Would you take care of your boyfriend who has been bedridden for a year?

Updated on society 2024-06-17
69 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No, I am still a boyfriend after being in bed for a year. If it's a husband, you can. The rest will not work.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Many people choose to fall in love during college, but how many of the partners in college can become future partners? Most couples will choose to break up when they graduate, and the graduation season will become the breakup season, and the story of a college student couple in Henan has touched many people.

    Zuo Yapeng, a junior college boy in Xinxiang, Henan Province, was bedridden and unable to move due to severe compression of nerves due to a herniated lumbar intervertebral disc. Ren Jierui, his girlfriend who has been in love for 5 years, did not choose to break up, but made an amazing decision to go to the hospital every day to take care of her.

    Some people persuaded to break up, after all, for a college student, she still has plenty of time to start a new relationship and find a more suitable person, but she said that she would always be with her boyfriend. The boy said that he hoped to truly become a family in the future.

    My girlfriend told reporters: We were in the same class in high school, and the university was specially transferred to the same class, in high school, he actually had this problem, and it was even more serious in college, I didn't shed a single tear in front of my boyfriend, but whenever I went home, I would cry secretly in the quilt alone, and my eyes were all swollen the next day.

    Netizens have praised the girl's behavior, but a small number of netizens have put forward different opinions, they think that the girl can find a better one. What's more, if a boy had this disease in high school, he might have suffered from it for the rest of his life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    So why did he stay in bed for so long? Take care of it, he will take care of it, but unless you want to get married, you may have to go a long, long way.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Is it just a boyfriend? Does his bed stay have anything to do with you? Is there a reason for you to take care of it, and if there is, then take care of it! Everyone's emotions and the reasons for each thing are different, and they should be treated according to the specific situation!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why did my boyfriend stay in bed for a year? If it were just ordinary, then I would stay away from him, because there is still a long way to go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In ordinary life, see if he still cares about you, whether this kind of thing only happens once or twice or often, and whether you often quarrel, whether you still love your husband in your own heart, you must think about it clearly, after all, it is not easy for two people to walk together. Then you can talk to your husband well, if it is only occasionally wrong, but also give him a chance to correct, if your husband no longer cares about you, then separate it, after all, it is not interesting to look good, in short, be cautious.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can communicate your thoughts with him well, don't be noisy, tone better, talk about his opinion, maybe your husband doesn't know how to take care of people, no one has taught him to do this. Men are basically like that, you have to tell him what you want and teach him how to do it. Then he will slowly learn to take care of you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe he has something to be tied up, and the most important thing between husband and wife is mutual understanding and consideration

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it weren't for your own reasons, you would have dispersed a long time ago.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's too ruthless to rule out that there is no other reason first.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, the most important thing for the husband and wife together is to be attentive, and they can't get hot when their hearts are cold. But after all, it's a husband and wife, you can't point him out, and if necessary, make it clear, sometimes men are too careless.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A man is very loving, will add points to his personality charm, it can be seen that he is a very kind, and responsible man, marrying such a person will make people feel very relieved and down-to-earth.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There will be no happiness. Although this man is very loving, he will give all his love to the people around him and will take little care of you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A caring and responsible man will definitely be good to the person he loves, so if the two are happy, I think I will be happy to marry such a person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    will be happy, because such a man will be very loving and will also pamper his wife.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Happiness. From taking care of the elderly, it can be seen that this man is filial, careful, knows how to take care of him, and is reliable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    From this man's actions, it is not difficult to see that his sense of responsibility is very strong, so he will definitely be very happy with such a man, and there will be very few conflicts between two people.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Does it matter... The person you like needs your care, what gossip can you have...

    Say what you want to stay if you get married, and don't stay if you don't get married. Is this what a loved one should say ...

    You just have to take care of it yourself. What to do and what not to do, you should know what to do.

    I wish your boyfriend a speedy **

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are sure that you can stay overnight if you marry him, if not, don't stay...

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you get married, it's okay to stay.

    If you're not sure when you're going to break up.

    It's better not to stay, it's not good for anyone.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should accompany you, but don't do things you shouldn't. Your mom must be worried about that, too.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Not staying overnight is a kind of reserve of women.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You just have to take care of it yourself. What to do and what not to do, you should know what to do.

    I wish your boyfriend a speedy **

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    His parents are good to you, aren't you all going to get married?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Eventually we will know.

    Let them divorce, but you can take care of her together, can you do it?

    If not, your boyfriend chooses for himself. Don't go together before you don't choose.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Not getting married is a moral issue, getting married is a crime of bigamy, and it's better not to do that!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Illegal cohabitation, if you sue him, he will break the law, and usually if you don't sue him, the police will not care about this.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The law does not seem to have a separate law for a third party!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If it is illegal to marry, it is not illegal not to marry, but it is morally condemnable.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    As long as he does not dissolve the relationship one day: neither of you is legal!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You are a third party, you are sorry for his paralyzed wife like this!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    As long as you don't let his wife know, I think it's okay to continue to be good to his wife.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Violate the law. Do you want such a man?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    When a man says such things to a woman, in general, there is a purpose, whether the purpose is good or bad.

    It takes a long time to see people's hearts, and you can't see a person's heart just by one sentence. When a man says something like this, don't be too busy moving, someone has said that if you think love is real, you should try it in bed first.

    Although the words are a little rough, they are not rough.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Why do you have to be taken care of by men? Learn to be strong. Don't rely too much on him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    He's right, even if you're married, he can't stay with you all the time.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If he is 30, then it can be understood, this is caused by his personality, look at you, he may be with you for a short time, I am my words, I must care more about you than he is honest, this does not mean that you are a little woman, he said that you have to learn to take care of yourself, tell you, if I were he, he would be especially willing to spend money for you, who made me like you, I am 20 this year, do you want to think about it Joke.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    As a woman, it is not surprising to have this kind of thought, graduating women always want to find a solid arm to take care of themselves, want to find a harbor to dock, but in many cases, people always have to learn to survive independently.

    From the man's point of view, such a big person has to learn to take care of himself, and from the perspective of general emotion, he really doesn't do it carefully enough, lacks thinking when he speaks, and doesn't take into account that you need his care the most at this time!

    What would you think? After all, you are more familiar with his character than we are, as a person.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's so hard to draw conclusions. Because I haven't been in a relationship with him. From the fact that he can take you to the Chinese and Western hospitals to see a doctor, he still cares about you.

    When he knew that it was just a little cold, he was relieved. Think you can take care of yourself. Maybe he still has a lot of things to do, and he doesn't want to know about it, so I'm afraid you'll be worried.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's impossible to cover everything after a long time, of course I don't know what your boyfriend's character is, if you can get by, you can forgive it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Since there are so many contradictions between you, then don't force yourself together, two people fall in love and get married.

    It's different, marriage is to think about each other, be considerate of each other, care for each other, and take care of each other, rather than losing your temper because of some small things or something, so I think you should think about your relationship well, don't get a certificate or something when you are hot-headed, don't joke about the happiness of your life, otherwise you will only be hurt in the end.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think your boyfriend is okay, maybe it's just a short temper, some words blurted out without deep thinking, what about you, don't let your boyfriend do everything you can do, do what you can do yourself, girls should learn to be independent, don't rely on anyone, because only you can be reliable, no one else can, you can help him with anything in the future, have time to talk to your boyfriend, let him have a temper in the future, think about what he says, It would be nice if this sentence would affect others.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Girl: If you listen to me, don't be too willful, you have been saying for a long time that neither of you is "incongruous" in principle. True love must tolerate each other, you can't force your boyfriend's haircut to be done exactly what you want, you two still have to keep a good distance, I infer that your boyfriend's temper is still quite good, take your time, there is a process of adapting to each other!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I feel that your boyfriend's personality is a bit rebellious, no matter what you do, you have to follow his character, he doesn't care about you very much, and he won't take care of you, if you can stand him like this, stay with him, if you can't stand it, just do it!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Maybe you share different values in some way, and I think you're the kind of person you want to be taken care of.

    Usually you must know how he behaves, if there are differences in many aspects, you worry a lot about him every day, and if you don't change your advice, it is recommended to separate.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    For this kind of person who doesn't know how to cherish, divide it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Your boyfriend may not love you, but I'm your boyfriend and I've already said goodbye to you!! I really can't stand being in charge of everything, and I will be criticized if I don't do it right! You're mentally a bit of a problem.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Then see if you can accommodate.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    He doesn't love you, he doesn't need you to say he will take the initiative to do it, it doesn't matter if he loves you or not.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Well, the only child is more centered on me.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Ask how old you are this year, how old is the man?

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You should have brought it up when you were working on a work-related injury and compensation, and now you mean it.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You have been bedridden for a year due to a work injury. Your wife has been nursing, and you can ask your boss for your nursing fees. This is reasonable.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If it is not your wife to take care of you, he also has to hire a caregiver is the same, so your wife is equivalent to replacing the caregiver, and your wife's caregiver salary should be given by the boss.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    If the boss does not agree, you can also go to the court to compensate for the work-related injury compensation and compensate for the nursing expenses.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Normally, you can apply for nursing care fees, and this requirement is also reasonable, so you can apply.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    According to the work-related injury management measures, your company must have nursing staff to accompany the staff, and the nursing staff will be allocated according to the degree of work-related injury. You can also negotiate with the company to pay for your own nursing care, and in your case, you can ask for nursing wages like the company.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    You've been bedridden for a year. Did you make a reward when you made a share? If the boss has a reward, it depends on whether the nursing fee is included. If you don't have a care fee, you can ask your boss for it, and he has to pay for it.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    You can ask your boss for a year's worth of care. This is reasonable and legal, it is money that should be paid to you, and as long as it is a legitimate right, it should be safeguarded. Hope you can get it.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Since it is a work-related injury, this situation must belong to them to compensate.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Well, you can ask the boss for nursing fees, according to the requirements of the national industry and commerce, you can negotiate with the boss, if the boss does not agree, you can find the arbitration committee to help you solve it, thank you.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    In your case, you should have applied right away. or go through legal procedures to prosecute. Let him make up for it at once!

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    A person who has been injured on official duty and has been bedridden for a year, and your wife has been nursing you for a year, can you ask the boss for a year's nursing expenses? This can't be done, boss, if it has been given to you, that is, the cost of ** illness, as well as work-related injury subsidies, the nursing expenses given to you by your wife should have been included in it, right?

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    This is a matter of course, you are bedridden for a year due to a work injury, and you can ask your wife for nursing care and do not ask for it. Send someone to care for you.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    The nursing fee is paid according to the nursing period identified in the appraisal, and if the year is within the nursing period determined in the appraisal, the employer can be asked to pay the nursing fee.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    It should be, otherwise the boss will have to spend money to hire someone to take care of you, and your wife will not go out to make money to take care of you at home, so the boss will naturally have to pay a salary.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    You can ask your boss for a year's worth of care.

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    You can apply for a subsidy and tell the boss about the specific situation and ask the boss to give the subsidy.

  69. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    Yes, I just feel that the company did not give you the care fee before, and what you need now is to negotiate first and then arbitrate. Final Prosecution!!

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