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In this world, everyone wants to be an elite. The elite of a place, the elite of an industry, a unit, and a field. However, if you want to become an elite, you have to put in a lot of hard work and have a lot of opportunities.
In this era when the struggle is becoming more and more difficult, and the trend of social class solidification is increasing, people become elites, and there are many factors that influence. However, the family factor is a very big factor: the emergence of a large number of elites represented by the second generation of officials and the second generation of the rich is a very typical influence of family factors.
The impact is almost immediate, both in terms of opportunity and cost, which is beyond the reach of ordinary people. These problems are often the result of inequalities at the institutional level.
A person's life is spent in the family at a very important stage of health, education, and character development. How big a person's pattern is, how high his goals are, and how good a person's emotional intelligence and cultivation are, are often inseparable from the family, and the influence and teaching of parents are very important. Although some families are poor, they are poor, and some parents have high ambitions and lofty goals, which can also have a great impact on their children.
At present, a serious problem is that a large number of left-behind children lack education and care from their families, which greatly affects the psychology, education, personality and safety of these children, resulting in some shortcomings and regrets, such as isolation, closure and even illegal behavior, etc., and even affect the national character in the future. This is the possible consequence of not paying attention to family education.
To become an elite, reading and employment are the primary links. A family that attaches great importance to education will definitely put all its energy and financial resources on the education of its children, so that they can not fall behind on the level of education, and it will also allow their children to develop the character of reading from an early age. In addition, a family with certain social resources and a certain social status will definitely play a role in the employment of children that ordinary people cannot play.
Especially in China, a society that attaches great importance to human feelings, the various network resources extending from the family to the family will definitely play a vital role in the growth of an elite.
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The influence is great, and an excellent person has received a good education since he was a child, and he is inseparable from the teachings of his parents in the process of growing up.
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Greatly affected by family factors, the social elite are particularly confident people, so the families they have lived in since childhood are also very harmonious, and their parents give a lot of love.
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Affected by family factors is very great, when he is ignorant, the first thing he receives is family education, only the family education for him is particularly good, and finally let his own strength improve.
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The impact is very large, because when these elites are born, parents will play a key role, and they will also play a controlling role.
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It is very large, because the growth environment of each person directly affects the person's character and psychological growth. Therefore, when raising children, we must give them a very good family environment.
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There is a direct relationship between the factors of a social elite and the family, because the child is born to receive the education of the family, and a good family education can make the child live and study well.
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The impact is huge. A social elite, he is not able to grow up alone, the family has a great influence on him, if the family can establish a correct concept for him, and have great support for him, then he can rest assured to struggle.
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I think that the birth of an elite is at least 80% of the family factor, which is perhaps the most conservative number. Because the environment in which a person grows up has a decisive influence, and the family is the place where children are first exposed and stay for the longest time, it plays an almost pivotal role in guiding and shaping everyone. If you want to cultivate an elite talent, the conditions of all dimensions of the family should not be too bad.
First of all, the child's life depends on the family's economic situation, secondly, what kind of people he contacts since he was a child depends on the family's network resources, and finally what kind of character the child develops depends on what kind of education method the parents adopt. Therefore, an elite family is naturally easy to cultivate elite talents, while a family with mediocre conditions is likely to give birth to only one mediocre child.
The most intuitive reflection of the quality of family conditions is its economic situation, which has a significant impact on the quality of life of children. Children with good conditions live very wealthy, for example, they can learn to play the piano from an early age, and when they grow up, they will naturally make their brother appear versatile. At the same time, because of his money, he had countless opportunities to develop his hobbies and eventually turn them into his talents.
For example, if a child who likes computer programming and his parents buy him the latest laptop when he is only 6 years old, then he has a lot of learning resources and opportunities. An elite is constantly watered by countless top resources to slowly appear, otherwise the achievements achieved by individual talent alone are always very limited, and most of the so-called top resources need to spend money to buy.
The level of a person's vision depends entirely on the platform he is on, which is why farmers talk about farming the most, and scientists put the stars and the sea on their lips at every turn. The family's network resources are actually a "springboard" for children, which can allow children to get more opportunities and growth space. For example, if the uncle is a professor at Tsinghua University, then the child's educational resources will definitely not be bad, he will get a lot of opportunities to increase his knowledge, and his final grades will be much higher than other children.
Parents are the people who have the greatest influence on their children in their lives, and the most important part of this is the shaping of their children's personality by the way of education. For example, some adults are more thrifty, and they will pick up and eat a grain of rice that falls on the ground in their lives, so that children will naturally develop the habit of thrift and thrift in the process of repentance. So a large part of the reason why a person is very good is because the parents are better, and they are constantly guiding their children in a better direction by example.
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For the birth of an elite, the family factor accounts for at least 70% of the total. This is a very cruel fact, but the truth is that it is difficult for a poor family to produce a noble son.
1. The impact of family education on future generations.
Relevant data show that since the 90s of the 20th century, the proportion of rural students enrolled in major schools has been declining. For children born in Beijing, their chances of going to Tsinghua University and Peking University are much higher than those of students in other regions, and for those children born in wealthy families, the educational resources and survival resources they can obtain are much better than those of ordinary children. And for these children, even if they don't study hard, they can still easily get some resources after they go into society, and even if they don't study hard in their careers, they can still get a variety of excellent teachers.
From this point of view, family education has a huge impact on future generations, not only throughout the child's entire learning career, but also throughout the child's adult life in society.
2. Family education increases the probability of becoming an elite.
There was once a senior in high school who was admitted to Harvard University, and the interviewer at Harvard University gave him an evaluation that he was very fluent in English, beautiful, almost perfect, and this student not only won the first place in domestic and foreign competitions, but his hobbies were sailing, skiing, and programming. Just imagine, a family that can afford to support children's hobbies such as sailing, skiing, and programming, a family that can afford to support their children to participate in various competitions at home and abroad, and a family that can cultivate such children, is a strong asset. Homeschooling has greatly increased the probability that a child will become an elite.
Third, it is difficult to produce a noble son from a poor family.
Although most of our country has been lifted out of poverty, but the imbalance of educational resources is difficult to solve, children are destined to receive different education, because each school can provide a different basic environment, a school in the countryside, at most can provide a classroom, blackboards and tables and chairs, some schools can not even provide tables and chairs, but in the city children enjoy more than ** teaching equipment, spacious classrooms, clean tables and chairs. It has become a normal phenomenon that it is difficult to get a noble son from a poor family.
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The birth of an elite, family factors are also a very important reason, every parent hopes that their children will become dragons, hope that their daughters will become phoenixes, and they all want to cultivate an excellent child, a good family education, which plays a very big role in cultivating an excellent child himself.
First of all, the economic status of parents is also the child's self-confidence**, and the starting line of children with good family economy is often higher than that of children from ordinary families. They will participate in various study classes and interest classes since they were young, and their vision and cognition are much higher than that of ordinary children when they go out to socialize with their parents.
Secondly, the educational level of parents is also very important, many parents have a relatively high level of education, and have their own unique methods and insights on their children's education, many children do not want to study after finishing junior high school or shouting Qingzhuan, and come out of society early, but parents with vision and insight will not allow their children to go out of society so early, they will let their children study harder, and they will have more choices.
Furthermore, parents should emphasize the value of learning, learn the truth that changes the fate of a lifetime, do not be afraid of challenges, dare to face everything that is not respectful, and take failure as an opportunity to hone themselves, so that children can be trained from an early age to move forward bravely even if they fail. Many parents neglect the spiritual education of their children, and often care too much about the test-oriented education, and many children can't stand the setbacks of failure, and many times they choose to give up.
Finally, I want to say that parents are the first teachers of children, parents should be good role models, an excellent parent believes that the child will not be too bad, parents should play a leading role, in order to invisibly influence the child to become a better person, therefore, parents should not only give their children a loving family, but also bite to give their children a good family environment.
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Family factors can account for 60% of the dispersion, because there are many highly knowledgeable molecules in the Tsai family, coupled with the good cultivation of children, so that children can become an elite with the army.
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The family quarrel factor accounts for about 80 percent, and the general parents are all Jingsheng, and the children may also be elites, and the family atmosphere is particularly important for slowing down the training of children to become elites.
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The family factor accounts for 80% because family education is very important and can have a great impact on a person's development.
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1.It's really not easy to cultivate a family elite. Of all the factors that affect a child's development, family factors often play a very important role.
What kind of environment the child is born in, how he is educated, how the parents treat others, etc. , can have an important and sometimes decisive impact on a child's development. So, as ordinary parents, what can we pass on to our children?
I think the good family atmosphere, the principles of our life, the persistence and gentleness of our hearts.
2.It may be the best soil for cultivating a healthy personality in children, because only with a sound personality can the birth of the family elite be more meaningful. Parents should lead by example and set a good example for their children.
The best parent-child relationship is one in which parents and children grow together. The birth of a family elite is often the result of a combination of factors, but the family is always an extremely important factor. As parents, we should give our children more encouragement, stimulate their autonomy, give them a warmer harbor, and support them with love.
It is often said that example is more important than words and deeds. It is the most basic living and educational unit for children in the family.
3.A child's first behaviors and habits are learned from their parents. Therefore, every word and deed and every move of parents will become the object of imitation by children.
There is no such thing as gratuitous success, only subtle influence. The character traits of a person are formed by a combination of external and internal influences, in which the family environment comes first. Because the family environment is basically fixed, children have to stay in it for more than ten or twenty years before they grow up.
Some parents think that if their children are sent to school, everything will be fine with the teacher's education. If the child is not good at studying, he will report to the cram school and tell the child to study hard while playing with his mobile phone.
4.They don't know anything about how to learn. There are also some parents who are busy with work and don't have time to sit down and help their children learn.
As for accompanying education, parent-child relationship, etc., it is even more difficult to take care of. Nurturing is nurturing. A lot of parents have a very strong purpose.
The starting point of learning and practice is to educate children well. But in the end, they gradually become utilitarian to measure their efforts, and they will easily give up when they encounter difficulties. What should we do at this time?
Try to accept yourself unconditionally, admit your limitations, act for your children, and change yourself. "Knowledge is the beginning of action, and action is the success of knowledge". If you educate yourself well, your child will be fine.
It's too good, it's not good, it's not good. Those children from rich families go to Harvard, Stanford, Massachusetts, etc., and I feel inferior to them, because they have experienced more than us, but they still don't give up on themselves.
I'm against you convincing him, why do you insist on breaking them up? I like it to this extent because she has some kind of quality that can ** him. Don't underestimate love, people's feelings are not as simple as what a house, a car, and a family affair can stop.
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