My friend s grandfather died, and I kept vigil with him, can I sleep in his house in the middle of t

I'm sure you can sleep at his house, after all, you've been keeping watch until midnight, and everyone has a sleep. It was his grandfather who died. You can go to sleep.

You can sleep, but there are generally many people at vigil, so you can't sleep, so it's better to stick to it, after all, everyone is there, and it's a bit inappropriate to go to sleep.

Yes, after all, it's a friend's grandfather, since you accompany the vigil, it's not convenient to go home at night, so it's better to rest at a friend's house.

Yes, your grandfather's friend is also your elder, we should respect him and sleep at a friend's house.

This is possible, why not? There is nothing to prevent from sleeping, and it will not be good, and it is not a relative, but an outsider.

My boyfriend's grandfather died, should I accompany him to his wake? You have to think about it. If you are going to the man's house as a girlfriend.

Accompany him on his wake, and you need to know what he thinks of you in his home. Are you sure you are his daughter-in-law? In addition, you and your boyfriend have to tell you about the family.

And you said that if you tell your family, your family will definitely not agree. It's better not to go when there is no mutual certainty. Because you're not part of his family.

What does it mean to be in the past?

If a good friend's grandfather dies, keeping filial piety with friends and sleeping with friends can show deep affection for friends.

Try not to go, this has nothing to do with you, try not to be unlucky

You have to think about it. If you are going to the man's house as a girlfriend. Accompany him on his wake, and you need to know what he thinks of you in his home.

Are you sure you are his daughter-in-law? In addition, you and your boyfriend have to tell you about the family. And you said that if you tell your family, your family will definitely not agree.

It's better not to go when there is no mutual certainty. Because you're not part of his family. What does it mean to be in the past?

This is to consider, the opinion of his family and your family. It's just boyfriend and girlfriend, and it's not married yet, and some people of the older generation will definitely disapprove of it. You've only been talking about it for less than a year, so I suggest you don't go and just comfort him. Went to the inappropriate .

If you are more familiar with his family, it will be fine, if you are only familiar with your boyfriend, don't go, it's not appropriate.

It's not very suitable, after all, I didn't marry into your family, but if I accompany you, it is estimated that your parents and grandfather will think that your girlfriend is good, each has its own good and bad, depending on what you plan.

Sure, based on your relationship with your friend, what you're worried about is bad luck, and I'm telling you that I live in a funeral home every day. Eat well and sleep well.

It's usually your own family.

Friends are not suitable.

You can do it during the day, but you don't want it at night.

The vigil is all sons, daughters-in-law, daughters-in-law, sons-in-law.

The boss's grandfather died, and you went to accompany the boss to keep vigil, and in general, there was nothing taboo. It's okay to do the general junior ceremony. Just do whatever your boss does.

No, you're not a descendant, so you don't need to keep the main vigil, but you can accompany you.

Note

One: night watchman and dress.

The night watchman is basically the closest person to the deceased, and will let a few people keep vigil together, and then everyone will change to rest. Relatives who are about to get married, or who have been married for less than half a year, should wear red cloth strips, wear white clothes and white pants, and wear white headscarves in terms of dress, and women should not be too revealing.

2: At night, you should always burn a little paper money for the deceased every once in a while and light the lamp.

Three: On the night of the vigil, Mr. will draw a lot of symbols, and he will paste the charms on every door and window, and four: There are generally gentlemen, and the status of Mr. in the countryside is the highest, and what Mr. says to do and what he needs to do immediately. If you serve your husband well, you will do your best to do your best.

Don't do:One can't let chickens and cats, especially cats, jump on the coffin. Second, whether it is a child or an adult, you can't talk nonsense, and you can't talk about some taboo topics.

Third, if the body of the deceased has a peculiar smell, you can't say some disgusting words, and you must immediately cover up or deal with the peculiar smell.

In the mourning room, you should pay special attention, if you don't know what you don't know, you have to ask the gentleman, in short, the gentleman is the highest status on this occasion.

It's not just your relatives who keep vigil, you also have good friends and neighbors who accompany you, and you have a lot of work to do because you have to prepare for the next day's hospitality.

Now the vigil is all about everyone getting together to work, playing cards and mahjong on the one hand to help the work, and on the other hand, to accompany the family of the deceased to spend a sad time.

There is no rule for this, depending on whether you usually have a good relationship with the deceased or move around a lot, if the relationship is good, the vigil to send him on the last journey is also right, if the relationship is average, you don't need to go to the vigil, just follow the part.

You can keep it, it's not mandatory, your brother's words should be observed, most areas are brothers and sisters in turn, depending on your local customs, generally there must be a filial son (the biological son of the deceased old man) and his son-in-law every night.

If there are many siblings on his side, not many or even just her, you may have to help, and it is best to ask if she needs it. After all, there are still people who are scared.

You can not go, this is your sister-in-law's grandfather is not related by blood, and in general, we don't go to this situation.

Yes, because it's not easy for them to raise you after all.

If your eldest brother and sister-in-law ask you to go, you will help, and if you don't let you go, you won't go.

No, you're not a drop.