What do you think it s like to be married to your first love?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think it's a very happy thing to be able to marry my first love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think that feeling must be very good, I have always hoped to have one heart and no one else.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is the first love that means that you like the person you like at the beginning of your love, and when you get married or your first love, it means that you love her the most, so you should cherish it! There are not many people who can achieve this kind of feeling!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My husband and I have been in primary school for six years until now, I am eighteen married to my husband, the first love can only be said to be ignorant and ignorant, until now we rely on each other, now none of us can do without anyone, love is mixed with family affection, it is difficult to give up! My husband is the only man in my life, and I love him more than myself! I wish I could be with him again for the rest of my life, never separated!

    He gave me the best time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I felt very tragic, and I was a little unwilling to walk into the city after only one relationship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I was very happy, I didn't feel any regrets, and everything seemed to be in order. ‍‍

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It must be a long-distance love run, there have been laughter, touching, tears, and quarrels in the middle, but in the end they still stick to each other, which should be the envy of many people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The simplest and most powerful two words, happiness. Because in love, all the conceived heroines of the future are her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think it's necessarily happy! I have a friend who often regrets that her husband is her first love, and only after she gets married does she find that her husband is not right, but when she gets married, she doesn't compare, and she feels that this man is good. In fact, my eyelids were too shallow at the beginning.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My wife is my first love, and I feel very happy. My wife dated me at the age of 20, married me at the age of 21, my son is nine years old this year, and we have been married for ten years, we still love each other very much, tolerate each other, love each other, respect each other, understand each other, simple and happy! True love must know how to cherish:

    No one is born with anyone who is destined to be together, and a lifetime is not long. How lucky you are to meet your beloved, why not hold her hand tightly? How lucky it is to love only one person in your life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I have the most say in this! I got married to my first girlfriend and had children, and my sons are 9 years old. If you want to say that it feels, in fact, like all love stories, there is no love now, but family affection, I know everything about her, she knows everything about me.

    I once read a sentence that I think best illustrates our current situation, and of course, it also illustrates the problems of all married people. This sentence is like this, marriage is when you hate her so much that you want to shoot her, you meet her favorite food on the way to buy a gun, and you go home after buying food but forget to buy a gun. I've been able to get this far with my wife, and I think that's why.

    My wife is an acute child, and so is my son, and I am a chronic child, very slow kind, I think that the possibility of a husband and wife's complementary personalities can be higher for a long time, my wife wants to quarrel with me, I just look at her coldly, and when she finishes venting, she doesn't say anything, and she doesn't say that she is right or wrong, she turns around and goes to my own business, never mention it again, she herself will change a gentle tone to talk to me. It is normal for conflicts between husband and wife to occur, and when the teeth still bite the tongue, as long as either party does not participate, the fight will not be able to quarrel, and when he or she finishes venting and has no words, the situation will naturally ease down. The above is the biggest feeling I have after marrying my first love, I met her at the age of 16, she is one year younger than me, to my 26 years old and married her and now I am 37 years old, I found that the couple just need to grind more, after grinding their own and her water chestnuts, they can grow old together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What is it like to marry your first love, I will tell you with my actual situation that the happiness index of marrying your first love is super high, because there is no comparison, which means that neither husband and wife have ever had feelings with other people, and there is less comparison and consideration between each other, and there are not so many comparisons, so you can think together, and a happy life will be happy and long. We started falling in love at the age of eighteen, married at the age of twenty-five, and the first love married people are very loyal, like both of us are not lacking suitors before marriage, but we are more honest than this, mutual trust, into the marriage hall, we swore when we were in love, the sea is dry and rotten, this heart remains the same, the hand of the son, and the son grows old, loyalty is the cornerstone of marriage, the marriage of the first love is the highest, and the first love is married, due to the long time of love, more understanding than this, the run-in time is longer, and there are many fewer contradictions after marriage, Like my mother has long regarded my wife as a daughter and a member of the family, we are now husband and wife, family harmony, which is a short time in love, flash marriage, lack of understanding, run-in, incomparable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The key is to see if the two people are suitable, and whether they love deeply. After all, marrying your first love is still quite romantic, and if you can really achieve the Levis-style love of loving only one person in your life, it is really a great happiness in life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First love, as the name suggests, first love! The characteristics of first love are: simple, love for love!

    Because of the simplicity, there is a lack of routines, as if a child who has just started to walk, on the road of first love, walks staggeringly, so wrestling is the norm! And this wrestling, at the cost of one more name: ex!

    When learning the news of the marriage of the first love, most of the ex's hearts are very complicated, no matter what the reason led to the breakup, at the moment of learning the news, the first picture that often comes to mind is those heart-pounding pasts, a smile, sweet words, all kinds of experiences together, all of which make people think of it is still warm and romantic! All the noisy and noisy becomes a heartache and nostalgia for memories!

    As the saying goes: When we first fall in love, we don't understand love! But it is precisely this young love that always makes you unforgettable!

    Some people, in the precipitation of the years, carefully package this beautiful feeling and hide it in the deepest part of their hearts; Some people, who spend their whole lives, pursue the shadow of their first love! And the first love, because it has not been smoked, so enjoy the essence of life, just like a watermelon cut, take the sweetest piece in the middle, bite it, the feeling of sweetness to the heart, how can you forget?

    It is said that marriage is the grave of love, and the love that has never entered marriage is ethereal, but it has really come; It's like seeing a young woman, dressed exquisitely and decently, coming and going among a group of ordinary people, so dazzling, as if she doesn't eat the fireworks of the world, such a woman, even women will fall in love! Who hasn't entered in their dreams? Who can let it go?

    And the marriage of the first love is a loud noise, waking you up from the dream, and all the ethereal haze disappears, so reluctant, but I understand the cruelty of reality! The holy place in my heart has been trampled, accompanied by bursts of looming sadness, knowing that I must say goodbye to half-dreaming and half-waking up from now on, saying goodbye to the past in a sudden situation, too late to ritual, and not even being able to say a word of cherishment in person!

    From now on, some people will expect their first love to be unsatisfactory and let their hearts get a heartache balance; Some people shake their heads, leave their first love in place, stride forward by themselves, and begin to learn to live in oblivion; Some people see the destination of their first love, as if they have gotten a home, let go of their worries, and move forward easily!

    I know that from now on, we will end here, I wish my first love happiness, and I will also be happy! Because the heart is empty, you can pretend to be your own people and things, and while becoming your ex, you really understand what it means to cherish!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I must feel very sad in my heart, the two of them have known each other for many years, after all, they are also the first person they love, and they are very impressed, and they can't accept the news of marriage at all, and they will feel like falling out of love, very uncomfortable.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Blessing him finally finding his belonging. was once his first love, as the first person he liked, even if he regretted not being able to get together, he still hoped that he would live well.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm definitely sad in my heart, but I still hope that the other person can be happy. I also sincerely hope that the other party will be happy. And I know that this incident is behind me, and it will be a good memory for me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I must be very uncomfortable in my heart, after all, two people have loved, and the two have been together for a very long time, but I didn't expect that the bride was not myself, it must be very uncomfortable.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I will definitely feel very uncomfortable in my heart, because the two of them have had a very good memory before, so when they see each other getting married, they will also be very sad.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When the first love gets married, there must be a little sadness and sourness in the heart, because a person's first love is very unforgettable, but it will also feel gratified and hope that he can be happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The kind that doesn't have a big grudge about anything you get to know about your ex will affect your heart, let alone getting married.

    As a person, as long as it's not cold-blooded, there will be all kinds of reluctance, can't let go, just take too much into account of reality.

    And buried deep in my heart and smiled.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When I got married for the first time, I felt very heartbroken in my heart, after all, it was the person I once loved very much, but I was not with myself, and that feeling should be very lost and sad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When my first love got married, I believe I won't be sad anymore, because I have put him down in my heart, and although we once loved each other, I don't have any feelings for him now.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The first love and marriage may be a little sentimental in my heart, but slowly I will let go of it, after all, it is impossible to take it as a memory!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When I heard that my first love got married, I told you the truth that I shed tears because of my unwillingness, because of the loss of my first love, and because of my adolescence.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I will bless him, and of course there will be a little sour in my heart. Especially when he got married, I didn't have a new partner yet. At that time, I must have felt very uncomfortable.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I will definitely be very sad in my heart, because I will be annoyed, why is it not me who is marrying her now, I didn't cherish it properly, it will be very painful.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When the first love got married, everyone's thoughts were different, but I think the best is generally a blessing, because I also hope that the other party will live well and be happy.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When the former first love got married, it was inevitable that there would be some twists and turns in his heart, and he would silently bless him, and there would also be jealousy.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If he has his first love in his heart, he will definitely feel uncomfortable when he gets married, and if he has let go, it will be a blessing to him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't regret it, looking back at that time, it was really immature for each other, and at that time, it was really not suitable.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    used to be my first love, and when I got married, I would have a sour feeling in my heart, and I felt very unhappy.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I don't have any feelings, because we used to be with each other, but we didn't make it to the end. So there will be a little regret in my heart, if my first love gets married, I will sincerely bless her from the bottom of my heart, and hope that she can live happily in the future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This is a kind of first love complex, many people have fantasies about their first love when they are young, thinking that the first love is the person who accompanies them through their lives, but in fact, people can only find the most suitable person for themselves in multiple relationships, and first love is not necessarily suitable.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    They are very dependent on each other, and they feel that the other party is very good to them, so they want to marry their first love, and they are worried that they will not have a good life after the breakup.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    They are very fond of their first love, and they feel that their relationship with their first love is very pure, so they want to marry their first love.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Personally, I think that most of the so-called first love in the first love is unforgettable. Whether they end up together or not, for many people it is an unforgettable life.

    First of all, the reason why this is so is because at the time of first love, people's unknown and fresh feelings make the feelings the highest purity, and each other's dedication to feelings is also the most sincere, and there are many less material desires and worldly conditions. Secondly, the traditional habits of the Chinese for thousands of years, the preference for the first and only, this slightly feudal thinking, the first first love, to the sacred level, also made many people superstitious that the first love is the best.

    Many people who have been in love many times do not say that they like to be in love. One reason is that they don't know how to get along with people when they're young. They may not be able to get married for a variety of practical reasons.

    Of course, it is not excluded that some people get married because they want to change a few more lovers to have fun. First love seems to have always been a word full of romance and sadness, at the beginning of love, young and ignorant, just because of love, so together. After many years, it seems that everyone has had their first love, but when you mention it again, then if you want to marry your first love, it depends on your heart.

    If you love each other deeply and get along well, of course you want to get married, of course, it is a very happy thing. It is of course a beautiful thing to love only one person in your life and grow old with him. If you can achieve and identify with each other, or cherish.

    And my husband are each other's first love, married for 11 years, just in junior high school on each other, a total of 18 years, but found that the marriage is always wronged by themselves, this year just after giving birth to three treasures found that he hurt me, resulting in my body and mind very hurt, decided to buy myself a cemetery when I was old, I don't want to die with him buried together. There is no point in marrying just to marry your first love.

    First love is just a synonym, the key is whether the person you meet is worth entrusting for life, so that you can go without hesitation. As for whether it is mature, some people have loved it all their lives, but for many people, it is immature. If maturity means observing words and feelings, you can find a trusted senior to help you observe your first love.

    His usual attitude towards you may be that when he usually gets along with you, he can indeed give it to you or accommodate you unconditionally, but he is impatient in the face of your sudden temper and vexatiousness.

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