What would you think when you and your ex were hopeless to get back together?

What are your thoughts when you and your ex are hopeless to get back together? I don't have any ideas, since there is no hope of getting back together, I can only give up this relationship. Life is not only about love, but also about family and friendship, as well as dreams.

Since you don't want to fall in love again, then use a period of time to improve yourself, make yourself better, become better, and you will definitely meet that better him in the future. One, give up this relationshipSome people are passers-by in your life, and no matter how much you keep it, you can't keep it. So when it is hopeless to get back together with your ex, you should persuade yourself to accept the reality at this time.

Sometimes blind attachment can only hurt himself, and it may make him even more bored with himself. Why do a thankless job? He can let go, and so can you.

Let go of the obsession in your heart, let go of this relationship in your heart, and you will become better. <>

Second, to pursue their own dreams, who does not have their own dreams in their hearts? We can't just live for feelings, work hard, struggle, and study for your dreams, no matter what difficulties we encounter in the middle, we must let ourselves persevere. After success, you will no longer be the same person you used to be, and you will also find that love is not very important in a woman's life.

At that time, you will also be grateful to him at that time, it is because of his letting go that you have become what you are today. <>

Third, make yourself better, let yourself live a more refined life every day, be better to yourself, he doesn't cherish you, and there will be people who want to cherish you in the future. People always have a purpose in every period of time, since the focus is no longer on love, then focus on other places, and when we meet again in the future, you will be the noble, elegant and delicate you. <>

To sum up, when there is no hope of reuniting, it is an idea to give up this relationship, after all, I am not a stalker, I still want face, put my energy on other things, achieve achievements in the future, appear in front of him with a better self, let him regret it, and meet a better other half.

When I have no hope of getting back together with my ex, I will definitely forget about this relationship, never miss him again, and then move on to the next relationship.

When I have no hope of getting back together with my ex, I feel very lost, but I will not stop there and work hard to live.

Then I should just let go, because if there is no hope, then I have to let go.

I will regret losing such a good girl, but I still have to live a good life and slowly let it go.

I would feel like I had said goodbye to this relationship once and for all. And there will be no more hope that we can get back together.

Many people want to get back together with their ex, but if you want to explore their motivation for doing so, there are many factors that can lead them to want to get back together with their ex.

First of all, the purest factor is reluctance. People are originally nostalgic animals, and they like to remember the past, let alone a relationship that has made them pay sincerely? Therefore, many people will feel very reluctant after breaking up with their ex, and feel that there is still room for maneuver in this relationship, so they will have the idea of wanting to get back together.

Secondly, if the state of two people is divided and combined, then it is normal to want to get back together with the ex. The instability of the emotional state of two people has caused both parties to go back and forth between breaking up and getting back together, which has almost become a kind of inertia. Then at this time, if two people break up again, the first thing they think about is not the end, but if they recover, because their relationship state is so capricious.

However, it is difficult to say whether such an unstable relationship can last.

Also, if two people do break up and one of them finds a new love. There may be a contrast, that is, to compare their new love with their old love, and some people will feel that their current partner is not as good as before. This is also the main reason why they want to get back together with their ex.

That is, "regret". Such a person's compound idea is the worst and the most despised one. This idea of compounding is not only irresponsible for the previous relationship, but also irresponsible for the current one.

The reunion of such a person often does not succeed, and even the current person will abandon him and eventually become a "loner".

There is also a situation that is out of the so-called "unwillingness". This is a childish idea, feeling that it is humiliating to break up, and that you are not willing to break up with the other party, and this kind of reunion can also be considered a "revenge reunion", which is impulsive and undesirable.

The reason why I do this is completely because I still have feelings with each other, after all, two people have been together for a long time, and such feelings are very deep, so many people will have such thoughts, which is normal.

I think it's because I can't find a better one, so I always want to get back together with my ex, but once I get back together, the two of them will have problems again, and then break up.

Because some people miss each other very much after breaking up with their ex, it will be difficult to forget every bit of the past, so they want to get back together with each other.

I wouldn't choose to accept my ex's reunion because I felt that he always had bad intentions, and even if he got back together with me, it might not be because he found out that he loved me.

No, it's because two people have had a failed relationship before, and there is no way to start over, and it is very likely that they will repeat the same mistakes.

I won't choose to accept it, because I think it's impossible for two people to get back together after they have broken up, and it will be very embarrassing for two people to get back together.

will call myself ** at night, and will ask myself out to play, and the two people will be particularly ambiguous, always say some strange behaviors, and there will be a lot of physical contact.

will often appear in front of you, will also pay attention to your every move, want to understand your dynamics, want to ask you to dinner, will send you some small gifts.

I believe many people have heard such a sentence about love: love at first sight is the end of love, two love is the beginning of love, comparing the heart to the heart is the journey of love, heart to heart is the sublimation of love, eternity is the promise of love, and growing old together is the end of love. Our lives are all about love, so we have to learn to love someone and also learn to accept the love of others.

In life, some people will encounter such a problem, and the ex wants to get back together, what will you do at this time? I think the most important thing at this time is to follow your inner feelings, if you still love each other, choose to get back together, if you don't love, slowly let go of this relationship, and don't enter the whirlpool of love again. <>

One. Love or not love should follow the feelings of the heart.

In our daily life, we all know that relationships will encounter all kinds of difficulties, some people will break up for various reasons, and after the breakup, they will find that they are still in love with each other, and at this time many people will ask to get back together with their ex. If you don't have any illusions about each other in your heart, and you don't have any hope for this relationship, then there is no need to continue this relationship, if you choose to start again, maybe it's just a repeat of the past, it's better to be ruthless, start a new life and forget the past you don't want to recall. <>

Two. If you don't love, you choose to let go, and sometimes letting go is also a kind of love.

Some people are very nostalgic for their previous feelings, and finally find that this nostalgia is used to being with each other, not love, then don't choose to start at this time, because such a start will only make two people fall into a relationship crisis again. In love, sometimes we have to make our own decisions, don't hesitate, this will only make two people fall into the whirlpool of love, and finally can't extricate themselves, not only one person is hurt, sometimes letting go is also a way of love, it is better to let go of each other's hands and let each other start a new life. <>

The above is just a personal opinion, so what do you think you will do in the face of reunion?

In life, many people don't know what to do when they face their ex and find themselves to get back together. When the predecessor gets back together with you, the initiative is in your own hands. However, I think this situation needs to be carefully considered.

Don't be impulsive and just say that you are getting back together or not getting back together.

1. Do you still like each other?

When the ex-boss is looking for me to get back together, I think the most important thing is whether I still like the other person. If you still like each other, to a large extent, you will definitely consider getting back together. If you don't like it, don't hesitate.

The best thing to do is to decisively refuse to get back together with you. Only in this way will the other party not be harmed. <>

Second, will you face the problem of breaking up again after getting back together?

When two people break up, it may mean that it is not suitable. Therefore, when the predecessor comes to find himself to get back together, don't agree to the other party too easily. You should carefully consider whether you will repeat the mistakes of the past after getting back together, and whether it will be the same as before.

If you think that you will not be happy when you get back together, you will repeat the mistakes of the past. I think it's good for both parties to say no directly. It's best to follow your heart's mind and don't push yourself to do things you don't want to do.

3. If the other party is the right person, don't miss it

There are many examples of this in life. A couple will be separated for months for some reason, and then, after a few months, they will suddenly want to get back together. In the past few months, the two of them have missed each other and can't let go of each other.

And, in your eyes, if the other party is the right person. Well, I think I have to say yes to him. After all, it is the right person, and if you miss it, you miss it.

I regret it later, and there is no room for recovery. Feelings are really not clear, if you choose to get back together so that you no longer regret it, then you must be brave enough to take your own steps and choose to return to love with your ex. You last time was my personal opinion.

It's true that the ex wants to get back together is a problem that many people will encounter in their lives, but my answer is no. Now that you have chosen to separate, you should forget about the good times and grievances. This is also to prevent the past conflicts from occurring with each other.

The predecessor itself should be a thing of the past and should not be mentioned again. A qualified ex should also choose to leave the other person's world in time. <>

Since they have decided to break up, it actually means that there are contradictions and rifts in the relationship or other aspects of the two. So the idea that your ex wants to get back together is not good for you in itself. After getting back together, you may face similar conflicts, or you may continue to argue.

So getting back together is an endless internal friction for your emotions and life, and I don't think there's any need to get back together for the sake of so-called regrets. It's not a great thing to get back together, and it's likely to be painful.

If you get back together, it means that you are likely to still face the same situation you encountered before, such as a mismatch between the family conditions of the two parties, or some flaws in the other person's personality, which may be unbearable for you. Even if you get back together again, there are actually some problems between you that are difficult to solve easily. If you still choose to continue to be in a relationship with this person, you are likely to be plagued by these conflicts and problems again, and your life will become unhappy and unhappy.

So the disadvantages of compounding are also great.

Unless it's really because both parties still have love for each other, then it is possible to consider getting back together, otherwise there is no need to think about it at all. After all, if the two of them are indeed still in love before, then they should definitely be reunited. After all, it is definitely not easy to find someone who likes each other in life.

So I think that since I broke up, I should not disturb my ex's life, and at the same time, I should not get back together. Because after saying goodbye to a wrong relationship, we should actually learn from the experience and lessons to find the next relationship.

I will choose to contact the other party first, and then invite the other party to watch a movie, and at the same time, I should also explain that I want to get back together, or I still love the other person, so that I can get back together better, and if the other party does not agree, I will pursue the other person.

Judge according to your own love, because you have broken up, if there is still love that can give you a chance, and you have lost love, just refuse.

At this time, I will directly tell the other party that this is impossible, because the two people have already left each other, and there is no second chance.

At this time, I will definitely ask the other party to borrow money, and I want to see if he is sincere in this way.

It's up to you.

1 .The relationship was good after the breakup.

If your breakup is very peaceful and harmonious, two people have neither blocked nor deleted each other after breaking up, and from time to time they can still say a few words to each other as friends, and like each other in the circle of friends. It may be that both people are very rational and feel that breaking up is the best option at the moment, so breaking up seems to give peace to the outside. In such a breakup, the probability of two people getting back together is actually very high, and it may be that at a certain time, two people feel that they have recovered a better state, and it is logical to get back together.

2.Talk about you positively.

If your ex can evaluate you positively in front of your family, friends and friends, such as thinking that you are still very good, you actually had a good time. Think that in fact you are a very mature one. And there is not much complaining and complaining about the fact of breaking up, more understanding and acceptance.

Or in a private conversation between the two of you, he expresses his appreciation for your current job, your style of dress, or your hobby of eating. thinks that two people are constantly improving after breaking up. Couples who break up in this situation have a very high probability of getting back together.

3.Life is trivial and complains.

When chatting, I start to complain to you about some trivial things in life, or my own troubles, or some small gossip that is not surprising. This situation is more like the first one, that is, the two people get along well, and occasionally they can talk a few words. In fact, the other party is willing to talk to you about his life, to a large extent, because he wants you to know him better, and he will not be completely separated from each other's lives because of a breakup.

It's all a sign that the other person is approaching you. Once this signal is issued, the probability of recombination is still very high.

4 .Regain contact.

If your relationship with your ex has improved to some extent and you can start talking normally again, it means that your relationship has made great progress. For example, if it is the type of two people who quarrel at the beginning and do not get along with each other for a long time, but after a period of precipitation, two people can now sit down and talk calmly, or even make a joke, so that the rapid progress and heating of the relationship is a manifestation of a high probability of compounding.