Do parents always have to think about everything so complicated?

Parents think from different perspectives and will be more complicated than you. Hope you understand. Maybe you don't want to touch these things at all.

But in reality, these are the times when you can think about it. It's not that they come up with it out of thin air, it's their experience that tells them to think that way. And your experience also tells you, why are they so complicated?

They will think about every bit of life.

Parents have lived for decades and have seen a lot of common things in the world. They may be thinking complicated because they are worried about you, but also because they have a good understanding of this society. When you feel that your parents don't understand you, do you also think about it, have you ever understood your parents?

Parents earn money to provide for your schooling. Can you spend money with peace of mind? Children have reasons to be happy, and if they want to play next time, talk to parents about your plans.

They'll agree, and they'll be reassured. The reason why there is a conflict and a generation gap between parents and children is because there is too little communication. Do you often tell your parents what is happening around you?

Honey, I know you're a good kid, but communicate more with your parents, okay? I'm sure you'll do it well. Because our children are all very good children.

I didn't expect to get an unexpected message from my brother-in-law's **, that is, the reason why my sister-in-law scolded me yesterday was not because I quarreled with my brother-in-law and got angry with me, but because I beat my brother-in-law **, so I turned my head and beat ** to reprimand me.

The nature of these two situations is different, the first is anger, which is understandable, but the second is to come to the door to question me, which is related to my character.

I don't understand, aren't they family? Looking for the two of them, who is not the same? I have to find her, and I can't discuss some things with my husband?

Besides, my brother-in-law himself said that he would beat ** to her, since he can beat her, do you need me to call her another one? I've already said that she's busy, so I'll definitely ask my brother-in-law who is more free to ask about the situation. In order to fight these **, she will also be careful, this is simply amazing!

I'm her sister-in-law, I had dinner together a few days ago, I didn't blush or quarrel, just for me and my brother-in-law to fight a few more **just like this** to reprimand me, I really can't figure it out, why is this happening? What's in her head?

I was confused and said three times in a row into my phone, "I'll go, I'll go, I'll go." ”

After I told a girlfriend about it, the bystander was clear, I hope she can help analyze and analyze, I don't want to be wronged in vain.

At the end of the analysis, Hu Ming summed it up and told me that my sister-in-law may have menopausal syndrome to be so abnormal and unreasonable. I ......So be it! Or else? I went to her to quarrel, and I was not good at and did not bother to do it.

She was originally a very sensitive and thoughtful person, and her recent words and deeds were even better than before. Come to think of it, I don't bother to bother with her this time, her narrow vision is her business, why should I become like her? It's not worth being angry with someone like that.

In the future, just hide away and don't get entangled with her, it's a waste of energy and time to spend energy and time on this kind of thing, and living your own little life is the last word.

If she does this again in the future, I will go back unceremoniously, and I can't be easily kind if I am bullied to the face.

The affairs of their family are all handled by Mr. G, and I will not bother with them anymore.

Think about it, there is some truth in the old saying "people are good and are deceived and accused". The front foot is just good to others, and the back foot is stabbed by others, and it is the kind that does not see blood, think about what it means!

I, as a sister-in-law, usually speak softly, and I didn't say a word to them when I was heavy, maybe I was too good to speak, and I had to be tougher and stronger in the future, and I couldn't be too humble, otherwise I would be bullied to the point that I didn't know how to pay it back.

After many years outside, I have little time to deal with my family like this, and I have no experience, so I have to learn from my sister-in-law in the future, and no one in their family dares to say this to my sister-in-law.

It's a hassle to be a parent! I have a headache after watching it!

As the saying goes, as long as the kung fu is deep, the iron rod is sharpened into a needle That is to say: as long as you are not afraid of difficulties and do everything seriously, there will always be a successful day!

Everything in the world is relative, and only within a certain range is absolute!

Parents think that everything is simple, as long as you do it, you will succeed! It should only be for the child's learning range. These tasks are relevant to children of your age. As long as you do it seriously, you should be able to succeed!

It seems that this sentence of the parent is incomplete. It should be: Everything is very simple, as long as you do it seriously. Succeed! ＂

The words in parentheses above are the parts that should be added. Add that to the mix!

From another point of view: parents are encouraging you to build self-confidence in learning and overcome difficulties in learning! That's why he's making such a long story short.

It is recommended that you don't care about what your parents say, your only task is to overcome the difficulties in learning and study hard every day! (Learn for Lifetime Gain!) ）

Happy every day!

In fact, parents also know that it is not easy to do things, they just want to encourage their children.

So I always make things simple and let the children work hard.

If parents talk things too hard, children will be discouraged.

Then you will have even less confidence to do things.

I'll say a few things:

Parents have experience, and he thinks that he has succeeded in this kind of thing, so teach you that parents want you to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and believe that you are the best.

There are many things that parents want you to try and experience on your own in order to succeed.

I feel that you are a little resistant to the parents, so communicate your ideas to the parents. Face-to-face talks, demanding equal right to dialogue.

What you said does not rule out the fact that parents expect too much from you. Because I don't know what to do, if that's the case, in this day and age, talk to each other on an equal footing and say what you think and choose. Have a deep heart-to-heart exchange with your parents.

In fact, they know that some things are difficult, and they just want you to have a little more self-confidence, and if you think about it, if your parents tell you that it's hard, do you still have the confidence to do it?

Sometimes they're just treating you in their own way.

So parents are really for your own good, don't be angry with parents because of this, because one day, you will understand their good intentions, and then you will feel sorry, and it will be too late.

It's like this, especially the annoying people who are about 50 years old who mumble all day long, think things too simply, and always compare the present with the past.

Because their parents' previous teachers taught them badly.