Unable to find a job for a long time and having a broken mentality?

I can't find a job for a long time, and my mentality collapses, which is understandable, after all, I have no job for a long time, no income, and I still have a car loan and a mortgage to repay. Life can be stressful, but you should adjust your mindset because everyone is like this, not just yourself. As long as you work hard and don't give up, I believe that there will be a day when you will come back and start again.

If you can't find a job, you're in a hurry, and your mentality collapses. Then there is a good saying, the bell must be tied to the bell. Mentality adjustment still depends on yourself, since you can't find a job at the moment, so why do you have to be in a hurry?

Being anxious will not solve the problem, being anxious will not be able to find a job, and being anxious will make you scramble and mess up, and once you are out of proportion, you are prone to rush to the doctor, which may cause a bigger problem than not being able to find a job. So we have to adjust our mentality, we have to force ourselves to calm down, if you can't do it on your own, you can ask for help from family, friends, classmates, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

Not exactly. Generally, there are two mindsets when you can't find a job for a long time. One mentality is more anxious and anxious.

Don't know what to do? And their own savings are relatively small, and the family living conditions are not very good, which will exacerbate this feeling. And the other feeling is a very calm state of mind.

Because I used to have savings. I'm too busy at work, and I want to relax myself in the future. After not looking for a job for a long time, I feel more satisfied with my current living situation.

I am also relatively satisfied with my mental state. Hope to live such a life.

You have to believe in yourself, I am born to be useful, there is always a job that suits you, you have to believe that you can't find it, God has arranged a better job waiting for you.

Work is temporary, but life is not, living in a series of negative emotions such as collapse, decadence, anxiety, boredom, and urgency every day will only make you unable to see clearly.

Work is temporary, but life is not, every day living in a series of negative emotions such as collapse, decadence, anxiety, boredom, urgency, etc., will only make you unable to see your correct job search plan, will find a job to deal with, when you start to do this job, it may be a vicious circle, or not long, the idea of resignation will pop up again.

Why not take advantage of the present, relax yourself, do what you don't have time to do, you can take advantage of this time to accompany your child, pick up and drop off your child to and from school, accompany him to do homework, exercise with him, work in the field can go home to see your parents, accompany them to have a meal, take a walk, go shopping, or take advantage of this time to improve yourself, read books, go to the bookstore every day, learn English, exercise fitness, travel and relax.

It was a feeling of repeated defeats, repeated defeats, for a young person, finding a job is an important thing that can determine the direction of life in the future, and I have also experienced a difficult time in that life, and I did not have a stable job in a foreign country, and the pressure came to me from all directions, compressing me to the point of being out of breath.

For a person who has just graduated, it is very common to shuttle through the major talent markets, and I am also a member of this army of job seekers, it is really difficult to find a job, I never thought that the knowledge I worked hard to learn during college could not be used here, what they want is the kind of person who can use it directly, and we people who even have work experience do not seem to be competitive, so it is always the last consideration, the salary is not very high, and there are very few people who are willing to ask us. This was a big blow to me, and it also made me realize that there are always some setbacks in life that break your heart.

The bottom of life

Walking out of the ivory tower of the campus, I was faced with the dilemma of life all of a sudden, which I slowly did not expect, turned my head to see, there are many young people like me who are confused to find their jobs, and are also looking for their direction in life, maybe they have the same anxiety and confusion in their hearts as me, this feeling every young person I have experienced has experienced, it is very easy to resonate.

The road is underfoot

In a desperate situation, I also went to do home sales for a period of time, but because the knowledge I learned in school was not used here, and what was needed here was eloquence and sales ability, my performance was not very good, but I finally mixed up to eat, and I persisted here for a long time and returned to the talent market with a diploma, maybe everyone's life will go through some turns before finally finding their place, I don't know that my correct position is **, but I am not willing to give up looking.

Now it is really not easy to find a job that suits you, you may be more anxious in the process of not finding a job, and you will have a strong sense of anxiety in your heart, but you can't be too anxious when you get to the bridge, and you will slowly meet a job that suits you.

I will feel that life is very helpless, I will be hit hard, and I don't know if I will be admitted and find a good job next time.

It just feels very helpless. Because I studied for so many years, in order to find a good job, I found that it was so difficult to find a job after graduation, and the company's system was so distorted.

It was a very sad feeling to find a job and find a collapse, once I was looking for a job for two months, but as long as I could be admitted, I went, and it was really helpless at that time.

It's a feeling of hopelessness. I couldn't find a job, and the money was almost spent. You are at risk of sleeping on the streets.

It took two months to shave the whole city in recruiting companies, and finally everything was cleverly found ......I didn't break down, I actually had some fun ......... itI feel like looking for a job is really like finding a partner......You will meet people who are inexplicably confident to the point of....There will also be a bluff....You will also encounter unexpectedly humble .........You'll meet that ......... who is obviously very good, but just doesn't match youYou will also meet the ...... you want to go to but have no fateBut in the end, you will meet the one who will understand that it is her as soon as you meet, your preferences happen to be liked by her, and your temper and personality just happen to match her ......She is willing to tolerate you, and you are willing to pay for her, everything is so just right Therefore, it is better to lack than to .........Let's go find the "her" you like.

Lose confidence in yourself, feel incompetent, feel lost about the future, and even want to give up and find a random job to make a living.

Useless, self-denial, darkness in front of you, especially bad company interviews and all kinds of blows, belittlements, even worse.

When I found a breakdown, I got depression, I didn't know how to be hungry, and I was extremely anxious. I experienced ...... three years ago

I've been looking for a job for 2 years and I haven't found a suitable one, everyone is wasted, I'm going crazy, and I feel abandoned by society!

It's been half a month, I can't find a suitable job, my wife works hard every day, I feel uncomfortable, I can't sleep, and I'm seriously depressed. I've started taking my medicine.

I feel like I'm worthless, I can't hold my head up in front of others, and I have lost hope in life. Don't know where your future lies?

I just feel tired from working every day. When it's time to take a break and relax.

It feels like a breakdown. ,But everyone gave me such a feeling of being the chosen son.。。 That's it for the chosen son. It feels humiliating. People shouldn't have given me that feeling like that, and let me be myself from the beginning,。。 Very good.

After graduation, many people are from the operator step by step to the supervisor, there is no so-called good job, many people just enter the enterprise to do the blistering, just like those on TV apprentices.

At present, I am in a state of not being able to find a job, I am really confused and uncomfortable, and I am stuck in self-doubt, and I almost feel that I am going to be depressed, so difficult