My husband often bullies me in front of my children, what should I do?

There are really many such men in life, and if they can't do it themselves, they still slander their wives in front of their relatives or children, and such people will be cured.

I don't know how old your child is, of course, no matter how old she is, as the saying goes, mother and daughter are connected, you should pay attention to your own image and recuperation in front of your child, and you can't be sloppy or chatter, you have to fundamentally establish a good mother image for your child. Secondly, you and your man also have to tell him openly and honestly that he always slanders you in front of his children, he has no good fruit to eat, you have to be strong, both in ability and psychology, what is his purpose in slandering you, is he an inexplicable man, relying on slandering his wife to enhance his self-confidence, or does he have ulterior motives?

Either way, you have to be independent of your mind now. I don't know if you are a professional or full-time at home, if you are a full-time wife, then you had better go into the society and have more contact with everyone, so that your horizons will be broadened and your self-confidence will be gained. If you are in the workplace, remember that you don't spend any money on that rotten person in your family, save the money for yourself and your children, don't talk to him at home, don't have any communication with him, and of course don't quarrel with him, anyway, it's cold and violent to him.

Doesn't he like to slander you, look at what he says.

Talk openly and honestly with the boss, tell him your situation and current situation, and hope that he can restrain himself, otherwise you can only resist, fight with him face to face, and let him know that you are not easy to mess with, in fact, the current situation is entirely because of the result of your frequent tolerance in the past, and habits become natural.

Please don't be discouraged, don't bow your head, this is something you have to stick to. Your husband's problems have been cultivated for many years, and he does not understand the respect that husband and wife should have for each other. As the saying goes, illness is like a thread, and it may be difficult to get him to get rid of this bad problem in a short period of time and in a gentle and drizzly environment.

You must first face up to this problem, remind him seriously, warn him, and you may need to do this many times.

We can't always let our husbands bully us in front of our children, which will not only make family life disharmonious, but also cause psychological damage to our children. We should find time to talk to our husband and hope that he can correct this shortcoming. For the sake of family happiness and the physical and mental development of children, this point must be changed by the husband.

You should talk to him and tell your husband how you feel, because husband and wife should respect each other, and this will not have a good impact on the children.

This kind of behavior should be reduced in front of the child, so that the child has a great impact and will leave him with the shadow of childhood, such behavior is also very easy for the child to follow, if it is a serious bullying, it is recommended to leave him.

If there is often such a situation, I think I should communicate well with my husband, let him lead by example, and don't cause a bad influence on the child, thinking that the mother's status at home is very low and she is always bullied.

I think in this case, you should have a good talk with your husband, if there is something that the two of you should solve in private, and you should not show it in front of the child, it will have a negative impact on the child.

I feel that you should stop the other person in time and tell him the seriousness of the problem.

You should tell your husband that doing so will have a great impact on your children, and that you will lose your prestige in front of your children.