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Needless to say, after two people get married, they will support each other and get along with each other in life, and I will definitely take the initiative to share the burden of the family. This has nothing to do with money, and it can't be defined because you earn more or less, even if you don't earn a penny, you will work hard to share it, let alone earn more than your husband.
Maybe for many single young women, I have heard all kinds of feminist declarations in society, "the wife is responsible for being beautiful like a flower, and the husband is responsible for making money to support the family" and so on, if you listen without hesitation, and unswervingly implement it, then congratulations, your future married life will definitely not be happy. This statement may only exist in our common TV dramas, and it is not aimed at female friends here, because the reason why a family is called home is because it is not formed by one person, and it requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife.
There used to be a housewife's saying, and later with the development of society, slowly the family cook also rose, the reason for this I believe many people know, the husband in the family does not earn as much money as the wife, so in order to better take care of his family, the husband chooses to resign and choose to be a full-time husband, at this time the living expenses of the family girls need to bear all the expenses, not just half, in this society is now the norm, if there is no opinion between the two sides, it is understandable, Therefore, how much money a woman makes actually has no impact on marriage, and the factors that really affect the family are the feelings of both parties and the dedication to the family.
For the life after marriage, we can't care about everyone's income, since the husband and wife have formed a family, they need to pay each other, and two people can't distinguish between you and me, so that they can be distinct, which is very undesirable.
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Yes, the family is two. Why should I let my husband bear it himself, even if his income is not high, he will run this family well.
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I will share the burden of life with my other half, love is mutually giving, and since he is my husband, I should help him.
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If I have a high income, I will cover the cost of living. After all, life depends on two people to run it. And not men pay unilaterally.
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I think it depends on the situation. Although his income is average, he has to spend more time in the family and I will share in life. But if he doesn't work hard at work and doesn't take care of his family much, I won't share this situation.
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Definitely! I feel that the amount of money I earn has nothing to do with the gender of men and women! As long as you can live your own little life well, it is the king, haha! The more you earn, the better!
Save money while working while looking for a side hustle, and wait for your side hustle income to exceed your main hustle before considering changing jobs or quitting your job, unless your family conditions are good, and accumulating the first pot of gold when you are young is the most important.
In the story that is sadder than sadness, if it were me, I would have listened to my parents' arrangement, and then attended classes in school seriously, and would not provoke others, but if others provoked me, I would treat others in their own way.
With 3,000 yuan a month, barely enough to support myself, life is really difficult. High quality of life, not delusional for the time being.
Your brother and that woman are not worthy of your cherishment, but don't turn your face with your brother and continue to be good with him, after all, brother is a woman for life'' that kind of woman is not straight to your love!
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