After falling in love, is it so important to go to your boyfriend s house to meet your parents? Why

It is very important because it is not only a procedure, but also a proof of your affirmation of your lover, because only then can you show your faith or love for him. To see both parents, is to let parents see my lover, I need your affirmation, I want you to see how good he or she is. And I want to meet each other's parents because I want to integrate into this family and see what his family is like.

Of course, it's important, look at the attitude of the other party's parents, after all, this is a big deal, and he goes to see his parents on your behalf is actually an attitude towards you, responsible for your species.

Let his parents see what the future daughter-in-law is like, isn't it very dignified, beautiful, and virtuous. Can you be a good daughter-in-law and a good mother? If you find it troublesome, you don't need to have a boyfriend or get married.

Of course important, if there are no parents, ** come to you and him?

The words of the matchmaker have been around since ancient times, and the ugly daughter-in-law will have to see her in-laws sooner or later.

It also means that your boyfriend wants to get you in the door as soon as possible. Hehe.

It doesn't hurt to go and see it, it's going to be sooner or later anyway.

I don't know, but it's a must. We'll see you sooner or later.

I don't want to go, I'm so scared, I'm so restrained!

If the other parent is super funny and easy-going, then I am so happy that I shed tears!

But 99% of parents are paternalistic!

The ugly daughter-in-law always wants to see her in-laws.

If you don't go.

Is it still necessary for you to fall in love with your boyfriend?

Beauty, hello, first of all, you this question, I think the question of meeting your parents from your boyfriend's point of view, he takes you to meet his parents is responsible for this relationship, if it is not serious, he will not take you to meet your parents, so I think your boyfriend should be a more mature man. He loves you very much, and he takes you to meet his parents so that they can see what kind of girl you are. If you ask this question, I don't think you love your boyfriend very much, because I think if a girl has a lot of boyfriends, she will be happy to meet her mom and dad.

You have to be more considerate of him and think about it from his point of view. ：）

I wish you a good marriage! It's up to you. If you really like the other person and want to be with him, then you have to do your mother's thought work.

Of course, one reason is important, one reason is to respect your parents, find the next object and take it home for your parents to see, which is also a manifestation of filial piety, mainly to make your parents happy; Another reason, after all, parents are "people who have come over", both in terms of experience and social experience, they are richer than young people, and they can think foresight on the issue of their children's love and marriage. Let your partner meet their parents and ask them to give some advice.

It doesn't seem like you're very filial.

You have the ability not to take him to see your parents for the rest of your life...

If you have a long-term development with him, of course it will be very important.

Good luck.

Let's make a good impression by talking to each other!

Don't be so upright and try to show your strengths.

Yes, you can ask like this, it shows that you are very scheming, so that you will need to deliberately disguise yourself in their house in the future, although the other party's parents look stupid on the surface, but in their hearts they will think you are very honest.

As long as the other party doesn't point it out,"I'm good, and there's no fault at all"。

It is not necessary, the shortcomings of people can be improved.

Do you have shortcomings? All you have are features.

Ask what to say lol.

Not necessarily, you are mainly the same as his parents, who lived with him.

Generally, you don't have to go when you are just here, and you feel that when you should meet your parents for a while, you will go to your boyfriend's house and then go to your girlfriend's house! It's okay for both parents to meet!

It doesn't matter, you can discuss it with your boyfriend before deciding, if you don't care so much about this order, you can go to his house first, and if you care, you can also ask both parents out to meet together.

It's okay, if you think about it for a long time, you must see your parents, prepare well, and bless you.

This is not necessarily, the two sides have discussed it, and it is the same for whoever goes to the house first.

Not necessarily, both parties have a good relationship, and they can basically decide to get married, and it doesn't matter which one to go to first.

No, usually, the man goes to the woman's house first.

Whose house you go to is different. Fate.

I believe that when a man and a woman in love feel good about each other, can talk, and can develop into marriage and family, they should let their parents understand each other as early as possible, and seek their opinions to establish a friendly family relationship.

I want to see this, I think it's about the same, it feels like it's about the same.

There is no time limit. It depends on how deep the relationship between the two of you is, and to what point it has reached, do you have to be cautious to take it home, it is a hint that you have plans to get married.

There is no time limit for meeting parents, as long as you feel that she (he) is the other half of your life, you can bring her (him) home! What do you think...

The relationship between the couple has developed to a certain stage, both sides get along well, and after deciding to be together in the future, out of respect for the elders of both sides, they will go to see their parents, in fact, it's nothing, just to let the parents on the opposite side see the appearance and character of the son-in-law or daughter-in-law, as long as the determination is firm, there is no big problem, as for what you said about being seen by other relatives before meeting the parents, it is superfluous to worry about the bad influence, Qing is not married, Jun is not married, My Fair Lady, what is the shame of the gentleman's good ball, Generally, it is to see the woman's parents first, and the lady is preferred, and also set an example for the girlfriend.

How far can I meet my parents when I am in love? The answer is definitely not time, but.

If it is reasonable, your mother is right, and you are not wrong, each has its own reason. You always want to use your own reason to persuade your mother to accept, and you will definitely succeed if you don't answer, just like you don't accept your mother's reason :) This is the need to be tolerant, and you will have a lot of such contradictions with your parents-in-law in the future, you can't reason, you can only tolerate and understand.

You've only been dating for three months, and you're still in the stage of getting to know each other, so it's really not suitable for parents to get too involved, which will increase each other's pressure. At this time, you need to understand your mother, her nagging, you just listen to it, you don't need to explain too much, you can also have some white lies, this is the embodiment of filial piety. To be honest, it is not recommended that you let your boyfriend pick you up, you actually don't know each other yet, at this time, independence is the most important, you don't need to pursue form, calmly observe each other's thoughts and behavior, will lay a solid foundation for your future happiness.

Unless you are sure to get married, it will not be a problem to keep running to your house. If my mom keeps talking, don't talk about my boyfriend, I can't stand it first, and I'll definitely have to talk to your mom first.

I feel that what you said is not clear, isn't it to meet first and then fall in love, is it not that you are in love without meeting? Unless you say online dating.

It's just that I'm afraid that you will be deceived, you children are easy to make mistakes when you see it on TV.

Man, my husband and I are the first place I went to.

Go to the woman's house first, then go to the man's house, and the number of courtesies must not be less.

You should go to the woman's house first, which is equivalent to proposing to the woman's parents.

For women, the first to see the woman is to show respect for the other party, and then it is equivalent to going through the door and then going to the man.

Don't you tell your parents on the day of your wedding?

Do you think it's appropriate for you to do this now, the girl is still a little reserved, don't be too busy.

See if you want to go on with your boyfriend? If you can, just continue, anyway, it's going to be a family in the future.

You should let your parents know and help you make a decision before you think about it.

I still want your parents to take a look at your boyfriend.

That will also be reassuring to you.

What do you think...

Let's get to know his family first.

It's better not to go.