My boyfriend won t let me into his rental house, saying that there is privacy inside, and I want to

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
65 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, because he's hiding something he doesn't want you to see! In this way, there is a gap between the two people, suspicion and distrust! Sooner or later, such a relationship will break down! The foundation of love is trust, if there is no trust, then love has no meaning of existence! Complete!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If your boyfriend doesn't even let you into her room, and there is privacy in it, I think you have to figure out what the reason is? Maybe there is really an addiction flower in it that has something to do with you, I think it's good to break up, the inscription is not married after all, just like that, it must be bad for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If it's just once, I think it's okay, but if his attitude has been like this, it's not very normal, so you can consider breaking up, but I think if you haven't considered marrying your boyfriend for the rest of your life, there's no need to break up, you can be annoyed that he takes the initiative to break up with you. If you love him or something, I think it's better to say goodbye, I feel like your boyfriend is not ordinary, what's wrong with entering a house.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course you have to break up, because you are his girlfriend, it's just a rental, he won't let you go, and the privacy he said may be that there are other women in it, so he doesn't dare to let you go to see it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your boyfriend won't let you into her rental house, saying that you have no privacy, and if you don't have a reasonable explanation, it's really not good, and you lack trust in him, then it's hard to communicate, so choose to break up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your boyfriend won't let you into his rental house and says there is privacy inside, do you want to break up? That depends on the actual situation, if he really has privacy there and won't let you into his rental, if he has so many secrets. That's still.

    It depends on the two of you. Is there a real relationship, if not, then you should break up as soon as possible and break up early? Men with secrets shouldn't.

    Together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you repeatedly ask to go and have a look, and he insists on disagreeing and doesn't tell you the reason, then you can consider breaking up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't enter, you won't enter, this can be regarded as a kind of respect for men, and it is very likely that your relationship is not mature, this requires a process, once the relationship matures, there will be no hiding with you, which is not worth breaking up. Good needs to work hard to build a good relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, there is no need to break up, that is, you can ask him what privacy is inside, and find out if he has someone outside? Or is it really just inconvenient for you to get in.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The boyfriend didn't let you into his rental house and said there was privacy inside. And what you don't want to see in it must have something to do with you, and it must be bad for you, so break up quickly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You have asked it, there must be this idea, not to let in depends on the situation, depending on the person. It's strange to talk for a long time and not let in, and if it's not for a long time, maybe it's just to maintain a sense of mystery.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, your boyfriend won't let you enter his rental house, saying that there is privacy inside, I speculate that there may not be privacy, maybe his rental house is dirty inside, so I'm sorry to let you go to see it, you can find a way to go in and have a look.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How do you and your boyfriend get along on a regular basis? If you break up because your boyfriend won't let you into the rental house, then it's too hasty so you have to get along again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It may be that she doesn't fully understand and trust you, whether you've done something she doesn't like before, or maybe she doesn't think it's time yet.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone has their own privacy, and it is necessary to keep a distance!

    Besides, what if you want to go up and not leave?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe she's more conservative, or the house is too chaotic for you to see, if you want to know the answer, you can go up and see for yourself, knock on the door and she won't let you stay outside, right? At the door or when you go in, you will probably know what she means......

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It means that you have not given her enough security, maybe you have just been in a relationship, you want to give her love, and then naturally she will take you to the room.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's only been a few months, maybe he doesn't live well, and I'm embarrassed to take you there, but you are guilty of a taboo by asking the other party to give an explanation so quickly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, see if he already has a family. If not, that's for the best. Find a good environment, such as a tea room, or other relatively quiet place, talk carefully, whether you should consider getting married and buying a house and other issues, if he is still hesitant or indifferent to the idea, or has no tendency to think about it at all, then your love he is not really in mind.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He must have a secret that he doesn't want you to visit where he lives? As for why, I think there are several possibilities: 1. He doesn't have a place to live at all, 2. I'm afraid that you won't be satisfied with the place where he lives.

    3. There are children after divorce 4, there may be still lingering feelings, if this is the case, you have to think about it carefully, communicate with him, and it is not a way to spend it like this.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Very simple! If you have feelings, go! If you don't have feelings, you won't go.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you want to go with him, just say it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't want to go, say you can't go if you have something.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't go, the man can't hold it, the action is palpitating, and the girl is handsome and kind.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He'll snap you if you go, be careful!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Do you really love him How old are you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    How many times you go to his house is not the key issue, the point is that you broke up, why do you still live in a rented house together? It's time to move out! If your boyfriend doesn't move, at least you should move out yourself!

    A breakup is a breakup! He told his family that it didn't matter if he didn't say it! Because it was you who broke up, your family couldn't play a decisive role.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The real reason for the breakup needs to be found and then some changes need to be made. He didn't tell his family, maybe he hadn't really thought it through in his mind, or he hadn't found a chance to say it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Why do you want to live together now that you've broken up? Unless you still want to be reconciled. Otherwise, if you break up, you shouldn't live together anymore.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This shouldn't be considered a breakup, it's just some small fights between couples. If it's really divided, move out quickly so that everyone won't suffer.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I want to ask if it is a real breakup or a quarrel to break up , these are two concepts. If you just quarrel and want to break up, then it's good to dissipate your anger for a few days. If it is true that the personalities of both parties and other aspects do not get along, then I advise you to leave the rental house completely, and do not break the connection together, which is not conducive to your next relationship.

    As for the fact that he didn't tell his family about your breakup, it has nothing to do with you, don't affect your decision because of family reasons. All you have to do is leave him with dignity!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you still have feelings for each other, but you just broke up emotionally, then it is recommended to wait for a period of time for each other's emotions to calm down and get back together.

    If you have thought it through and it is really not suitable, then be decisive, not for you to move, but for him to move. It's better not to live together anyway, it's better for each other.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Either split up completely, or find a chance to reconcile, you can still live together after breaking up, I don't know what kind of identity you get along with, anyway, I can't figure it out, and how he told his family that it was his own business, you still care about him, anyway, it's the worst thing to break the thread.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Do you want to get back together after you broke up? I have been to my boyfriend's house three times, which means that your relationship is relatively good, so don't break up because of a little thing, since you broke up, and you will live together in the future, it means that there is still a lot of reluctance between you, you have to think clearly, whether there is a problem with the relationship between you, or because of a little quarrel, if it really comes to the point of no return, then break up decisively, move out of the house by yourself, and divide it completely, if there are still a lot of feelings between you, then hurry up and get back together, it's easy to hurt feelings when you quarrel often.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I've been to my boyfriend's house three times, and now we're breaking up and living together.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I've been to my boyfriend's house three times, and now I'm breaking up, and I'm still living in a rented house together, and he hasn't told her family about your breakup, since you're still living together, it means that you love each other, and if you don't get to the point where you have to break up, I think you should cherish each other.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you break up, why don't you move out and live in a new rented house. Why do you want to live together, do you want to reconcile?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Break up and live together, there is still reluctance to each other, why you break up is unknown, but you must believe in love, cherish each other, if you don't love, you will separate, and even breaking the connection will make each other more painful.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Is this a breakup? It can be said that there is a quarrel, if you really want to break up, you still have to divide the profits, he didn't tell his family, is there still hope for you? It's just an impulse to say break up, calm down for a while and talk about it, and then if you still want to break up, then break up completely.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you choose to break up and move away, you can choose the next one with peace of mind, it's really not good to live together, and there will be accidents if you live together for a long time.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Well, let's fall asleep first, what is there to say. Maybe you'll be fine when you're angry.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Fool, he just wants to get you for the first time. You're worthless.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    People are just trying to break up with you. Find another one as soon as possible.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Depending on your boyfriend's personality, many people have no secrets and don't want others to look at their phones, just like we don't like others to touch our things, mainly depending on his attitude towards you, and you shouldn't doubt him because of this.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It really doesn't matter if you can show her. Or if there is really anything that can't be seen, you have to tell him which aspect, and girls will think wildly.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    In foreign countries, it is true that you can't snoop on other people's privacy, and a family can't do it, but it doesn't seem to work in China, the key is to see if you can respect each other.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Everyone should have some privacy of their own, and he doesn't show you his own reasons. Think about it for a moment, what would you do if your boyfriend wanted to see your privacy and you didn't want to show it to him for some reason?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    A lot of love is the so-called lack of privacy between the two people that leads to separation, and you can't see too much from this aspect, maybe his character is like this.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I may show it to others, but I will be uncomfortable, even if the husband and wife want to fight a spy war, it is too tiring to live, and even the husband and wife have no trust, so who else can we trust

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    A smart woman won't look at a man's phone, it doesn't matter if you see what he wants you to see, if you see it, if you don't want to see it, delete it early, or encrypt it

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Love is like quicksand, give each other some space.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    My husband showed it to me, but I won't watch it, and I choose to believe him, so you still don't want to watch it.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I don't know about others, but if it's me, I'll show it to my wife when there's no problem on my phone, and I won't give it if there's a problem.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Yes, because if true love has no privacy to hide from his girlfriend.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    What privacy, the secret that affects the relationship between husband and wife is not called privacy.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I hate that the other party doesn't trust me and doesn't show it, although there are no ulterior secrets.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I'm a guy and I don't want to hide anything, so I'll show it to my girlfriend. But your boyfriend won't let you watch it, so don't watch it.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not inferior, and those who are far away are resentful.

    I am a girl, and I also agree with this sentence, too many people, especially women, if you are too close to her, you will get carried away and lose your respect for people, a little distance, keep personal space, she will be suspicious and resentful.

    There is no contradiction between affinity and respect, and colleagues who are close to him should not forget to respect his independent personality and independent space.

    Mobile phones are a very personal thing these days, why should you look at them? What would you like to see?

    This is not good, even if he shows it to you, he will feel uncomfortable, don't force it.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Hello, although I'm not a boy, I'm just like you, and I'm sympathetic.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Then don't show him either, everything is mutual, and even the girl has to have her own privacy, you can't let him see you too clearly, otherwise he won't have any desire to explore you, you understand?

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    What kind of girlfriend to watch, play with Of course you can't show her.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    I won't, because I have nothing to hide.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    If you want to have a yellow picture in it, there are some ulterior secrets.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    I'm willing to show her, look at the personality, it's different.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    I don't think it's necessary to break up, as the saying goes, everything is negotiable.

    I don't know how old your boyfriend is, if he's in his 20s. As we said in the past, friends are like siblings, and women are like clothes, and hands and feet cannot be broken, and clothes can be changed. That's simply that he's too young to grow up.

    Boys, sometimes mature at heart, are not as fast as women, so they need to talk to their brothers about their girlfriends. When a woman emerges at the age of 20, her mature age in her heart is even much older than that of a man.

    As the saying goes, it's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, it's not easy for two people who have nothing to do with each other to find together, and they should cherish each other, but because of their personalities, living habits, etc., people in love are more prone to conflicts. Especially after being together, suddenly there is one more person who understands themselves thoroughly, and some people will suddenly feel flustered and don't know what to do.

    Communication is the first priority, you should communicate well, you understand that his disclosure of your privacy is out of some kind of concern, and he understands that keeping your personal space is not the same as keeping a distance from him. In this way, on the premise that each other can understand and tolerate each other's practices, many unnecessary quarrels can be avoided. When you find out that the other party has told others about their privacy, don't be too repulsive, immediately charge him with a crime, and worsen the situation, which will only lead to constant quarrels.

    Men and women are inherently different, they think differently and do things differently. If you keep falling into this pit and can't get out, your boyfriend will think you're stingy because of this sadness every day. Perhaps, one fight between the two of you will tear your relationship apart.

    So far there is no hope. Perhaps, he will also say to you harshly, my buddy is important, what do you want to do.

    Think differently, don't worry so much, then you will be tired, and he will be tired. Why don't we all take a step back and make our lives a little more comfortable. After all, life is so stressful now, so let's not add trouble to ourselves.

    Eat when it's time to eat and drink when it's time to drink. Wouldn't it be nice to make your life a little more comfortable? What do you want to do so much.

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