Recently, I had a fight with a friend and I felt if I was doing something wrong

A real good friend, a confidant, even if there is a conflict, will eventually think about each other, and naturally reconcile, they don't need any conciliator between them, because their own existence is the biggest bond... There are times in life when you have to have it, and there is no time in life when you have to ask for it! In that case, why be sad??

It's time to be glad to have thrown away the burden that made you free and happy.

From your friend's point of view, I'd be angry if you asked me.

We all have the idea that if our former boyfriend is in love or having an affair with a good friend around him, he will feel that his friend has betrayed him. In fact, it is our psychology that is distorted.

I think the most angry thing about your friend is that you send a message to your boyfriend, maybe she will also consider that your relationship with him will not develop with him, and you send a message to question like that. As soon as he got angry, he sent a message like that to your girlfriend, and the content of the post really broke a girl's heart. People have self-esteem, and people get angry when they see that kind of information.

So, it's normal for your friend to be angry.

Don't blame your friends for speaking ill of you now, and you are talking badly about your friends, I think we normal people usually behave like this.

Don't be angry with your friend now, that will just make you lose this friend, take the initiative to call her and admit that you are wrong. Talk about the happy times you used to have together, and don't spoil the feeling because of an unrelated person. I'm sure your friend will forgive you if he hears your sincere apology.

Landlord! What doesn't value yours is not worth cherishing.

Let it be. You don't need to be hard for yourself for such a person.

It is estimated that your good friend got along with your ex-boyfriend, and then he provoked your relationship, after all, you used to be his girlfriend, and it was embarrassing to meet or something, so your friends will attack you, don't pay attention to the two, take care of them yourself, you are so angry with them.

In fact, at first, you can be a little more generous and bless them. Hopefully they can come together, will none of these things happen again? If it is said that the truth is to be generous to yourself, and also to others, if you didn't send the message out at the beginning, just listen to it, are there still these events?

Friend is a car that needs your maintenance, but it will also break down and other problems, these are normal, be generous, go to this door, otherwise it will become a hurdle.

You're right, whatever! Live your own.

Don't worry too much about who the ex-boyfriend is pursuing and some good friends It's just that you think you're good friends She doesn't necessarily think that the man is also sowing discord in the middle It's best for both of you to ignore it.

If you're a good friend, you won't bother with that.

Summary. Hello, if you have a quarrel with a good friend, if you find that you are wrong and want to continue to get along with your good friend, it is better to take the initiative to apologize.

Hello, if you have a quarrel with a good friend, if you find that you are wrong and want to continue to get along with your good friend, it is better to take the initiative to apologize.

If a good friend is an empathetic person, she will definitely get back together with us when she hears our sincere apology.

When apologizing, you can tell the other party that you realize that you were wrong, and you are sorry for the harm caused to the quiet side, and you hope that the other party can forgive your mistake. I will promise not to be like this in the future.

Summary. If the relationship is better, it depends on whether you can bear it, if you can't bear it, you can make it clear to her, after all, it's not good if there is an estrangement between friends.

I had a quarrel with a friend who usually has a good relationship, but she didn't realize that she had done something wrong, and she came to apologize to me after the quarrel, what should I do?

If the relationship is better, it depends on whether you can bear it, if you can't bear it, you can make it clear to her, after all, it's not good if there is an estrangement between friends.

If you don't care, you can just do the same as before.

I think it's better to make it clear.

Is there anything else you don't understand.

It's not that I can't say this, it doesn't matter, it's the apology he gave me, and it was written that he was under a step to shoot me with a base reed hood, and she didn't realize the reason for my quarrel with her from beginning to end, and her problem was in **.

Indeed, in this way, you and her have a good talk, explain clearly, and tell the reason for your quarrel, so that it can be resolved.

I've already talked to him, and at first I was talking to him very calmly, and then what he said made me more and more angry, and we got into an argument.

In this way, I think you can calm down, this ant is more emotional when talking, and he can talk after calming down, and also give each other some time to think.

The main thing is that the person on the other side he can't understand, and he doesn't understand it when he tells him.

Yes, he couldn't figure it out, and he couldn't reason with him, so I was going to give up this friendship between us and go back to normal friendship.

It's okay to make friends, it's sure to be how comfortable it is, and if you don't match each other's personalities, don't continue.

So how do I respond to him, we won't be awkward when we meet later, and we won't go back to our previous relationship.

He apologized, and I thought you could just say it and accept your apology. But in the future, you can slowly reduce the sharing with him, so that you will slowly become an ordinary friend again. Good.

We often say that people are not saints and sages, who can do nothing, in life, if you have a quarrel with your peers, and find that it is your own fault, then I will take the following ways to solve it.

First of all, since he suddenly realized that it was his mistake in the process of arguing with his companions, he should immediately stop the quarrel and sincerely apologize to the other party, instead of making mistakes for the sake of face. After all, knowing mistakes and correcting them is what a person should have, at least the most basic principles of morality and daily life, only in this way can you truly realize your own shortcomings and shortcomings, and you can make better progress in your own way.

On the other hand, knowing that you are wrong, and continuing to quarrel with your companions to cover up your mistakes, then you will naturally let your companions have a very bad impression of yourself, which will affect the friendship and feelings between two people, in the long run, it is obviously a very unwise move to do so, and your companions and friends who have changed their own should respect each other, and their own behavior does not really respect each other, will leave the other party as an unreasonable person, which will naturally make the other party more alienated from themselves in the future, and if you do so, you will actually suffer a great loss of your own interests.

Of course, in life, even if you can't agree on some things with your peers, then you shouldn't quarrel, you should deal with it in this way, or you should learn to listen to each other's opinions as much as possible, so that the other party can feel your respect for him, so that you can get along more harmoniously with each other in the future.

There are two solutions:

1. If it is your own fault, a misunderstanding caused by yourself or your words and deeds hurt your friends, don't hesitate, don't struggle, sincerely apologize to your friends, say your mistakes, and apologize to the other party. I believe that friends will forgive, and the friendship between the two will be deeper, so as to avoid losing a friend because of a small misunderstanding.

Second, it is the fault of the other party, and the other party does not take the initiative to reconcile with you.

In this situation, we are all very sad and anxious, on the one hand, because we don't want to lose this friend, and on the other hand, because we are angry that the other person does not come to apologize to us. In this case, you can sincerely send a text message to your friend, euphemistically explain your mind, say that you shouldn't be so impulsive, first say your little wrong, at this time, the friend will realize how wrong he is, he or she will definitely reply to your text message, apologize to you, and the problem will be solved.

In fact, it is precisely because it is a friend that it is easiest to quarrel, because only friends have more contact and friction, only friends will care about your good or bad, and will argue with you, in fact, he will be as uncomfortable as you after a quarrel, just imagine if a person who doesn't care about you is necessary to torture himself like this But then again, since you are friends, you have to think more about each other, no one wants to quarrel for no reason, see if the other party really has any difficulties. A slap doesn't make a sound, and think about it afterwards if there is something wrong with you, such as whether some words are a little too much. In short, since you are friends, you must be considerate of each other, no matter whose fault it is or whose fault is a little more, it doesn't matter, the important thing is that you still want to make this friend, then you have to learn to put down the shelf, learn to recognize your mistakes, take the initiative to apologize, and save friendship!

Listen to me and apologize. There is no one right or wrong with good friends. Cherish this friendship. There are not many good friends in this society now.

There is no contradiction that cannot be resolved.

There is no indifference that cannot be warmed.

Make an appointment with him, and eat with him. It's okay to fight**. It's okay to find him to play.

It's okay to contact him online.

People, one day it will be warm.

In fact, tantrums just want to vent the unhappiness in their hearts.

Just bear with it.

It's good if it's been a long time.

This takes time and temperature to soften.

Didn't your good friend quarrel with you too? What should the other party do? If you knew this was the case, why did you go in the first place?

Do you feel that you are wrong, and if so, then you should be cheeky and apologize to others! If not, if you still want to deal with this friend, take the initiative and say that I was too impulsive that day, I'm sorry,,。 If your friend is interested, he will also blame me, knowing that you have a bad temper, and this, it's not right for me to wait,,, good luck to you,

This is a problem that everyone will encounter, you have to look at the severity of the problem, if it is a small matter, you should be generous to apologize to him, don't say why, since it is a small matter, there is nothing to be more serious, don't let the trivial things that are not worth mentioning affect the relationship between you and friends, on the other hand, friends see you apologize to him so generously, his heart must be ashamed of you; If you quarrel with a friend because of something more serious, the best way is to ask him out for a good talk, untie the knot between the two parties, and never stalemate with him, so that even if you were a good friend in the past, you will leave you.

Are you a man? Female? If you're a man:

You can laugh at him, and at the same time, ask someone to ease the conflict between you and him, and then try to please him. Don't overdo it, give him gifts, write to him. If you are a woman:

Avoid others, especially gossipy people, reconcile with him, reason, and help him in the way of secretly helping him, and he may ignore you. If it really doesn't work, you can ignore him, but don't mess with him, just smile at him and talk.

Guys don't care very much, time can really dilute a lot of things, don't always care too much about him breaking up with you, no, the two of you are thinking about the same question now, "Will he break up with me?" So take the initiative to show him favor.

1. What causes this contradiction.

2. There must be a reason for both sides.

3. Send a text message such as a blessing to the other person in the evening.

4. Send a greeting to the other party one night, then explain the reason 5, and invite him to drink a cup of milk tea the next day and have a good talk together.

In short, he will never turn his face with you, normal people will not do this, all you have to do is take the initiative to show goodwill.

I don't know exactly what kind of contradiction you have between you, but whatever the contradiction is, it can be resolved.

First of all, I definitely haven't been hit very badly, but there have been some minor ones.

Maybe I was always ignored and ridiculed when I was a child, so I live a very independent life now, only living in my own world, and I dare not face up to some cruel and reality.

I'm in my third year of high school right now, too, and I'm not getting noticed. Whenever I am neglected, I want to hide back into my own world. I don't have to live so tired, but I always want at least one person to understand me and care about me.

In fact, I have also experienced this, first of all, I have to think about who is wrong, first find the fault from myself, and then look at his attitude, if it is still a cold war, I don't think to apologize to him immediately, to give both parties enough time to calm down, rash action may be provoked by his words, the relationship will be more stiff, so time is very important, secondly, if you are a very face-loving person, it is not good to talk to him face-to-face, you can take an indirect way, letter, or inadvertently tell his friends what they think, If he still doesn't react, don't think that he doesn't deserve to be your friend, he just needs time to accept, you just need to sit and watch the changes, if you haven't reacted for a long time, you have to talk to him face to face, if it comes to the most basic contradiction between you.

I hope you are reconciled soon...