How far is your ideal partner from your real life partner?

There must be a gap between the ideal type and the reality, because people have shortcomings, and it is very difficult to run in.

I think instead of thinking about it and not regretting it, I think it's better to change the question: do you still have the confidence to keep trying?

People will become, a young man with a long body in high school will become a pot-bellied uncle in the future, and a beautiful woman with a thin waist and long legs will become a middle-aged woman with a wrinkled face, but your experience along the way is there, life is never short of difficulties, but you have to maintain a heart to overcome difficulties.

If you have just stepped into a relationship, then you feel that your current partner is too different from what you want, and you want better, please do this.

There is no way to ignore the gap, so I often think that people should not expect too much when looking for a partner, it will be easier in the future, of course, it cannot be said that there are no expectations.

However, what do you expect, the moment you meet love, you can't remember what you want.

So there should be so many standards to have an egg.

You will remember that it was your relationship that was going through a tribulation.

At this time, find out the problem and solve the problem... Regret or not, at least I have never regretted anything, only the heart to bear the consequences.

Hello, there is a big gap between the ideal other half and the other half in real life, the ideal other half is handsome and chic, but the other half in real life is not only handsome and chic, but also has a successful career, which is really unexpected.

My ideal other half.

with my real partner.

There is a certain gap.

This happens.

It's normal.

The ideal is just your own imagination.

Reality is more practical.

I recommend him to you and hope he can help you.

The ideal other half is also a teacher, a friend and a husband. He is not only a teacher who can guide me in my career and enlighten me spiritually, but also a friend who has the same three views and can share the fun, and a husband who supports each other and never abandons me in life.

Two people have the same three views, crazy together, make trouble together, progress Huaihui together, encourage each other, and become a better self for each other, the best love is natural and comfortable and unrestrained, and present the most true self to him who loves, two people lean together, silently look at the sea, silent but better than a thousand words. The best love is not a charcoal in the snow, but the icing on the cake. The best love is not sweet words, but warm companionship.

There is no better love than waking up with you, turning around with you, having you when you are sad, having you when you are happy, having you when you are lonely, and being there when you are needed. The best look of love should be that I worship you like a hero, and you love me like a child. Whenever you do, whatever you do, you feel comfortable with each other.

Here's what I expect from my ideal partner:

The first point is that they have the same interests and have a common language.

A person's life is still relatively long, since two people get married, you have formed your own family, you need each other's company, only she can accompany me for a lifetime, even if it is impossible for children, they grow up, after all, they still have to have their own family, so I think the ideal she and I can have some of the same hobbies.

When two people are together, they can have a lot to say, such a life is more interesting, and the imbalance will be so boring, or she can be cheerful and can drive me to chat and communicate.

The second point is that I love her, and she loves me.

My ideal partner must be the one who loves me and the person I love, so it is a very romantic thing for two people who love each other to be together and grow old together. Two people have each other in their hearts from the very beginning. Thinking about each other all the time.

Thirdly, I want my ideal partner to have a career of his own.

Although the pillar of the family should be the man in the family, and he should take on the pressure of the family, and I will definitely do this, but I think my other half should have her own career and her own business.

Even if she doesn't make a lot of money, I don't care how much money she makes, what I care about is that she has something she likes to do, not to be an idler. I just know things like shopping, eating and watching movies every day, I hope she can realize her own value, do something she likes, and hope that her life can be fulfilled.