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As long as you give your mother-in-law face, that is, give him face, he will listen to you. That is to say, when you have a conflict with your mother-in-law, and your husband comes forward, you have to take the initiative to retreat, and then "settle accounts" with him after returning to your own small world, he will be very grateful and will seriously consider what he says to you. If you and your mother-in-law do something to Mai Mang, he will not be able to get off the stage, and his anger will only be sprinkled on you, and it will seriously endanger the marriage.
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It's going to take a long time to see if you're able to do it yourself, because your husband has been living with his parents for a long time, and he's already made a habit of it, and it's going to take a long time to change that habit, and there's also the possibility that you're not financially independent, or that your mother is stronger.
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than him is filial to his mother-in-law, because he is filial so he listens to his mother-in-law. If you are more filial than him, he will be grateful to you and will be good to you.
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It makes no difference that your husband's mother is also your mother, and that's right. A wise woman is one who makes her husband listen to her mother as well as her wife.
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If you want me to see that there is no need for this, I haven't done anything excessive, as long as my husband has you in his heart and loves you, it's good, after all, my mother-in-law is also a mother, everyone will have an old day, maybe the next mother-in-law will be you,
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Think of asking your mother-in-law to listen to you.
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You have a good relationship with your mother-in-law first, and your husband will naturally listen to you.
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Seeing your above overview, I know that the two of you are self-made, starting from scratch, which wisdom is a model for many couples, and it is also an inspirational chapter of struggle, but when to look back at your husband's unfair treatment of you, your heart is cold, you are confused, you want to escape from this family, and you feel that after everything falls into place, you have become the superfluous one, so before the divorce, have you thought about how you solve the things you want to solve in front of you?
The problem of children is the most difficult problem when you divorce, from your inspirational experience, it can be seen that you are also a good woman who is hardworking and upward, and you have a strong control over emotions, how do you solve the problem when a man insists on not giving you children in such a superior family life.
How many years of hard work you have paid, from being poor and marrying a stupid boy to this family makes you pay too much, and the stupid boy is suddenly about to graduate from your university, but you let go.
If the above situation has not been sorted out, you might as well talk calmly, your man to put it bluntly, the EQ is too low, and the master of a tendon sells it! If I spoil my family so much, why can't I fight for it so much?
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My husband listens to his mother-in-law very much, almost obediently, and it is very painful to be with him, where should I go? Divorce with your husband, this problem is difficult to solve. Personally, I think I can put forward two suggestions.
If your family is harmonious, your husband listens to your mother-in-law, and your mother-in-law manages the house well, you don't have to worry. Also, she looks a lot like her daughter to you. Her husband is very nice to you and loves you very much.
You have to meet the criteria I said. If it's really like I said, you don't have to worry about him. Sit back and think about his successes.
When you're the head of the family, do you have fun instead of doing it? The problem is not so simple.
If the result is the opposite, it is advisable to go out and live alone. If you don't live with your mother-in-law, there will be fewer conflicts. The husband is easy to manage with your eyes and has the financial power.
As a man, Li Jian is blind, and it is natural to know who has no money. Without financial support, it is useless to listen to your mother's advice. He can't do anything without money, he can't do anything without money, he can't do anything.
After a long time, he no longer listened to his mother, but to his wife. Husbands and wives should do their best to be together. Don't argue.
Have a good chat with their husbands. If it's right, listen to Mom. If it's wrong, try it and don't hurt mom.
Mom can't handle our whole life. People need to be independent. It must be two people.
Otherwise, if he gets used to it, it will be difficult for him to leave his mother in the future. A master who relies on his mother is not independent at all, and only when husband and wife love each other and husband and wife are united and invincible, can they cut jade and gold. The future is full of sunshine and happiness.
I don't know if you like what I say.
As long as it's not a matter of principle, it's understandable that my husband listened to my mother-in-law. But he was his son, and he couldn't go into the pit and make his son jump. All you do is love your husband and take your opinion to heart.
As long as you are amiable and obedient at home, you can be happy. Don't bargain for who listens to whom.
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