After marriage, a woman can compromise appropriately, but what should be the bottom line?

There must be a bottom line in emotional matters, and the other party must not be allowed to have emotional inconsistency.

There must be a bottom line in the matter of the husband's betrayal of himself, there are many things that can be compromised, but the husband has an ambiguous relationship with other members of the opposite sex, and this kind of thing must have a bottom line.

The other party deceives himself, such a thing is absolutely not allowed, if the other party is allowed to do this, he is really not easy to get hurt, and if the other party has an ambiguous relationship with other members of the opposite sex, he can't compromise, otherwise after a long time, he will easily lose the other party.

There must be a bottom line in the management of family property, and all the money cannot be handed over to the man to take care of, because this is a very dangerous thing.

Because most women have soft hearts, and now they have children, after all, children are women's hearts, they are the most reluctant, and the most unbearable thing is their own baby, which is why they compromise.

Both men and women are very different from each other, both psychologically and physiologically, and both men and women will have different perspectives and completely different perspectives on the same thing. Therefore, when a relationship becomes impossible to continue, men are more likely to analyze the problem at a rational level and coldly weigh the pros and cons. But women often think with emotional thinking, fantasizing about whether the relationship will become as sweet and beautiful as before.

When a relationship is in crisis, most women choose to hold on, but men sensibly choose to give up.

Because the easier it is to get something, the less people will cherish it, but if it is something that has paid a lot of effort, people are generally reluctant to give it up easily. Because in most family life, female characters tend to pay more, while men are more likely to work hard for their careers alone, therefore, when there is an emotional crisis, most women will choose to compromise and be willing to spend so much effort on their feelings to be shattered.

Now that they are married, women still want to go on well, and women's hearts are naturally softer and more sensual, especially after having children, in order not to let the children suffer, sometimes they will compromise. Because I care about my family and children, I will choose to endure it.

Because after she got married and gave birth to a child, it may not be easy to get married at this time. If you have a child, other men may not look down on you, so you can only say this at this time.

The reason is that people are generally weaker in character. When they encounter something, they often choose to be tolerant. In addition, they are more emotional, so it is generally women who compromise in the end.

After marriage, it is the woman who always compromises, because the woman does not want to worry so much about the man. Because they feel that it is very hard for a man to work hard outside, and they also love this man more.

Because girls are too nostalgic, girls are very emotional, and when they meet the man they love the most, they will describe themselves to express their love for men, so after marriage, they have to forgive men for their betrayal for the love of writing.

Because men can't fulfill too many promises to women before marriage, women can only learn to compromise, and if they have to be entangled, then the relationship is on the verge of crisis and will be in a state of unhappiness.

After getting married, it is always the woman who compromises in the end, and that is because the woman has a family and the ties of her own children, so it is easier for her to think about the other party.

Because of the greatness of maternal love, most women compromise because they have made sacrifices for their children, not really for the sake of each other Their hearts are dedicated to the family.

Because relatively speaking, women are always kinder and soft-hearted. And if there is a child, maternal love is great, and for the sake of the child, the mother can make all concessions.

Because after getting married, a woman feels that she has no way out, so it is always the woman who compromises in the end when she encounters something, because she will love forever if she falls in love.

Because women are always easy to be stumped by feelings, too much affection, it is bound to be attentive, if there are children, women will be even more stumped.

Because women are always the weaker party, women generally listen to men more.

Loyalty is always the most important bottom line in marriage, so that you can always remind yourself not to get too close to other members of the opposite sex, which will lead to too many problems in the family. Of course, this is the bottom line of self-righteousness. If you really want to say that women need to keep the bottom line in marriage, it also includes some practices of self-ambition.

In your marriage, when you are unhappy and abused, you also need to rise up and protect yourself!

For a woman's marriage, loyalty must be the first condition. Then there is the importance of the family, but the self-esteem of a woman cannot be lost. For example, when a woman is subjected to domestic violence, although she says that her strength is not as strong as that of a man, she must also understand that after domestic violence, she must seek other channels to protect her body and mind.

And once a woman's marriage has domestic violence, the bottom line is the possibility of not being hurt again.

There is also a woman in marriage, who is definitely not a nanny type. Don't put yourself as a bottomless performance, forming a habitual belief of men. I always think that the woman who gets it back is the one who does the housework for him to give birth to a child.

This will become a woman's status in the family, and step by step she will go to humility. Just ask a woman who has become like this, what happiness is there to speak of! On the contrary, in addition to fatigue, it is the humility of self-pity.

This is also what women get in exchange for living without a bottom line!

In fact, women are indeed in a very difficult position in marriage. It is necessary to show both a good wife and a good mother, and also to show the unique status of women. And after getting married, a woman must slowly cut off contact with all ordinary people of the opposite sex.

This is also the reason why everyone says that it is difficult to be a man, and it is even more difficult to be a woman. Of course, if you meet a good husband, you don't feel very tired. If you encounter an unhappy marriage, a woman is simply suffering!

Married women will feel more and more that they have no time for themselves. At first, I surrounded my husband every day, but it slowly transformed into a lifetime of hard work for my children. These are the years that every woman is going through!

It is also because of this habit that they are accustomed to the evolution of their own lives, which will lead many women to abandon their bottom line in the depths of their hearts day by day. Therefore, a married woman should actually keep her bottom line, which is nothing more than self-protection, in a family where you are not sorry for yourself. This is all in order to make a woman live with a clear conscience.

No, if you keep tolerating and changing in marriage, it will not make the other party feel satisfied, but will make the relationship become more and more unequal, and you will be hurt in the relationship. In marriage, although you don't need to argue with reason, you should also love yourself well and don't swallow your anger with others. You should express your concept very clearly, you can back down, but you can't always endure it and live a life of obedience.

In that way, I will also fall into an inferiority complex, this relationship, because of the concession of one party, patience will become more and more unequal, even if the relationship is long-lasting, it has no meaning, let alone happiness.

Although there should be mutual humility and tolerance in marriage, this is mutual, not always only one party is humble and tolerant, but both parties can understand how to manage in marriage, if only one party blindly tolerates and changes themselves, the other party will never be indifferent, and the party who thinks that it is forbearance will do so as a matter of course, and the other party will not be able to stabilize the relationship for a long time.

In marriage, the most important thing is to obtain happiness and the value of life, if we blindly tolerate change, swallow anger to each other, and accept it, we will feel that we have lost the value of life and the meaning of life.

Because we can't get happiness from this marriage, we will make this marriage become chicken ribs, and if we keep tolerating it, we will feel very aggrieved, which is quite detrimental to physical and mental health, and it is impossible to make the relationship last for a long time.

Many people have the traditional idea that patience is needed in marriage, but for any modern person, patience has a limit. Blindly forbearance will suppress one's body and mind, which is not good for one's physical and mental health, and it is not good for this marriage. Forbearance is useful if one's own forbearance can be exchanged for the understanding of the other party.

If the other party doesn't understand, they will think that the tolerant party is easy to bully, and the relationship will never last long.

An extramarital affair, of course, which is impossible for any man to tolerate.

The bottom line is respect.

If he doesn't respect you, he won't care about your thoughts, and it will be unbearable for you in life and emotionally.

Women in marriage have these 4 bottom lines, and if you lower it, you will lose!