awareness, and from the age of 7-12 they begin to have initial contact with society (school) and learn how to be self-reliant. When entering adolescence at the age of 13-18, children's self-awareness will be very strong, and parents and teachers are also needed to help children establish a correct outlook on life and values, and guide children to make the right choices.

Family education plays a key role in the process of raising children, are the three views of parents correct? Is there an environment in the home that is not conducive to the child's development? For example, adults play games and mahjong every day, and they don't care about communicating with children.

Are social interactions complicated? Do you find time to spend with your child every day? These are the most important factors in a child's development.

If you want a good child, be a parent who grows up with your child, so that your child is the best, whether in captivity or free-range!

In fact, in the process of children's growth, it is also a process of gradual transformation from captivity to stocking. If in this process, it is not good for the child to be over-the-top or captive. I also believe that our parents can grasp this degree in the process of slowly groping.