What do you most want your child to be? Why?

I think that at the beginning of human beings, nature is good. I hope that my daughter can always maintain a kind heart and look at the whole world with kind eyes.

I want him to be strong and strong in everything. No matter what happens in the future, if you can survive strongly, it is a victory.

There must be responsibility. I hope that no matter what kind of problems he encounters in the future, he will have to pay for his own actions, which is a responsibility for himself and for others.

I want to see a child who loves to read. As the old saying goes: Read 10,000 books, travel 10,000 miles. Because there are too many things learned in books, it can make him less detours in the future.

Be honest. I'm also careful not to get him into the habit of lying. Because this is a matter of character, I don't want him to be said to be a dishonest person in the future.

What I didn't do I hope my daughter can do, is to consider the feelings of others and empathize more. Knowing how to empathize not only does others like to get along with you more, but you also let go of a lot yourself.

The son must have his own responsibility, and then he can establish the responsibility that his boyfriend should have, and make due efforts for the family.

Sweat blood. As long as you have a firm goal of your own, you will always make a difference, otherwise it will only be a waste of time and experience.

As a manly husband, I hope he can have a heart that embraces heaven and earth. Because the big pattern determines the height.

There must be money to be made, and in this society, those who don't make money will one day perish.

First, excellent children have stronger competitiveness.

Parents want their children to be able to enter prestigious universities, this is because as of 2019, there are as many as 8 million college graduates in China every year, and the competitive pressure for employment is very large.

Generally speaking, 211 colleges and universities are better than ordinary colleges and universities, and 985 colleges and universities are much better than 211 to choose a job, good grades and strong ability will become an excellent competitiveness factor for children in the future.

In addition to excellent academic performance, parents also require their children to have a variety of different skills, such as learning a variety of foreign languages, piano, painting, dancing and other talents, but also to take a variety of courses to improve themselves, which is the parents are also forced by the social trend, when you find that the parents and children around you are doing this, you naturally do not dare to lag behind.

We also have an old saying in China, "more skills are not pressing", children can learn more skills, in the future after the society can have more security, each opportunity will be a lot more, so it is more able to close enough to develop in their own life and career path, not too embarrassed.

3. The psychology of parents to "raise children and prevent old age".

Parents are hoping that their children can live better in the future, life can be more relaxed, in addition, Chinese parents have more high hopes for their sons, because they have the common idea of "raising children to prevent old age", sons are their future dependents, children are excellent, for themselves is also a good guarantee.

In order to be more secure in their old age in the future, and excellent children have much more resources in the society than mediocre children, which is for parents who need to rely on their children to live in old age, excellent children can reduce the instability of their future life.

My ultimate goal in cultivating children is to make him a knowledgeable and strong person, and I hope that she will learn more knowledge when she grows up, constantly improve herself, establish a correct outlook on life and values, and be able to have independent thoughts when she grows up?

My ultimate goal in nurturing my children.

1. Cultivate children's safety awareness.

The first goal of raising a child is safety, including personal security, legal security, and political security. Once a child's safety fails, the remaining seven goals are in vain.

The recent Zhang Yingying incident is worrying, she is a very good child, everyone loves her, and everyone feels sorry for such a problem. I hope that this typical case can make all families, schools and the whole society reflect on their children's safety awareness, safety ability and safety experience.

2. Cultivate children's health awareness.

First of all, let the child Mingfeng only talk about his own health is controlled by himself, whether it is in life control, or in daily diet, he should follow the principle of health, do not overeat, do not eat some junk food, need self-management, self-restraint, and form habits.

3. Let children grow up healthy and happy.

Children must grow up in happiness, we educate and train children, for them to read and learn, is to make them happy. Happiness is not only a goal for the future, but also a goal for the present. Without the happiness of the present, it is difficult to have the happiness of the mountain number in the future.

The ancient saying should be changed to "The book mountain has a road for the path, and the sea is endless". Love is the path, that is, like, interest, and emotion as the path of reading; Learning is the happiest thing for human beings, and children go to school and attend classes in the classroom, which is to be happy and happy.

To raise an excellent child, in addition to good grades, you also need to have good interpersonal relationships.

The school is like a child's small society, and children will often face the pressure of interpersonal communication between classmates and partners. Therefore, it is important to help your child build a friendly and kind peer relationship.

How can children read social signals and join their peers? How to control anger and resolve conflicts? How to deal with teasing and ridicule and improve self-dignity?

These are not only problems that adults face, but also the cultivation of social intelligence for children.

In addition to studying, I want my child to be polite. Respect the old and love the young. Develop the habit of loving labor from an early age.

I like to read books and can read books every day.

This year I just became a mother and a mother of a little one. The child's growth changes the most in the first year of life, and he may gain weight again within a few days, and his height seems to have become taller again. I often feel that I haven't observed my baby properly, but he has grown up.

I believe that many parents have a lot of expectations for their children, hoping that their children can grow up to be soldiers, doctors, scientists, and ...... to become a rich manOf course, I often fantasize about what my child will look like when he grows up and what his career will be. It's nice to have decent jobs like doctors and teachers, but I want my children to be happy every day, and I don't want to be too strict with my children like a tiger mother. Her child ended up doing very well, I admit it, but I would prefer my child to grow up healthy without too much stress.

Therefore, as long as the child's future learning is passable, I can accept it if it is not too bad. If the child doesn't want to go to any tutoring class, I won't force it. But I must cultivate the habit of reading in my children.

If the child likes to read, then his imagination is rich enough, and his language skills should not be bad. The most important thing is that he will understand that there is ** in the book, knowledge in the book, and the future in the book.

Speaking of which, some parents must ask me, don't you ask your children to be particularly productive and study well? Yes, I still insist that learning is not everything for a child, he can not study well, but as long as he likes to read and insists on reading, then I believe that his future will not be too bad. Even if he becomes a chef in the end, he must be a wise cook, and he will be able to live well no matter how he goes in the future, and I don't need to worry too much.

I hope that the greatest merit of my child is kindness, not to lose the most basic nature of a person, whether he has achieved or not, his kindness will always help many people or family members, so that he himself will live more comfortably.

The most important thing is to calm down and think and reflect, calm down, and focus on whatever happens. These are these things that my father and I have to imperceptibly give to our children in life and work. I hope that future children will not panic because they encounter something.

Solidarity and fraternity, right? Actively joining an organizational team, without being selfish enough to be special and independent, will make the child's life not boring and lonely.

Be bold and avant-garde, have the courage to act boldly, and if you don't twist and pinch, you can create a generous and responsible person in advance.

Being self-reliant, having the ability to handle his own various things, can make everything good for him, and parents can rest assured.

I think it's important to be observant, so that children can be observant and not constantly disliked by others and make themselves lost.

It is better to be patient, rather than an impetuous character, because personality is the main factor that can determine a person's success or failure.