Ask an expert to help what to do if your child is frightened

I can't talk about any expert advice, just say that it is a parenting experience, you should be like this, when he is afraid, you should go to him and hug him, tell him that it is okay, that mom is there, or dad is there, etc., touch it, pat it, and comfort him. Then when he is in a good mood, show him the cat's **, find those cute kittens** to show him, tell him a story, the kitten is so cute or something, tell the story of the kitten catching the mouse, if he doesn't want to listen, you don't want to continue to talk about it, just change the topic, and wait for the next opportunity to talk about this topic. Then eat more things with protein and calcium content in your diet, and I believe that you will get better ...... slowly.

It's better not to take any measures right away, let him slowly forget about this matter in his heart first, and feel better. Then choose some children who are more well-behaved and quiet, and let them stay close to them at a certain distance. If he feels scared at the first approach, don't force it and take it away immediately.

After a while, find that kind of child to get close to ......And so on and so forth. During this process, it is necessary to carefully observe his facial expressions to see if there are any subtle differences in each contact and whether the effect is obvious. Plan and frequency according to the situation.

When he sees other children more times like this, if he has some psychological calmness when keeping his distance, he can further choose to close the distance.

When a child is frightened, it is difficult to erase the psychological imprint at once. Take your time, don't rush or force her. This can only be counterproductive.

Let him play with the child, know that there is no malicious intent, and have fun, it should be nothing.

If a child is cold and uncomfortable and has a headache, the first thing to judge is that it is a fever, and there are two kinds of low fever and high fever. Generally, just drink onions, ginger and garlic water. There is a fever that sticks it to the head.

Buy expensive ones. The cheap ones can't be touched. Generally, fever is inflammation.

Go to the hospital to prescribe fever-reducing medication. If it is not serious, eat more fruits with more vitamin C, kiwifruit, lemon. Orange.

Then drink plenty of warm water. Promotes metabolism and detoxification. There is also immunoglobulin.

It seems to be less than two hundred and eight. Taro contains a high content of immunoglobulins. Eat more.

Silk-drawn taro is the most delicious. The child has a high fever of less than 40 degrees Celsius, which is not life-threatening. If you are more than thirty-nine degrees, you should pay attention to the danger.

It can burn into pneumonia. There are also those who are burned into meningitis and those who are burned into fools. There are also those who burn deafness.

There are now less than 300,000 cochlear implants. Always pay attention to the temperature of the child. In particular, the change of cold and heat is not obvious.

Cold spots are also stronger than fever wounds. You can wipe your head with good liquor. Be careful not to get in your eyes.

Trachoma hurts. Rub the back and limbs with white wine. The hands and feet, the front and back hearts depend on the situation.

Cool down immediately after rubbing. It doesn't hurt. Or boil mugwort water for a bath.

Immediate results. Don't get too hot. Don't burn.

The soul is lost, he gets up and cries inexplicably at night, he can't be coaxed well, his eyes are blue around his eyes, he can't sleep steadily, he always shivers in his sleep, or if he doesn't call him when he is always asleep, he won't wake up himself. High fever, diarrhea, mostly green. It is not good to find a doctor to take medicine and injections.

If that's the case, it's a scare out of the soul. If the child is not lively, if he does not harm others, he will wilt. There is no spirit, and it is sluggish.

His eyes were blank and his face was dull. 100% scared.

More than ten years ago, I read ancient books such as pediatric medical nursing massage and Shaolin Wangyan injury report, which recorded that there were green tendons and cyan lords under the hair bun on the upper forehead. There is black gas under the hairline of the upper forehead, and the black seal hall master is under the symbol.

There are many red tendons under the hairline of the upper forehead, and the main offense is evil.

There are three black dots on the upper white eyeball, and the main is the next symbol.

There are three red lines on the upper white eyeballs, and the main offender is evil.

To judge whether the child is frightened, the adult should first sit down and breathe slightly, hold the child's hand with his hand, press the thumb on the child's palm, and feel whether the child's palm has an obvious pulsation, and look at the child's nose and mouth, whether it is bluer than usual. If there is a throbbing palm, a sudden throb, and a blue nose and mouth, it is generally a shock. There is one more way:

Good for children under three years old. You can look to see if there is a blue line on the side of the child's second or third thumb near the thumb. or the red line.

The blue line runs from fingertip to fingertip, and the closer you get to the fingertip, the more severe the shock. Pay more attention to these key positions of children. Then it's good to compare and judge.

There are also mantras for soul harvesting. Said before. Now put a sticker inside.

Easy to find.

There are many children in life who are particularly susceptible to fright when they are young, and for the older generation, being frightened is also related to some superstitious sayings, so people will solve this problem through some home remedies or strange ways. That is, it is called the soul, of course, this method has no scientific basis at present, so it is more common among the people. So how should a child be called a soul when he is scared?

The child is scared and screams.

1.Children are easily frightened because their nervous systems are not fully developed. Generally speaking, if the child's eyelashes are twisted together, there are green tendons at the root of the tiger's mouth and middle finger of the palm, and the expression often has a sense of fear and sluggishness, which is not too serious fright, if there is a sense of fear, crying from time to time, and a low-grade fever of about 37 degrees, it should be a moderate fright.

The child is scared and screams.

2.Frightened by these, adults should give the child a sense of security, speak softly and comfortably, and pinch the child's middle finger with appropriate force around the root of the child's middle finger for about two minutes, either with the left or right hands, or with both hands. Then lightly pinch and rub the pinna of both ears.

Two or three times a day, usually two days will be fine. If the child's eyes are bloodshot, convulsions, unusually inactive, crying regularly, lethargy, and it is likely that there will be a loss of spirit, and this ordinary person is powerless.

The child is scared and screams.

3."Calling the soul" is a kind of childlike language, in order to eliminate children's fears, such as the psychological "soul" of the folk phenomenon, eliminate its unscientific components, and develop, it can be transformed into a scientific children's psychological method. In this way, for children who are frightened by accidents, we can use the parents of young children or the most trusted people of young children to explain such events scientifically from the perspective of children, and use a childlike language to explain such events scientifically, supplemented by the most cordial comfort, so as to eliminate children's fears, and when they encounter similar events in the future, they are not only not afraid, but also know how to deal with them.

If the trauma is severe, a lighter dose of medication may be administered as recommended by your doctor**. Or find a psychologist for psychological** to eliminate stumbling blocks in the process of healthy personality growth.

The fastest ways to scare souls are: shimizu chopsticks, red rope to burn eggs, and kettle to burn coins. Generally, rural people are frightened or have a sudden accident, causing themselves to "scare out their souls", and they will choose these methods to resolve it.

The old peasants who lived in the countryside had a special worship and belief in the gods in their hearts. They are convinced that there is a soul in life. Rural people often say that a person has "three souls and seven spirits", and some places also say that it is "three souls and six spirits".