I m 26 years old, single and pessimistic about love.

In today's society, at your age, you understand the cruel reality, and you are more pessimistic about love, there are two kinds of people, one is to bow to reality, not to pursue the feeling of adolescence, and to find someone to work and live with and work together. They have neglected spiritual resonance and communication, and only care about material things (one more person to earn money, gain a foothold, and have children). Although these people have entered into marriage, because they do not really love each other, and they need to constantly run in, they have conflicts at both ends for three days, and they do not feel happy.

There is also a kind of person who would rather lack than be abundant, would rather be single, or hope to meet the object of adolescence's first love, and become a leftover man and a woman. There are many such people. - Neither is happy anyway.

It's up to you to choose whichever you're happy to choose.

Find someone who is happy with each other, enter into marriage, and have a happy couple for a lifetime, but there are very few.

The ideal love is a flower in the greenhouse, and the realistic love is a flower in the wilderness. Indoor flowers, although beautiful, often can't withstand the wind and rain, and wild flowers, although not so showy, can often withstand wind and rain, because they can't withstand the wind and rain and are eliminated. The two kinds of flowers belong to two different kinds of beauty, and whether they are beautiful or not depends on how you appreciate them.

26？I got married at that time, and I really thought too much, and I had to think about the pressure of my family, and my worries about age. As a person who has come over, I would like to give a word of advice; Find your own happiness, don't be disturbed by too many external factors, because that is the happiness of your life. You can't afford to gamble.

Nonsense is not that love and marriage are actually really two concepts of things, no matter how vigorous your love is, there is no such thing as vigorous love that has always been vigorous. I've been in love with my husband for 6 years and a half and a year and a half of marriage for so many years Occasionally there is a feeling of being in love basically more bland... Marriage is bland is true.

As soon as you reach a certain stage, you have to think about things that are more troublesome than the passage of time, such as marriage, but who would have thought that in the next second, your other half will appear in front of you? Let it be

I didn't. In fact, you haven't changed, but your attitude has changed, maybe you don't know love and marriage.

Please take care of your life's wealth. It was bought with youth and tears.

I give you four words: "believe, trust".

This is life, and the plot in the movie just makes some good shots. Life is real, it's just fairytale love. You can never have it, wake up. Life goes on.

My friend had this idea before, and after his trade-offs, he finally found his love.

Work hard to improve yourself, you are still young, change yourself, learn more and communicate, you will definitely grow, welcome to adopt, thank you. You can look at my avatar and make progress together.

Happiness is earned by oneself, and waiting cannot be waited. If there is a suitable one, even if it is not successful, it will not leave regrets.

Fate hasn't arrived, don't sigh, she's waiting for you.

Then work other aspects, feelings are not good.

If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come!

26 years old is not too old.

It's okay if you don't have feelings! You can fight in your career,

Now that older men and women have it, they are not their own, and since they have this idea, they are not far from getting married!

There's no way to compare this. Everyone's marriage fate is different.

It's nothing when you're older, but it's better for girls to be older, they're more mature in their thinking, they're not fickle, they get married sooner or later, the main thing is to live well and live a happy life.

What are you a**? I'm about the same age as two, do you think it's appropriate for the two of us to keep in touch?

Don't be in a hurry, wait for fate slowly.

Oh, you can find it, and so do I.

Maybe someone likes you already! Pay more attention to the people and things around you! Fate is coming soon

Now there will be leftover women in this world, but fate has come to an end.

It's okay, don't worry, it's easy to make mistakes if you're in too much of a hurry.

It is estimated that Xinfu will come the day after tomorrow.

Don't be too demanding, ask where you're from.

I would venture to ask, are you too good?

Don't! Hello friends: Love is caring rather than pampering, love is mutual mingling and not unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

Embrace everything, embrace the stories of the past, tolerate the happy memories and sad feelings of the past. Love is someone who shares it with you when you are unhappy or happy, someone who can always be by your side to share every day with you! It's to let each other give up, let each other hurt, let each other be happy, tears always fall inexplicably, love, even if they are together, they miss him every second.

True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

Then stay away from love for a while, do something else, I found that modern people are very idle, there is nothing else to do except love, your parents gave birth to you just let you fall in love?

You're the same as me、Now I don't believe in love pull。

Don't be so attached to what happened in the past.

You are hurt because you have loved someone who is not worthy of your cherishment, is not worth giving, and does not know how to cherish;

For this reason, I dare not believe that others are not worth it.

None of us can change what happened in the past, but we still have the future, and if we don't give up the past and dwell on the past, we will only not see the future.

Don't cling to what you have and neglect what you have.

Adjust yourself, love yourself, and make yourself healthy and happy.

The people who should come into your life are destined to be inescapable. Help him take good care of yourself before he finds you.

Hey, kid, huh? It'll be fine after a while.

Take your time, life is long, the world is big, there is always a place to support your half.

Although you want to learn the vertical calendar to love yourself, but Yu Shou Sou also has to love others, I think try to understand the other party's thoughtsAs long as you really respect him, he will definitely be more good to you, love to work hard, serious maintenance!

I want to ask you a question: Do you feel like your life is your own?

I personally believe that as a person and a man, we should bravely assume our own responsibilities and face the society and our relatives, especially the parents who gave birth to me and raised me, without them, we would not have everything we have today. Therefore, even if your life is very bad, your love is hopeless, you have no status in society, and your friends are very limited, then we still have parents, Pan, Pan, Pan, finally hope that you will become an adult, but we never thought that you would have thoughts of dying for those things outside your body; When you see that you are about to enjoy happiness, you are ready to pour a basin of cold water on it, I don't want to scold, but your cowardly thoughts, this makes me have an urge to scold.

What is love? What is friendship? I don't want to slander and denigrate them, but you should see:

When the catastrophe comes, they fly separately", and those who "stick a knife in their ribs" are often friends, so don't expect too much from these things, they are all things that can be met but not sought.

When it comes to work, there are many rich people in China, but the poor still account for the majority. Your job is not good, so you don't see those who are not as good as you? Maybe you have high standards, but you also have to be realistic, you can't be too ambitious, and you have to take your time in everything.

Your way out is your way of life, it lies in yourself, no one can persuade you, only yourself, this is the same as life, you can only rely on yourself, and the help of others is a gift.

Recognize yourself, that's the key.

You are too pessimistic!

It's the same as I used to be, but I still have low self-esteem.

Try to slowly get your confidence back, be optimistic, think more about the good things in this world, think more about your strengths, talk more to your good friends ...

Go outside more to see the customs and customs everywhere, and the mood will also improve.

If you really can't do it, go to a psychiatrist!

The pressure of modern people is too great, and many people will have some psychological problems.

I used to be very pessimistic, and I often thought about suicide, and I wanted to die, but then my father committed suicide, and the pain he caused me cannot be expressed in words, so I gave up.

In the end, I still live to the present, think more about my responsibilities and my family. Keep yourself busy, and you won't think about this or that.

Hopefully you'll find your way around in the morning. Life is full of hope.

I'm still open** on **: Variety Hipster Store.

Your things are not complicated, but your writing is disorganized, and it is difficult to help you sort it out for a while, so I won't write a few sentences to you.

The gathering of the gathering, sincerity, openness;

The points that should be divided, so as to gather and disperse, and not make everyone extremely unhappy.

Love, the spark produced by the collision of two hearts, some will burn, and some will be extinguished after a short time.

When your mind is upset, don't add any more nonsense, calm yourself down, think carefully, for yourself and for others, and after that, reason will slowly favor you.

The question of the person who can post shows that you still have hope.

You may seem very modest, but in fact, you have been laughing at the people around you for not doing as well as you, and you have always felt jealous and hateful. You have to correct your mentality, no matter how developed countries are, there is unfairness, there is corruption, and everyone will make money without the earth. You have to be the right person to raise yourself, work hard, learn things must be solid, you understand the work, it does not mean that you are proficient, the work has the fun of work, you can explain things clearly when you speak, communicate appropriately, and do things appropriately to accept or consider the opinions of others.

Fifteen began to learn, thirty and stand, forty did not confuse, fifty knew the destiny of heaven, and sixty ears were obedient.

Work hard until the age of 30, care about your family, and don't worry about anything else!

I've also been in this situation, feeling that there is nothing in this world that can arouse my interest, and I feel very tired to live, and it is better to die a hundred times.

That's what someone said to me at this time.

Think about the people who looked down on you, or bullied you, and your uncle showed them what he did.

And prove that you live better than those people.

Is that a reason? I don't know.

There is also a reason to think about your parents, relatives, friends and friends . If you're like that,,, what about them?

yes, can we be so selfish ourselves?

Does this count. Don't count Do you need a reason to live Live is a reason not to be optimistic、、、

Also objective reasons.

Do you need to live is to live, and you will die when you should die, don't spend all day thinking about what to do, why do you want to think about something.

The more I think about it, the more I feel that it is better to be alive than to die.

You said that life is not interesting, have you ever thought about why your parents worked hard to raise you, and have you asked them if life is interesting, we are all ordinary people, it is impossible for all of us to be ***, or China would have liberated hundreds of millions of times four or nine years ago, and now it has long entered the communist society, it is estimated that this on-demand distribution is your expectation! Far away...

In fact, your main problem is love, from the front of the communication to the back of the bullshit can be seen, set your QQ gender to the opposite sex, see how others pick up you, and then boldly apply it to reality, you might as well try...

The reason why you are pessimistic is that you are not satisfied, you are not satisfied with your economic income, work situation, etc., the reason why you think that "love is just a primitive desire, and the more people who have social resources, the more love they have", is because you see that people with an economic foundation are itching and smooth in love and career, and you are more and more disappointed in yourself in the comparison between the two.

Actually, you're not that bad, and you've fallen into a mistake when you secretly compare yourself with others.

Either you see the essence of this pessimism and free yourself from it.

Either under a strong touch, for example, in your life, someone who is going well suddenly has an accident and dies for some reason.

Only then will you realize that a life full of small troubles is also a kind of happiness.

You reminded me of a very contemporary saying: Brother doesn't listen to ** is lonely. Don't be too depressed