What are some of the things you hate to hear during pregnancy?

I hate it when others ask if they know if they are pregnant with a boy or a girl, and my mother just wants to say that boys and girls are my babies, and you and others are in my belly, and dogs bite rats and meddle with things.

Eat more for the sake of the child, or what happened when we were pregnant, depending on how good your conditions are now. Or if you look at you, some people play basketball and the child is still not flowing, you don't have to pay too much attention to the fetus and the like, a pregnant woman who doesn't know that for the sake of the child to pay more attention to eat more nutritious, barely eat vomit is even more sinful. Now that the air is poor, the physical fitness is poor, the environment pollutes the food, and there are pesticides, can it be the same as before?

Besides, I care about my children, I rest more and buy more skin care products, I make my own money, and I don't delay the construction of socialism, which I worry about one by one.

Whether it is better for the son or the second daughter, we will know when the child gets married or lies in the hospital.

The second child hopes to be a girl, and I hate it when others say that you look like this and a boy!

Pregnant women are the key protection objects, and the topics of the people around them will always revolve around pregnant women, of course, when pregnant, there are many words that pregnant women do not like to hear.

For example: Did you go for a B-ultrasound? Is it a boy or a girl?

This is a topic that many pregnant women hate very much. Although in our time, boys and girls are treasures in the eyes of mothers, but in that traditional thinking, the concept of preference for sons will still affect the older generation and even many young people. If you are pregnant with a son, everyone seems to look up to you, and if you are pregnant with a girl, everyone will also say that it is good to have a girl and reduce your burden.

However, this kind of topic will invisibly increase the psychological pressure of pregnant women. In fact, most pregnant women still expect to be able to give birth to a boy, after all, boys are the ones who can carry on the family in the eyes of adults. There is another kind of saying that pregnant women don't like to hear, that is, ouch, you have gained a lot of weight after pregnancy.

Although it is said that almost every woman will gain weight after pregnancy, it is normal for some to even gain forty or fifty pounds. However, if this fact is stated, it will sound very unpleasant. Another example is that your ** becomes bad after pregnancy, although it is a fact, but as a woman, I don't like to hear it.

When I was pregnant, the most annoying thing was that people asked me if I was pregnant with a boy or a girl. Because I was already old when I gave birth to my daughter.

Born at the age of 29, my husband's family is okay with this boy and girl, but my husband's grandfather thinks more traditionally, and feels that if he marries into his family, he must give birth to a boy.

My husband's family belongs to the kind of three generations of single transmission, my grandfather's family is my husband's father, and his father is my husband himself, so the pressure is high. But I felt in my heart that I needed to have a son. But having a son and a daughter is not something I can decide, so whenever someone asks me if the baby is a boy or a girl, I am particularly disgusted.

I belong to the first child, if I gave birth to a son, then I can also pay the difference, if I give birth to a daughter, it seems that I need to give birth to two treasures to die. Alas! I'm still angry when I think about it now.

I'm not rejecting having daughters, there are really a few daughters in this society who now feel that there are no boys in the family, but in the end, it's their parents who enjoy happiness and no pressure, why doesn't anyone think so.

So when my daughter was born, my husband was still very good, including my mother-in-law, they didn't say anything, and my grandfather was much more unhappy. But I didn't say anything in front of me, and I heard from my relatives at home that my grandfather sometimes told my relatives and neighbors in my hometown that I was not angry.

I am a person who has no intention of having a second child, thinking about the sin I suffered when I gave birth to a child, the conditions at home are not so good, and the cost of raising a child is so high, I don't want to have children.

I knew I didn't want to hear about boys and girls when I was pregnant, and I never asked or talked about these sensitive topics as long as I knew or saw that my colleagues had big bellies.

<> women experience great pain in the process of pregnancy and childbirth, it is easy to raise the noise and cause psychological trauma, please pay more attention to the pregnant women around you during this critical period, and do not create anxiety for them