I like a guy, but I don t like his appearance

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since you don't like his appearance, then leave him, loving someone doesn't have to be perfect, at least feel better. But judging from what you described, you like him very much, but you can't accept his shortcomings, no one is perfect, don't ask right and wrong when you love someone, it's just a question of fit or not, if you feel that his appearance is really not suitable for you, other characteristics such as personality, temperament, empathy, excellence, family background, etc. For him, give him a chance to meet, and then see how the development is, whether there is any change, which is more conducive to the two of you to further understand and communicate with each other, assuming that you have met, get along for a while, and still feel that his appearance shortcomings overshadow all his characteristics, it is not too late to break up, the imaginary love is very romantic, there is a feeling, but the mirage-like love built in the air, the bright moon in the water, will affect your real feeling in reality in the future, then assume that you break up, how do you face the new love, What about new feelings that need to be based on the reality of mutual understanding and liking? Give yourself and him a chance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The Appearance Association, you got him before it's too late... Ambiguous play with the dead.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Or see each other, give others one last chance, what we are most afraid of is not to love the wrong person, but to miss.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello Although love at first sight is because of looks, there are many other beautiful things besides looks, and no one will care about anything because of their looks and get along with a person for a long time.

    And I think your words reveal inferiority, where people will not like a person because of their looks, unless you are ugly, otherwise no one will dislike you because of you, besides, even if you can't take advantage of your looks, what about the rest? There is always something to get your hands on, if you don't have it, then why do people like you, and then the radish greens have their own love, don't be too entangled in this problem, improving yourself is the most important thing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1.The guy you like doesn't like you, and you can't simply think of it as a problem with your appearance, maybe it's because of other reasons, and such a simple thought will increase your confusion and lack of confidence.

    2.Except for celebrities and vase influencers, most of us are ordinary-looking, so we are ordinary people. It is precisely because of ordinary people that society can function well. Including the boys you like, they should also be ordinary people.

    3.A person's appearance is important, but it is only a part of the person, and it is unreliable to talk about friends and relationships based on their appearance alone.

    4.Because of this, it is likely that there are other reasons why you like a guy and don't like you, such as he already has a girl he likes, or he has more important things to do now, and he doesn't care about falling in love, or he deliberately snubs you and tests you, etc.

    5.No matter what the reason, the most important thing is to be yourself, a sunny, confident, thoughtful, and energetic girl will definitely meet a prince charming who is happy with each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The man you like doesn't like you, maybe someone else already has a goal and a favorite person in their hearts, and they don't know what you look like, so don't blame yourself. Or you are not confident in yourself, appearance is only one aspect of people, the most important thing is to be kind in heart. will live a life and be able to grow old together, and love it for a lifetime.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is impossible to say that there is no appearance factor, after all, the premise of liking a person is first to look pleasing to the eye.

    However, it is also unlikely just because of the looks, there are many factors to like a person, and similarly, there are many factors to dislike a person. Cultivation, taste, temperament, and even the person he likes in his heart, etc., may cause him to dislike you.

    So don't generalize, and don't deny yourself. Being true to yourself is the best state for love to begin.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting souls are one in a thousand. Sometimes we like someone, not because of their looks, perhaps, two people who met for the first time will be attracted to each other because of their appearance, but as time goes by, the eyes can see more and more, and we will slowly find that it is something else that keeps the relationship lasting. Therefore, what girls like about boys is not necessarily their looks, but these three places.

    1. Sense of responsibility and responsibility.

    Boys take on more responsibility in the identification of society, and they are always expected to play the role of pillars. Therefore, when choosing a boyfriend, girls will definitely regard whether the other party has a sense of responsibility as an important criterion, and a person who can be responsible for society, work, and family must be a person worthy of lifelong trust. In love, girls just want to be a little princess and just want to be pampered, so the boy's boyfriend must be a very attractive **.

    2. Humor. Staying with a boring person can also become boring yourself. When it comes to chatting, most guys talk less than girls, and a sense of humor becomes a good thing. Although, your words are relatively few, but every sentence is just right, which will make girls feel that you are a very interesting person, the art of speaking is a compulsory course for lovers in their lives, in what kind of occasion, what kind of words to say, learn these, will make your love offensive twice as effective with half the effort, so that the distance between the two is getting closer and closer.

    Humor is a good thing to spice up the atmosphere, and a humorous guy will make a girl laugh a lot.

    3. Be careful and considerate.

    Although we know that generally speaking, boys will be more informal and rough than girls, but we still want our boyfriends to be more careful and considerate, a boy who can remember your birthday and your preferences is definitely more pleasing to girls than a boy like a wooden fish, take care of him when he is sick, create surprises on anniversaries, and share joys and sorrows with girls is very popular.

    In the eyes of a lover, appearance is not the most important. Only if you love her enough, we will all be able to solve it together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not all, the boy you like you think must be handsome, sunny, strong, tall, this is the appearance, but how long have you been with him, does he know you? Does he know you! What does he do to you?

    Wait a minute. And how do you know he doesn't like you? Boys and girls have to attract each other to like each other to make friends, friends can be said to be in love a little deeper, it is a long-term process, not to say like or dislike when you meet, long-term mutual examination of each other's established love relationship is reliable and sweet!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love is not a thing that you look beautiful, boys must like you, beautiful is one thing, inner beauty is the most important. This boy doesn't like you, it's not that you look, it's not that you don't have a beautiful soul, the most important thing is that you're not his dish, not the inner type he likes. He doesn't like you, but there are boys who like you, wait, wait for other boys to pick your dish.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When girls like boys, boys tend not to cherish them very much. On the other hand, if a boy likes a girl, and he can't catch up with him, he will cherish it very specially. If you like a guy, do everything you can to let him know that you don't care about him.

    But once in a while, let him know that you follow him. One day, after a special point attracts him, he will pay attention to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The boy you like doesn't like you, is it because of your looks, there are reasons for this, but it's not limited to this, there are many reasons why a person likes or dislikes a person, don't dwell on it so much, love should be happy with each other, the twisted melon is not sweet, I think you are not very bad, clean up your mood, work hard, I believe that one day you will meet someone who likes you from each other, come on.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This can be said not because of looks, there are many reasons.

    For example, hobbies are different. Personality incompatibility.

    Maybe it's because he doesn't like your type of girl. That's all the reason why guys don't like you.

    If you are ugly, you can't get married.

    Guys don't like you because of your looks, it's just that you haven't met guys who like you.

    Don't be discouraged, you will find guys who like you.

    Wishing you happiness!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's good to look average, it's not that important, the important thing is the person's inner character quality, besides, everyone's appearance will slowly age, so there's really no need to care too much about it, after a long time, the two people's personalities are compatible, which is the reason to be together, no matter how good-looking the personality is, it won't be good.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If this boy likes a girl with a beautiful appearance, it may not last long, because people don't get along with others all by appearance, some smell the same, and some don't speculate more than half a sentence, mainly depending on whether there is a common topic to be good, don't think about it, if you see a boy like it, he will marry if he doesn't get along and don't understand, you have to understand. Women can't risk giving themselves to one person, that's a lifetime.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Like a boy, you like him and he doesn't like you? Maybe it's because of your looks! If you look good, beautiful and precise pressure, can it? It must be because he always doesn't attract him, and if he doesn't like it, just pull him down, just stay away from him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Looks must account for a large part of the reason, because people's first impression is reflected by their appearance. The appearance is beautiful, and the following depends on the personality, values, quality and other factors to determine whether it is likable or not.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Probably not! There are many reasons why boys don't like someone, such as not feeling for each other, or the other person is not the type they like.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If not, it's other factors, such as whether there is a common topic and so on.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If it's someone who likes someone else because of their looks, that person must be very superficial. But I think character is better than appearance. After all, you don't know your heart

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