Can you be ruthless with the girl who chases you you don t love her ?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If it were me, I could be pretty sure I couldn't.

    Being loved is a kind of happiness, and who wants to refuse happiness?

    But my position is very strong, if I have someone I love, I will ignore her. But if I'm single, then I can't leave it alone! We are all full of yang steel, and it is impossible to ignore love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Attitude is everything, depending on whether you are depressed or decisive.

    When you are depressed, she will think that there is hope, and she will chase you even more desperately.

    You are decisive She will leave silently and will silently wish you happiness.

    But you're really happy, there's a girl chasing you, hehe.

    Good luck

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hehe, this!

    I haven't been chased by girls, I'm depressed!

    If she really likes you that much, give her a chance!

    Hehe! It's up to you......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hehe, kicked her away, and said please let me go!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Make it clear that you don't love her.

    I think it's cruel.

    But if you do encounter it, there is no other way.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, there are three girls in the school who are chasing me, but I am chasing the other four girls, and I am in mixed feelings

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't usually choose to pursue it because I focus on myself at this time.

    If I like a girl and she doesn't like me, or even has no feelings for me. I don't think it's necessary to continue pursuing girls at this time, because what I need to do is to improve myself, and at the same time, I believe that I can meet better people. You mean that others have no vision, but two people have no fate together, and at the same time it is not suitable, I think the twisted melon is not sweet.

    1. I will not choose to continue to pursue the other person.

    The truth is actually very simple, feelings cannot be wishful thinking. If only I like each other, but the other party doesn't like me, I think this kind of relationship is not fair, and there will be a lot of hidden emotional dangers. Even if I pursued someone through stalking, it was hard for me to guarantee that the relationship would really work for me.

    Instead of choosing someone who doesn't suit you, I feel like it's better to keep waiting. <>

    Second, I will choose to concentrate on improving myself.

    In a way, as long as a person becomes good enough, we can meet someone who is more suitable for us. When it comes to emotional matters, an excellent person will have more options. If I'm not good myself, I won't move the other person through so-called touching behavior, I will choose to make myself stronger, make myself deserving of better things and people, and I think this is the responsible attitude towards myself.

    3. I will also sincerely wish each other well.

    It's really hard to say about feelings, and I don't think there's a right or wrong relationship. Since two people are not suitable, I will choose to bless each other from the bottom of my heart, and at the same time, I will not force each other to do anything too much. I think everyone has their own choice, as long as we get better and better, we can meet better and better people, and at the same time, we can meet people who are suitable for us.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I won't continue to pursue, which will make me look very humble, and the other party has already shown that I don't like me, so I don't want to pursue it anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, it won't. If she doesn't like me, no matter how much effort I put in, she won't like me, and it will only cause me to get hurt.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I won't continue to pursue it, because girls who don't like me have a bad first impression of me in many cases, and continuing to pursue it is likely to deepen this disgusting feeling, so it is better to pursue a better choice.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For girls who don't like you, will they continue to pursue, in fact, I think if a person, you have been pursuing for a long time, and the other party has been refusing, then you should not continue to pursue him, because the more you continue to pursue, he will cause trouble to him, the more he will hate you, so from now on you try again in the opposite direction, from now on be cold to him, if he has not looked for you for a long time, then you choose to give up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No. What if she's made it clear that she doesn't like you, and you? It's also possible to chase her, so give up. There is no need to waste each other's time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I have a girl who doesn't like me, I really like her, and I will continue to pursue her self-control, until the end, the only thing I won't regret myself. Because sometimes if you don't catch it in the end, you will regret it because you haven't worked hard.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think I'm going to keep going, and I won't give up until I get to the point of despair.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Girls don't like you very much.

    There are two things that have to be continued:

    1.She's because she knows you very well and is sure you're not the type she likes.

    There's not much need to pursue this, and it's a very good choice to be friends.

    2.She doesn't know much about you, but she acts as if she's not interested in you.

    In this case, it is advisable to increase the chances of getting along, which can make you more sure whether you want to chase or not.

    But no matter what, as long as the other person doesn't have an obvious dislike for you, then you can try to confess or hint.

    At least let the other person know what you want.

    What do you seek for the other half of your life?

    I think that if we can find ourselves first, then the other half will naturally be easy to find.

    But more often than not, it's easy for us to lose ourselves.

    When love comes and we meet the right person, they will definitely help us find ourselves better and faster.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's a bit esoteric. It depends on what the girl has or ability that you deserve to like and pursue her. Blind, sensual love is immature and incomplete.

    The other half of my life. It depends on what you want, sometimes it's all fate. In short, one's own thoughts and rational feelings are more important.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's a strange question of yours, and the point is whether you like her or not, and how much you like her. Is it worth it for you to pay for this, love is not who pays how much, who pays first, suffers! It's really in touch with your inner thoughts!

    If you like her, then go and chase it for yourself, even if you fail!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you are young, you can fight for a love that you think is right, but when you are older, you have to settle down, and you have to think about your future and your family

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is necessary, very necessary.

    I don't like it, but it will be a good memory for you and the girl for many years to come.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Personally, I don't think there's any need to chase it, the melon that must be twisted is not sweet.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's not much to say that there is still a chance, you can observe whether she hates you or not, and if she does, you give up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Is love selfless? Is love courageous?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In two cases, one is that it is possible that she just wants to be an ordinary friend with you and does not want to be a lover. Another possibility is that she's testing you. I don't know how much you love her, if you love her very deeply, she will definitely accept you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If that's the case, I think this girl hinted at you that you misunderstood this woman, do you think this girl is in 20, in fact, he is not hinting at it, you are wishful thinking, so you chase him, he doesn't accept you Many situations like this are very common, you don't misunderstand some of the actions of some girls, but you can still chase it, but you have to try everything, if you can't catch up. You can let go and catch up, it's just lucky. I think you have to have a flat mentality.,Chasing girls is like this.,You want a dead mouth.,I think the least probability is very high.,You have to catch up and chase for a while.,Because of the problem of self-esteem, don't chase it.,Then I don't think it's good for you to pursue girls.。

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Teasing you!

    No? She is a proud princess, how can she easily promise you if she doesn't confess to her three or five times?

    Keep chasing, there must be a play!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    At the beginning of man, his nature is cheap. If you understand this truth, you won't be entangled, and you won't be led by the nose by the "archway girl".

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Are you sure she's hinting that you're chasing her? Are you misleading with this hint? I think it's because you like her that you misunderstand what she says, right?

    It's normal for her to change her avatar, and it's not necessarily because she rejected you, it's because you pay too much attention to her, causing her to do everything for you. Friend, since she has clearly rejected you, don't hang yourself from a tree! Come on, there will be better waiting for you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This girl is playing with her desires. You're trying to chase her, you're pursuing her. If he still doesn't accept your love. You just snub him for a while. Maybe the girl won't be so reserved to come to you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think it's probably because you misunderstood, she didn't say that she liked you, but you took it for granted that she was hinting at you that she had a crush on you, so she wouldn't accept your pursuit.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Maybe you're mistaken, and her hints weren't intentional.

    Since you refuse, maybe you really don't want it at the moment.

    It's also possible that she deliberately asked you to chase her to show others, in order to make that person jealous.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you don't understand it wrong, it's the wrong way! It is recommended to continue to work hard at the right time and in the right way, the so-called (success to natural success)! Pursue your happiness!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Is it that you will be wrong, if she asks you to chase her and disagrees, is it that she has heard others say that you have shortcomings, and she can't accept it, so she refuses you, consider it comprehensively!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This means that girls don't like this type of boy and are more disgusted

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Did you misunderstand what she meant? Are you sure she wants you to chase him?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Obviously, you misunderstood, if you really like you, you are happy and surprised, accept, not reject

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    This is called a hint.

    It seems that you are thinking too much.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It may not be free or there are unspeakable secrets, in short, it should not be able to be with you casually.

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