Why am I scheming?

No one is willing to give 100% of their thoughts to others, including their families! Because this society is too realistic now, and the continuous development has led to people's money worship, vanity and desire. And everyone's ultimate interest will only choose themselves, so everyone will choose to hide themselves, protect themselves, and keep themselves from harm!

So it behaves like the hypocrisy that the landlord said, because what you do and what you think are not necessarily the same! But in fact, as long as everyone grasps the degree, it will be left and right if it is handled well, but if this degree is not grasped well, then it is really a villain! It's excessive selfishness!

Hypocrisy is actually a means, but people who can't distinguish who should be hypocritical and who they can't distinguish between who they are not hypocritical are, then this person is hypocritical; If he is hypocritical when he should be hypocritical, and not hypocritical when he should not be hypocritical, then we cannot say that he is hypocritical. No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.

If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.

Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Hello. Everyone is born with a character. When a person has experienced a lot of things, he or she will become aware of his or her own unique perspectives.

Xinji is a Chinese word, pinyin is xīn jī. One finger is the mind, the scheme, the deceit; Two refers to the heart of ingenuity. From "The Poor Bird".

People say that you have scheming, but your mind is too heavy. Maybe in something, you don't follow the normal process, or don't listen to the opinions of the leader or others, and always do things according to your own ideas, which will make people mistakenly think that you have scheming.

In fact, scheming is not entirely bad. This society is so realistic that everyone has to go in the opposite direction that they hate, and if you encounter the kind of scoundrels or vexatious people who are a little scheming, at least know how to find more ways not to compromise with them and protect yourself. So love the only self in this world, everyone will not be perfect, no matter how much you hate it, you can't change it, then try to be yourself.

Because it's really easy to be deceived if you don't have a scheming, too simple people will suffer sooner or later in society, but what we should do is to learn how to prevent being deceived, but the heart of deception still can't have, this year, the heart of preventing people is indispensable, the heart of harming people is not to have, the experience summarized by the ancients is still very reasonable, learn more anti-deception guides, to prevent being fooled.

Everyone will have scheming, but the depth of scheming is just the depth. Because people will always have a selfish side, they will not be so completely tolerant of others. When he has a selfish mentality, then his scheming is also reflected.

It's because you can calculate others, right? A scheming person, why he operates the interstellar is because he knows how to strategy and calculate, and he puts his mind into calculations, so he thinks he is a very smart person who has a lot of information about galaxies, so I think at this time it can be called scheming, then if you are not angry, it is not as thin as this calculation.

If you meet someone you don't like, you can't say what you think in front of people, it's not that you have scheming, but you know how to behave in the world, imagine if you criticize and accuse others directly in public, people have no face, you don't have any benefit, and you may end up with a nosy charge, so why bother?

If we are too sincere and disclose our information to others, it is very likely to become a weapon for others to attack us. The information age is inherently unguardable, and if you don't have a defense, you will be hurt.

Looking at it this way, scheming is actually a standard for people's growth.

In fact, everyone will be a little cautious, in fact, scheming is not a bad thing, because you have to think about yourself and leave a way back for yourself, people can't be too stupid and scheming, otherwise it's easy to be deceived.

Everyone has their own little ninety-nine, and they all have their own plans and ideas! As long as your scheming is not to calculate others! So you are scheming and understood! As long as it's not bad!

Scheming shows that you are very sharp-tongued, far-sighted, have unique thinking and an indispensable mentality of guarding against others. It's actually less easy to be fooled if you're scheming, and you really can't be too honest in life.

People who grow up in different environments will develop different personalities, and some may learn to use scheming and scheming to protect themselves in this real society.

To be a scheming person, a person without scheming is like a puppet carrying an elm head, lacking autonomy in life, and at the mercy of others' arrangements and arrangements.

That means that you are a thoughtful person, a person with a plan, and a person with principles, which is why you are like this.

It has something to do with the environment and has a certain relationship with your own psychology, but this is also good and bad.

If you are forced, you will naturally have scheming if you suffer too much.

Everyone has it, but to a different extent.

The people around you influence you.

Scheming is not necessarily bad, there is no praise or disapproval of scheming, it depends on where scheming is used.

Some people are scheming, he is a person with positive energy, when encountering problems and difficulties, he will come up with ideas for you to find a way to turn hostility into friendship.

There are also people who are scheming, but he is a scheming villain, who does everything possible to calculate others, how to refer to what kind of scheming can not suffer losses, and unscrupulous means for the sake of interests.

I don't have scheming, but I don't hate scheming people, but scheming has to be used in the right place.

Living in a world of rampant materialism, the law of the jungle, and the survival of the fittest, how can you survive without some scheming.

You don't see it, from the game between countries to the stupidity, to the confrontation in the business field, to the interaction between people, there is a display of scheming everywhere.

If you have a scheming, you can do things and make contributions; If you are too scheming, you may be tired! I hope that in a harmonious society, there will be more sincerity and less calculation among members of society.