Why would anyone want to guard a man who doesn t love them?

I also wonder why. It may be what he owed him in his previous life, and he will pay it back in this life. There's simply no way to lose.

I think someone asks this kind of question, probably because you haven't loved. I always told him that he must try to love someone, because this feeling is something I will never forget in my life. Even if I didn't stay with him in the future, I didn't regret it.

Because I can say I loved.

I remember that when I gave was when he was unhappy, I was with him, and when he was in trouble, as long as I knew, I would find a way to help him, and I would definitely finish it. I love the feeling of dominating his life. I want him to depend on me so much that he can't live without me, and that will be mine one day.

When he was in college, the boy was always willing to go out to play, eat, drink or something, but his living expenses were not enough to support his expenses. Sometimes he uses Alipay's Huabei, and sometimes he borrows money. I feel like I can help him.

Every month, hundreds of living expenses are saved and sent to him. It's rare, but it's not bad. I still remember that I didn't have any money when I was about to go on vacation, and he still owed money in Alipay, and I worked a few days before the holiday, when I didn't take the exam, I worked to make money to pay him back, of course, just that once, because I didn't have money at that time, so I had to go out to make money.

And then help him pay back the money.

However, I found that no matter how good I was to him. He won't even look at me anymore. He has a girlfriend who has a very good relationship.

Every time I look for him, he always gets ** to play with him, and then he will leave me and go on his own. Every time! At that time, I realized that I was like a fool.

People don't even look at you, but you're still following with a dead face. Even went so far as to fight her in front of me, she didn't care if I was around, and she didn't consider my feelings at all. He may take it for granted, and feel that no matter how much he hurts me, I will not leave him, so he keeps hurting unconditionally.

Maybe you are not the kind of person who has no temper, but you have nothing in front of him, and you are like a supplicant, praying that he will look at you and feel satisfied.

I could only accept it, and I didn't resist.

One time I was in a bad mood and didn't fall asleep at two or three o'clock at night, and then he happened to go to play and didn't go back to school. I talked to him and said I was in a bad mood. He immediately called me and asked me what was wrong.

I was very impressed at the time. Feel that all your efforts are worth it. Actually, I don't want much, that is, you can be by my side when I need you.

Even if you don't say anything, just stay with me.

I'm probably what my friends call fools. Because they all said that he was not worthy of me, because they felt that I was good enough and worthy of better, and there was no need to hang myself from a tree. But I liked someone for four years and I didn't want to lose it at all.

Even if I'm a stranger now, I'll try to get back to where I want to be. This is love. The only person I've ever loved I don't want to lose.

So we will continue to try to keep it.

I hope that all people like me can get what they want.

Guarding a man who doesn't love himself, I think there are several main reasons. <>1. There is no dead heart.

Because she was in love with that man, even though that man was not interesting to her. But generally, as long as the man doesn't really make the woman die, such as when he gets married, or if he says something that hurts the woman's heart. Then there will always be a glimmer of hope in this woman's heart, and there will be the idea that "one day he will fall in love with herself".

In that case, she would not want to leave the man. After all, hope is not lost.

2. There is no choice.

Many times, when we look at other people, it seems that they have a choice when faced with some situation, but in fact, they may not have a choice. Because love can be lost a lot of times. And when a person is lost, there is no ability to choose.

It's like you're addicted, and you don't have a choice. For example, when some people are in love, they will fall into a state of "zero IQ". When she is in love, she looks at her lover beautifully, but after the love stage, she suddenly found that she has so many things that she doesn't like.

So, if this woman is lost in love. Then she will only guard that man until she comes to her senses one day.

3. Fear of leaving.

Many people in this world are afraid of the "future" because the future is something that people don't know what will happen. They would rather live in known pain than leave it and reach an unknown future. While the future may be a painful relief, it is more likely to be an even more painful hell.

So for a man who doesn't love her, she doesn't want to leave either. This mostly happens between couples. The woman is afraid of her future, not to mention that the man just doesn't love him, even if the man treats her badly, maybe she is still willing to guard him.

If a man doesn't love someone, he will be very ruthless, and he will yell at you, be very impatient with the tone of your speech, keep his distance from you, go out early and pretend to return at night, and will be so slippery and sleepy that he will not believe in his fate at night, and will sleep in a separate bed with you.

They tend to close their socks very well, are impatient, unwilling to communicate with each other, do not care about their families, do not have any sense of responsibility, and cannot give each other enough care.

Unwilling to communicate with the other person, unwilling to communicate with the other person, not willing to waste time, and unwilling to spend money on the other person.

When a man doesn't love you, there is almost no possibility for two people to be together, because boys will be more decisive in love, and when you completely let go of a relationship, it is difficult to move forward and start a new relationship when you pick up this relationship, instead of standing still. Therefore, we can see that many boys start a new relationship after breaking up for a period of time, and they always feel that they are seamless, which makes people feel very chilled. <>

One. When a man doesn't love you, no amount of redemption is superfluous.

In our daily life, not all people's feelings are smooth sailing, love is built on the basis of two loves, a good relationship begins to belong to the hearts of two people, and it requires the consent of two people, but when a relationship is completely broken, only one party needs to be at fault, and the relationship can go their separate ways. When a man doesn't love you, no matter how much you keep it, it will only make the other party feel that you are a person with no bottom line or principles, so that you become very humble in the relationship, and sometimes you don't even have dignity at all. <>

Two. Love is vigorous, and walking is also very chic.

Many boys are in a state of being in a relationship that they can be vigorous when they are in love, and they will behave very chic when they leave, and they are not like girls who can't always let go of a relationship. It's hard to start a new life when you're always nostalgic for the past, but it's actually imprisoning yourself. Everyone has their own choices in the relationship, sometimes when a boy doesn't love you, then it means that the relationship may have no room to turn back, rather than a painful life in the broken love, it is better to accept the current state of love.

Love is very great, but many times, iQiyi also puts us in a painful environment, happiness and love are between thoughts, which is mainly related to our thoughts, when a man doesn't love you, you should let go.

Not necessarily. Because there are some special ways to make a man fall in love with this person again, I don't think it's necessarily impossible.

I think so. Because boys will give up loving someone, generally after careful consideration, if he doesn't love you anymore, it will be difficult for you to return to the way it used to be.

Indeed it is. Because you're not the one he likes anymore. No matter how hard you try, you won't be able to get into his heart.