After five years of marriage, my husband beat and scolded me in front of my children, do you want a

If that's the case, don't be too impulsive first, because we have to think about our children, and we have to seek the law to protect ourselves, and if we don't change it, we can consider divorce.

I think we must resist first, use reason and action to curb him, if it really doesn't work, I will divorce, I have to live, and there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence.

If you can solve the problem peacefully, don't divorce, after all, you have children, and divorce hurts the children a lot, of course, if you can't solve the problem, then divorce.

If I am sure that I will get a divorce, because if I hit you once, I will beat you a second time, if it is for the sake of the children, I will not divorce, but have you ever thought about what kind of psychological pressure will be caused to the children by beating you and scolding you in front of the children?

Personally, I think that your husband beats and scolds you in front of your children, and you must make it clear to your husband at this time, and it has not reached the point where you have to divorce.

Of course, the most unbearable thing in marriage is domestic violence, or in front of the child, the child's psychology will have a shadow, I think the child will not be happy in such a family, it is better to divorce.

You should get a divorce, because if your husband behaves like this, it means that he has a lot of disrespect for you and your mother, so you should leave such a man.

Of course it should, being able to do such a thing shows that he has violent tendencies, and you should stay away from such people.

Netizen self-report: "My husband and I are high school classmates, and when we were together in the first year of high school, he has always been very good to me, sending me back to the dormitory after evening self-study every day, and saving money from living expenses to buy me snacks."

We broke up after high school because I broke up with a boy in my class. The college is in a different place, and the junior year is reconciled, I found him first, probably because he was the first love.

I got married in October last year, and I lived together for a year before I got married, and there were conflicts during this period, but because I lived with my husband, the quarrel passed, and I didn't do anything, and then now my mother-in-law and father-in-law also live together, and my mother-in-law is still looking at my husband's sister's family, and his boys are very naughty.

Last night, because I talked to my husband if I could clean up the table when I was free with my mother, it was too messy, and two-thirds of the table was full of things, and then my husband had a very bad attitude, saying that I was not satisfied, saying that the whole family was serving me.

And then it got into an argument and he said fuck it, and then I cursed and slandered his family, and I admitted that it was my fault, and I hit him in the arm several times, and then my husband said tell me to shut up, and I didn't stop, and then he did it.

Because this is the first time to do it, and I have been spoiling me for so many years, I can't stand it at all, and then my mother-in-law came, and my mother-in-law has always comforted me, and we are arguing about divorce.

My mother-in-law said that he didn't agree, in short, I tossed it for most of the night, and then my mother-in-law scolded my husband, and my husband cried when he held his head, and that was the first time I saw him cry, saying that he was not sorry for me.

It is said on the Internet that there will be a second time when there is a first time to beat someone, everyone thinks I am very happy, and I think so too, but I didn't expect him to actually do it with me again, I have done it more than once before, but my husband has not fought back. Should I divorce him? ”

My advice: You need to reflect on this matter, if you don't hurt your husband with words, will he beat you? In particular, don't scold your in-laws, unless your man is unfilial, it will be much more serious than scolding him. You've done it many times, so it's because he's resisting.

This matter requires you to admit your mistakes to each other, your husband admits that it is wrong to beat you, and you also admit that it is wrong to beat him, you should not scold unpleasant words, and you must promise him in the future that if he does not beat you or scold you, you will not scold him and beat him. If he agrees, then the two of you write it down in black and white, and whoever wants to beat each other in the future will divorce, and the beating party will leave the house, and both parties will sign and press their fingerprints, and they really want to do so in their hearts.

Don't do what you shouldn't do, you must be good to your husband and parents, you must be neither humble nor arrogant, and you can't make mistakes. Marriage needs to be managed, don't live with your parents, rent a house if you can't afford it, you can live close to it, but definitely not in one door. A good marriage has a process of mutual change, a good husband and a good wife are cultivated by each other, you have to work hard.