It s a little troublesome, ask for enlightenment

Since it's a good buddy, don't destroy it.。。。 You just haven't met the girl you like, and being beautiful and cute doesn't make every man feel excited. It is possible that the person you like is more special, has more contact with your buddy, and he is very good to you, you are pinning your trust on him, and your kind of relationship cannot be regarded as love, just a good feeling.

I used to go to college and there were a lot of T's around me, and they all became like that because of injuries, you shouldn't be gay. Hang out with the girls you like, and you'll find it fun to be with them. Don't let you even be friends, some buddies are very good to their buddies and never care about their own efforts, I am also very good to my sisters, our colleagues say that I am gay, that I don't play boyfriend because of those female friends, but in fact it is not, I treat my sisters like my family.

You can give anything, so don't get your buddy wrong, he is good to you because he is kind and good to others, it doesn't mean that he means that to you.

Seriously, in fact, how to say it, the pursuit of spiritual same-sex is not that aspect at all, you don't need to worry, I think your situation is very similar to one of my classmates, he used to be very distressed, said that he was not interested in girls, but then took the road of gay, I carefully analyzed what you said above, I think that since the emotional matter comes from the feeling, then you should start with the feeling in your heart, if you have money, you can go to the psychiatrist, (not that you are sick or anything, don't get me wrong, Just trying to help you) Why do you have a feeling of affection for your buddy? You should think about when this happened, what did he do to make you feel liked, how do you judge that you like him, this kind of problem cannot be avoided, the fire of feelings will only become more and more intense, only by facing it squarely, can it be solved. You don't need to deliberately avoid him, you have to figure out what you like and what makes you like him, and then prescribe the right medicine.

In addition......I feel that from the feeling you said, you should want to be taken care of, maybe because you feel lonely because of the familiar environment, his appearance is like a lifesaver, so I feel like him, maybe it is due to the lack or desire for this feeling of being taken care of since childhood, some of his behaviors have touched you, this problem is very similar to the problem of early love, what is lacking and what to ask for, if you are depressed and a little uncomfortable, it is recommended that you read the Buddhist scriptures or something, joke books are OK, relax your heart.

You still don't understand love, you're just a lack of love to shift your attention to him, it's not love, maybe you don't understand what you want, it feels like you haven't been in love, you haven't made up for the gap in your heart, a little unconfident, focus on the girl you feel good about, stay away from the man, slowly you will know what you want, and rely on love to usually contact more girls If you like him very much and can't let it go, that's a psychological problem, or it's more important to be a happy man, You have a great future ahead of you, don't waste it!

If you're not quite sure you're gay, you can try a gay bar, but stay safe.

Does that buddy of yours have a girlfriend? Find out what he thinks about homosexuality. If your buddy is heterosexual and despises homosexuality, is strong and stubborn in character, be friends!

lest you get hurt yourself. Straight bends are glorious and difficult tasks, don't try if you are not strong enough.

You mind too much, it's this day and age, right?! Let it be, it's not easy for people to live for a lifetime, and besides, China's national conditions, right, it's not easy for people to live, so be kind to yourself. If you want to open a little, don't care too much about the return, you give your own, it is also a kind of happiness, a kind of joy, the more you mind, the more sad you will be.

Hello, in fact, I think that this kind of thing is really genderless, you have to distinguish between love and like, whether the feeling of the boy is love, whether the feeling of the girl can only be a friend, when the girl gets along with you, do you feel that they treat you as a best friend, if you are sure that you are in love with the boy, then there is nothing to resist If you fall in love, you fall in love There are a few gay around me, and I don't feel that I am discriminated against or anything on the contrary, I appreciate (I am not) appreciate being able to admit my feelings bravely.

Happy finally! Be brave and pursue what you want!!

You should face the feelings in your heart correctly, otherwise, if you keep struggling like this, you will get sick. You can ask yourself some questions, and then go deep into your heart's will and face it calmly. You can find empathetic girls, bless you!

Find a psychiatrist, don't be afraid of embarrassment, they are professional and will guide you slowly, as long as you are happy, the important thing is that confidentiality is also the ethics of doctors.

Brother help you with a move. It's a lot easier to have some drinks (and more) with your good friend and talk about it. This thing is actually nothing, don't think about it so complicated, life is too short, do some things you want to do, as long as you are happy, don't care what others think, if 2012 is really the end of the century, will you still be so entangled?

Actually, I feel that you don't feel safe, so you will be interested in men, because men are subconsciously, that is, safety, in one, you must have been hurt a lot when you were young, or lack of love, in short, you participate in more physical exercise, men's sports, watch more gunfight movies,

Dude, there is a long way to go, it is useless to rely on others to enlighten, if your buddy knows, you may not even be able to be a friend.

China's national conditions, buddy!! Nima: In a word, let it be!!

It's better to think of a solution by yourself, you can't delay this matter, you have to face it sooner or later, you are also an adult, don't say that this thing also has to depend.

Go with the flow, maybe you just didn't find the girl who made your heart flutter. Don't dwell too much on this matter, who says that college students must find a partner?

You're really struggling! It's good that you're still like you are to other buddies and to him, and then go find a girl who feels good about a relationship, and after a long time, you will definitely fall in love with that girl!

I love your eyes, your teeth, your smile, and even your body I just pity you for my kind, and there is nothing more tragic in the world than this little mistake But I want to overcome my demons.

What you have to do now is to deal with this problem positively, there should be a little problem with your psychology, have you ever been hurt by a girl before?

Homosexuality is not discriminated against in China, but is protected. Go your own way and let others do the talking.

Nothing, why don't you find a psychiatrist to enlighten and analyze the causes? Generally, a state has a cause, some are superficial, and some are potential.

You're supposed to be gay....I suggest that you don't do anything and go with the flow, and continue to be good friends. I think there was a similar situation around me back then, and when I found out, I decisively broke off relations with him. gay...It's still scary.

Look at the chance, I used to be like you, but I should be able to meet the one who feels it. When you come across it, it's solved.

Pay more attention to girls, see if you feel anything, and try to date

Last time I looked at a case that said that there would be no 100% absolute heterosexuals. That is, everyone has a love for the same sex, if it is represented by 1 19, the vast minority is 1 or 19, and most people are in the middle

I think you should self-regulate first, and if you really can't go to a psychiatrist.

You need to find a girl who looks like a boy, probably this kind of you will like.

I rub I don't know you, do I? How can it be like this, just four words, don't even think about it!! My friend just owes a scolding, I'm idle according to you, I have time to do something else.

I'm a. I've been watching it for a long time, and I don't know if you're a man or a woman? What is abnormal??? I don't understand.

Uh, let's go see a psychiatrist--

You may have been injured and it is advisable to see a psychiatrist.

It's a bit impulsive, I have a car at any time, and I try to save some money to buy it again.