What is it like to be separated from life and death?

What kind of experience is life and death parting, pain, really heart-rending pain, there is really one, at least at that moment of heartbreak.

During the summer vacation of my sophomore year of high school, I experienced the death of a close relative for the first time, and that person was my great uncle. On the first day of his death, we also went to my aunt's house, my hometown, and there would be a meeting (similar to a temple fair) at different times between different villages. At that time, I knew that my uncle's health was not good, he had been sick, and he had undergone a tumor removal operation not long ago, so he didn't stay long at my aunt's house and went back to his own house to rest.

However, in the afternoon of the next day, I was chatting in the house after lunch with my mother, and suddenly received a ** from my father, saying that my uncle had passed away and was now rushing home from the hospital, so let's go to my uncle's house to clean up. At that moment, I felt that it was fake, and there was always a voice in my heart "impossible", until I saw the coffin, I believed that it was true, and the tears couldn't stop falling, it was really like a broken thread.

Treat the deceased, enter the soil for peace, when nailing the coffin, the family is not allowed to approach, standing in the courtyard, every hammer is like smashing on their own heart, a hammer down, the heartbreak is nothing, at that moment, yin and yang are separated, goodbye, can not forget, heart-rending pain!

Perhaps the one thing we are powerless to change in this world is life and death. We have to watch our loved ones leave us. So helpless, only tears, only sadness, but nothing can be done by himself.

At that moment, we felt so small and vulnerable in this universe.

I remember in the first month of this year, one of my cousins was killed and passed away. In the distance, we saw him lying on the cold bed without getting angry for a single time. At that moment, it seemed to feel a little unreal.

A living person is right in front of us, and it leaves us like that. I always feel that he seems to have nostalgia for the world and a trace of reluctance. But I suddenly felt that when people went to this world, they would eventually turn into a handful of loess.

The short life seems to be over in the blink of an eye. At that moment, we are sad and sad! I wanted to look at him more, but I didn't even have the courage to raise my eyes.

I wanted to touch him again, but I couldn't lift my hand. It seems that the air around me is cold. Looking back now, I feel that it was all faintly desolate.

A pain that will never be forgotten for the rest of your life, a pain that cannot be told and can only be experienced by yourself. Every time I think about it, it hurts beyond words.

One is awe, and the other is pain.

Why can't you give people a second chance to be born Children are too young to know why they are suffering all this.

You can try it and you'll find out.

People who have not personally experienced life and death will never be able to experience that kind of sadness, they will feel that it is good to forget about it after a while, but those who have experienced the loss of their loved ones know what kind of sadness and pain it is.

That kind of sadness is actually very simple, it is a kind of sadness that you can't see if you want to see it, and you can't do anything about it. A person who has been with you for twenty, thirty, forty, or even a long, long time, suddenly leaves, never to be seen again, and there is no longer him in every festival that should be reunited. In the past few months or years, anything about parting will cause you endless sadness.

Others may think that the first few days after the death of their loved ones are the most painful, but only they know that the days to come, when no one comes to comfort and no one to disturb, are the most painful. Because you just passed away, in the days of the funeral, you have enough reason to cry in public, no one will blame you, but after the funeral, you can only go back to the room, hiding alone in the bed and sad, others ask, and others, it is a cold!

Therefore, if your friend is sad about someone's death, no matter who the person who left is, please don't say more, don't ask more, don't show your sincerity at this time, look like it has nothing to do with you, so you don't feel it, this is not sincerity, this is indifference; Don't show your wisdom at this time, say a bunch of big truths, it's not wisdom, it's stupidity, it will make you lose this friend very quickly.

People will experience many hardships in their lives, such as the failure of their careers, the failure of love, watching their relatives being tormented by illness and being powerless, watching their idols slowly grow old and feeling thousands of emotions, and watching their loved ones say goodbye to themselves.

And all this suffering, the most unbearable thing is the weight of life, life and death.

This is exactly how many sad things in the world are, and it is the most difficult to part with life and death.

But birth, old age, sickness and death are the laws of nature, whether you are a beggar with nothing or a king with boundless power, everyone is equal in the face of death.

There are no young and old on Huangquan Road, just like the same reason that talents are not young and old.

Some people have lived all their lives, wasted their time, gained nothing, did not learn and did not know, and were mediocre. Some people know astronomy at a young age, know geography, and are full of economy.

And it is the same in the face of death.

Remnant flowers adorn the branches;

The birds flew away, and scattered red all over the ground

Is life a glimpse like this?

Excerpt from Bing Xin's "Stars" - 8).

Life and departure - is a hazy moon and day cavity silver manuscript, death farewell -

It is a haggard falling flower.

Selected from Bing Xin's "Stars" - 22).

You are the April day on earth.

Lin Hui was fighting.

I say you are the April day of the earth;

The sound of laughter lit up the winds on all sides; Brisk.

In the glory of spring, Wu Xiaochang danced.

You are the clouds and smoke in the early April sky, the soft wind blowing in the dusk, and the stars are there.

Inadvertently flashed; Drizzle in front of the flowers.

That light, that graceful, you are, Xianyan.

You wear the crown of a hundred flowers, you are.

Innocent, solemn, you are the full moon of the night.

After the snow melts, the goose yellow, you are like; Fresh.

The first bud of green, you are; Soft and joyful.

The water floats in your dreams, looking forward to the white lotus.

You are the blossom of a tree, a swallow.

Whispering between the beams,—— You are love, warmth, hope, you are the April day of the world!

The parting of life and death means: the parting that is not easy to see again.

Detailed explanation of the word: life and death parting: shēng sǐ lí bié refers to the parting that is not easy to see again.

Quote] Northern Zhou - Yu Xin "Proposed Lianzhu": "Gai smelled the Great Wall of death, and left the Han Valley in life." ”

For example, perhaps the saddest thing in the world is the life and death of relatives and friends.

Anti] life and death depend on each other.

It is mostly used to describe the feelings of sadness, joy, desolation, and resentment.

synonyms: life and death.

Antonyms: Grow old together, forever.

Sad sentence of life and death parting:

1. After parting, reminiscing about each other. A few soul dreams with you. Tonight, I am afraid that the meeting is in a dream.

2. When we were separated, we didn't linger with tears, relatively, speechless. Watch the sunset pass through the spire of Wenfeng, sprinkling its afterglow on the banks of the Xiqing River.

Verses of life and death parting:

Yulou Chun Yanshu.

The green poplar grass is long on the road, and it is easy to go when you are young. The remnants of the dream at the head of the building are five watches, and the flowers are separated from the March rain. Ruthless is not as affectionate as bitterness, and an inch is still tens of millions of wisps. When there is poverty at the end of the world, there is only endless lovesickness.

Wangfu Shi Wang Jian.

Wangfu's place, Jiang Youyou; Turn to stone and don't look back. The mountain is windy and rainy day by day, and the pedestrians return to Shi Yingyu.

In fact, the so-called parting of life and death is that he is lying in the coffin, no matter how heartbreaking you cry next to him, he will not open his eyes to look at you, no matter how miserable you call him next to him, he will not wake up to comfort you,,, this is the parting of life and death.

Just like after **, some of the family members are alive and some are dead, that is life and death.

That's the most painful thing you have to go through in life: your loved ones, your loved ones, your friends, and everyone else in your life will be separated one day, for whatever reason.