Why can t my daughter be at home when she gets married?

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Many families don't let their married daughters go home for the Chinese New Year, but their reasons are different.

If you get married, you will have a foreign surname.

The Chinese New Year is naturally a time for the whole family to reunite. However, this moment is generally limited to one's own family, and in many traditional concepts, after the daughter gets married, she is a person with a foreign surname, and she is no longer a member of her own family, so it is not suitable to stay in her mother's house for the New Year.

After marriage, you have your own home, and when you go back to your parents' house for the New Year, the implication is not good.

After her daughter got married, she already had her own new home, and she should start her own new life and build a happy little family.

Of course, if there is some conflict with her husband, then her mother's family is still the most powerful backer, and her daughter will also come to her mother's house to relieve her mood.

Therefore, in some areas, there are married daughters who return to their parents' homes, which means that the daughter's life is unhappy and there are conflicts with her husband, so on the festive day of the New Year, parents in some families will not let their daughters go home for the New Year.

In addition, in some areas, "returning to your parents' home" also means "divorce", which is even more unlucky, so you will not let your daughter go home for the New Year.

The daughter who is married will come home for the New Year, which will bring misfortune.

This is a traditional saying in some regions, which can be regarded as a traditional culture and a concept with superstitious elements. This concept holds that a married daughter cannot return to her parents' home for the New Year.

If the daughter comes home for the Chinese New Year, it will bring bad luck to the family, such as discord between the siblings and the family, financial luck, and so on. Of course, there is no strong basis for this superstitious claim.

<> according to thousands of years of Chinese customs and traditions, a married daughter is not allowed to go back to her parents' home for 15 years. Although the years have passed for a long time, but the custom is not that we can change the chain book casually, it is not good for yourself to go back to your parents' home, and it is not good for your mother's family, for the sake of your own family, you would rather live by yourself outside. It can't be bad for the mother's family, and the impact is not good.

If you go back to your parents' home, outsiders will talk about it and say that you are ignorant. Because fifteen is the full moon, the meaning is the reunion of the family, you are the daughter of the model who went out, and in the traditional concept, you are a member of another family, and you should live in your husband's house.

The daughter who marries out can't go back to her parents' house for the New Year, and there are two reasons:

First, if the married daughter goes back to her parents' house for the New Year, her mother's family will be poor; During the Chinese New Year, the mother's family should ask God to send God (God refers to the ancestors of the family)! The daughter who marries out is someone else's family, and she can't spend the New Year at home, which is not good for the family and will affect the fortune of the year. Therefore, the married daughter cannot go back to her parents' house for the New Year, especially for her brother's brother and brother, which will make her mother's family dilapidated and slippery.

The second is that the daughter who marries out is someone else's family, and she can't eat back again, especially on the first day of the New Year, she can't eat at her mother's house. "The daughter who marries out, the water that spills out", has the meaning of "it is difficult to collect the letter rock when covered with water"; It is also necessary to let the daughter be "cold-hearted" to her mother's family, no longer homesick, take root in her husband's house with all her heart, and build her new home wholeheartedly.

Some people may not think so, but there are some taboos that must be paid attention to. Modern people must pay attention to traditional etiquette.

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