Complex family problems, a complex family problem

I'm against you convincing him, why do you insist on breaking them up? I like it to this extent because she has some kind of quality that can ** him. Don't underestimate love, people's feelings are not as simple as what a house, a car, and a family affair can stop.

All this is fate, and fate cannot be separated, and it cannot be forced without fate. All things in the world are produced by the gathering and union of fate, if the fate is reached, it will be combined, and the fate will be separated when it is over. Let it be.

But under the premise of following the circumstances, we must do things according to reason, not emotionally, feelings are stupid wisdom, and we must use reason to deal with things.

I think you should first find out whether the woman really loves your brother, and see if she has a good heart, at least in terms of honoring her parents, if she is a good person, turnip greens, each has her own love, you can't just because your parents think it's bad, you might as well create an opportunity for your parents to understand her personality.

This is true love, the ancients would rather demolish ten temples than destroy a family, besides, what's the use of looking good, your brother just sees this clearly, you should support him, other people don't mean much, and they can't be sold, nor can they be eaten, support your brother.

In fact, as long as people like it, after all, marriages without love abound now.

I mean, quite a lot, maybe a bit exaggerated)

That woman just needs to be a good person.

Don't worry too much about anything else.

It's not like your family is out of money.

First, it's important to have a good time.

As brothers, you can give people some support, okay?

Go with the flow, your brother doesn't suffer anyway, doesn't he? Sometimes the more you let others give up, the more together you are.

First of all, the plaintiff is not legitimate, your father can be the plaintiff, but your grandmother cannot, it is your obligation to support your parents, but you are not obliged to support your grandmother, and your mother did not ask for her own property when she divorced (those properties do not have your share), that is your mother's problem, and it has nothing to do with supporting your father, you should take out living expenses to support your father, and your grandmother has your aunt and uncle, not you.

I have to talk to my husband. This family belongs to two people and not to him alone, and the husband and wife have a piece of gold, and the loess can become gold. Besides, do you have those spare money for relatives, if both of them are working-class, the money is sometimes not enough to save money, how can you take it out for others?

Another question is to find out whether your own family members also have this situation in addition to their family members who always bother you, and you only bother other other people's families and not your family. If both families have this situation, they should be treated equally, after all, they must "love the house and Wuji". If it's just his family who has this situation, then it's time to think about it, after a long time, it's difficult for a good person to do, and if you don't help others once, you'll be left behind.

Aren't you in charge of both of your salaries? It is not easy to let my husband know that it is not easy to buy a family, and now it is difficult to help others, and it is really difficult to find someone to help. Save some money for yourself and don't spend it all.

Since what you said has happened, then your husband must support or acquiesce, then your husband must have his thoughts, or be kind, or take into account family affection. Then you can talk to your husband about this, after all, your family all rely on work to earn money, and each has a family, of course help is needed, but you can't help but think about yourself.