If you find that you are not fit for something, should you give it a try or should you give it up?

Everyone is not born to know everything, nor is it born to do something. And if you don't try, you can easily deny yourself based on your own feelings, and you will inevitably leave yourself with regrets in the future, we are still young, we are not afraid of failure, we are not afraid of the future, so why not try it? It's good to be successful, but even if we fail, we can think of it as an experience in our lives.

So, if you find that you don't fit into something, I think you should still give it a try. <>

I have a friend, not tall, thin, he has been very fond of taekwondo since he was a child, but whenever he sees the tall and strong friends who learn taekwondo, coupled with the deliberate or unintentional ridicule of others, saying how can he learn taekwondo as a small man. Because of these factors, he buried his love for taekwondo deep in his heart.

When we were in high school, the school set up a taekwondo club, which was taught by the senior seniors, who always stood from a distance and did not dare to come forward, because he thought that he could not learn well. Until one day a senior found that he was watching in the corner every day, but he never came, so he curiously asked the reason, and finally learned the actual situation from others, and encouraged him to enter the club to study with them. He really lasted three whole years.

Now he also spends his weekends and holidays as a substitute teacher in taekwondo, and it turns out that he did. Many times we only see the surface, always think that we are not suitable for something, fear of failure, and make excuses for ourselves. But if you just gave up, won't you really regret it in retrospect?

So, if you find that you are not suitable for something, you should still give it a try. Maybe the results will surprise you.

There's still a chance to try, and if you give up, you're really nothing.

Now many people are more impetuous, less sensible. People prefer to do things in a hurry, and those things that are not suitable for them and cannot be successful will not be touched again, in fact, it is wrong to do so. Practice is the only criterion for testing the truth, you are indeed not suitable for something, but that was the second in the past, how do you know if you can do it well in the current second?

I think this is a kind of belief, a belief that does not admit defeat, and it is also a kind of perseverance. Even if you are not suitable for doing one thing, you must continue to exercise, to try, those smart people will always grasp and cherish every opportunity that belongs to them, and will not let go of any opportunity to exercise themselves. If you deny yourself before you do something, you have to retreat because you find that you are not suitable, so you have a better chance to give up?

Without really doing it, I want to ask you how to be sure that this thing is suitable for you? I don't think there's anything that suits you for something, it's just whether you have the courage to do it and whether you have the faith to stick to it. <>

In addition, only by trying it yourself can you understand your shortcomings, you can learn to make up for your shortcomings, and you can gain experience from them. Perhaps what seems impossible is precisely because of your bold attempts, success will belong to you. Look at Stephen Hawking, he may not be suitable for many things with Lou Gehrig's syndrome, but with a strong faith, he stood up from setbacks and suffering, and with his tenacious will, he overcame the disease and created many miracles.

He and Penrose proved the oddity certainty, also studied the quantum universe theory, put forward the theory of black hole evaporation, and became the great man of international reputation in the 20th century. If he chooses to give up because he is not suitable for something, maybe he is an ordinary disabled person.

I would like to say that hard work pays off. Practice will lead to true knowledge. There is more chance of success than giving up.

Recently, I really want to cook, and I'm slowly trying to make dinner by myself, but my mother said that I am not suitable for cooking, she said that I am too weak, and I am not even able to chop vegetables and stir-fry, I retorted to her, "Won't I cook anymore?" She said, "Maybe it's just that"...I was a little sad when she said that, and I realized that I didn't seem to have such a talent, should I stop and do what is suitable for me or continue to learn according to my own preferences?

Since I know that it is not suitable to do it, I will give it up, and if there is a slight chance that I can do it well, I will try it.

You should give up, after all, if you don't like it, you won't work hard to do it, not only will it be a waste of money, but you won't get anything.