I m 26 years old, and I haven t been in a relationship yet, and no boy likes me and chases me, what

Updated on psychology 2024-06-20
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You can only blame the boy for not having a vision, or you are a person with a very personality, the current boy's vision in my opinion, is indeed very general, most of them will be based on people's appearance, and people are generally not real, so you don't have to care what they think of you, as long as you live well, you have enriched yourself, you have the ability, will be admired by most people, and some people will like it, maybe someone likes you now, but he is a very shy person, he can't say it, I think it's in love, Don't care about the early, but care about the good, maybe in the end, you will find a considerate, handsome, and capable person to live a lifetime, so come on! Work hard for your career, you are unique in this world, come on, you can never give up your pursuit, oh, and let me say that if you meet what you like, don't give up, go after it, I hope you are happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Just one thing: be confident in yourself!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Be brave and take the initiative to love, there is nothing difficult, as long as you objectively evaluate both parties, fate will always come.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't have a girlfriend either, I'm going to chase you, you see.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If no one is chasing you, you will chase people.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, love is all around you, look for it yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Fate has not yet arrived, perhaps it has something to do with your personality.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    So what's there to worry about, it's just that fate hasn't arrived.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is a wise saying for women, there are no ugly women, only lazy women. First of all, you have to think about whether you are too negligent in dressing up. Men are superficial animals.

    They are more accustomed to understanding a woman's heart from the outside. Don't say you're not pretty, that's an excuse.

    Then think about whether you are too shy and introverted, resulting in a boy who obviously wants to pursue you, but you are confused and ungraspable.

    Finally, 1 I think that if you are a man who is dressed up and looks comfortable and pleasing to the eye (don't dress up fancy clothes, so that even if he is interested in you, but in his heart he does not necessarily appreciate you, it may be just a curiosity, then it will be worth the loss) I think the boy will have a good first impression of you.

    Then, you're acting lively and cute or gentle and understanding (what kind of personality you used to be, lean over there).

    In this case, I think even if you are not a heartthrob, there will be people who know how to appreciate you in your life.

    I hope to hear your good news as soon as possible, hurry up and fall in love, life is incomplete without love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I guess you're not social!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on your actual situation, there are many of them now, for example, because of the work environment, there are only a few interpersonal relationships, if there are fewer boys around, then there are fewer opportunities, not necessarily because of your own reasons, the key is to find opportunities to meet boys and expand the circle of life!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your communication is not too self-isolated, so that others feel that you are difficult to get along with, in fact, there is no difficult person, as long as you take the initiative to interact with others, chat, even if you do not chase you for a long time, there will be colleagues and friends to introduce you, so it is better to be cheerful and communicate more with the people around you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm also in my 20s, and no girl likes me. It's a really uncomfortable feeling, I can understand it. What we do now is to believe in ourselves and sincerely wait for the take.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Even the wild lilies in the valley will have spring, and your fate has not yet arrived, and you will only be happy when you meet the right person at the right time. You must not want to talk because you see others in love, unless you really meet your favorite, you don't have to be chased, and taking the initiative is also good! Throw away the old ideas that bind you, and may you find the one who belongs to you as soon as possible!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then take the initiative and make a good impression on the boy you like when you meet him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

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  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe the boy who likes you is more introverted than the introvert, and you are also more generous, otherwise you will miss out on a good marriage and change your personality and way of dealing with others. Most of the girls who have a lot of boys chasing are of good character and not necessarily pretty.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    That's where you are, **How much, can you talk to me?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Wait patiently, improve yourself, there will always be a day when flowers bloom!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The first thing to ask is a very realistic question, are you pretty?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Change your image!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As a girl, it's a pity that there are no boys chasing at the age of 27. But you can't ask the boys about the presentation of this phenomenon, you should ask yourself why those boys don't come to chase you? You should find the answer in you, if a man doesn't chase you, it may be a man's problem, is it still a man's problem if so many men don't chase you?

    Of course, on a certain level, each of us is our own way of life and way of dealing with the world. At the same time, they also have the right to choose their own lifestyle. Don't worry about other people's eyes.

    But then again, it is only without disturbing and interfering with others that socks can "go their own way". Suppose you are a person who likes to bother others. At the same time, you don't care what others think of you.

    Over time, your image in the minds of others will get worse and worse. If the impression is bad, of course, there will be people who will gossip behind their backs.

    If you want to be chased, you first have to make your communication circle bigger, so that you can know more people, and it is easier to meet my male god, usually come in and walk around with friends, participate in social or group activities, and show my excellent and wonderful side while participating in activities, of course, there are some light dress-ups, so that you can meet the male god chasing you in less than three months.

    You are constantly waiting for others to pursue you without taking the initiative. Love is a wonderful thing, and sometimes you can't wait. We must learn to take the initiative to seize the opportunity, and instead of waiting passively, we should take the initiative to attack.

    Maybe in the process of taking the initiative, you will also change yourself a lot. You'll have a lot of happiness that you've never experienced before.

    There are too many rules and regulations for me. Some things depend on fate. There are some things that you don't know until you get them, so you can do that.

    Don't leave out boys who don't fit in the right conditions. How do you know that a boy who is three years older is the best fit for you? If you don't try to date, how do you know if this guy is reliable?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think it's probably because you're too homely, you haven't gone out to meet some of the opposite sex, how do you let the male have the opportunity to pursue you, so you have to make yourself more outgoing.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then you can try to dress up and judge yourself, for example, you learn to wear makeup, learn to dress and match, and learn to be lively, so that Yin Chong or you will not be so indifferent. No one is chasing you, there must be many reasons, you can try to change yourself, if you still can't dress up, you can try to take the initiative to make friends and see if you can find a relationship.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It may be that you are not good-looking, because some boys still pay more attention to appearance.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It may be because you are not good enough, or it may be because you are too cold, so this happens.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A blank piece of paper, I think what you have to do is to adjust your mentality, experience more things, and maybe let yourself not be shocked. You know, every tinnitus has its first encounter, meeting or engaging in some kind of work and thing. As for what you need to pay attention to and what to say, you can face it silently, you don't have to be able to speak well, a good audience, listening attentively is more valuable.

    The best way to show what you are good at is.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Well, you're 25 years old, you've never been in love, you're a boy, in fact, this thing, you can't say um, you can talk about it if you want to, you don't talk about it if you want to, but well, this depends on fate, for example, if you have a fate, you don't want to talk about it, in fact, you can't stop your own heart, because you just want to like it, you like it, and then what happens after that? You are now 25 years old, and you haven't talked about it yet, maybe it's fate, or you can't find the right person to fall in love with, because sometimes when you fall in love, it's mainly about hitting it off, and getting along comfortably is the long time you can fall in love, and then, you belong to 25 years old, this age is actually this age, if you haven't fallen in love, you can work hard for your career, you can do it when your career is successful, and when you do it, if you are mature, in fact, these things can add points for you, Maybe you'll meet the right girl, and it's not a bad thing to talk about it at that time? Although I haven't talked about it, it's equivalent to emotional experience, not much or less, it's easy to be deceived by others, how about it?

    In fact, this thing, as you get older, it is the increase of social experience. In fact, there are still some different views on the concept of love.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I haven't been in a relationship at the age of 25, that's the age when I should be in love, you can slowly develop the people around you and see if it is possible to be your girlfriend.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's actually nothing if you haven't been in a relationship at the age of 25, but after all, you still have a serious lack of love experience, and I don't know what it's like. Although the probability of success is not high, you should also try, just answer naturally when chatting, and be more polite and considerate when eating.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    How deeply a man loves you, "after the lights out" is obvious, it's all hidden in his body language!

    Everyone wants to have a good love, in love, there is no so-called winner and loser, and those who can go to the end always love just right.

    It is often said that a woman should find a man who cares for you like a father, as the saying goes, "A bad man makes you crazy, a good man makes you a fool, and the best man makes you a child." "It's probably every girl's dream, but not everyone has that kind of luck.

    There was a popular saying on the Internet: If a man is reliable, the sow will go to the tree. In the eyes of many girls, most men can only "talk sweetly", which is not reliable at all, and they can't judge whether they really love themselves.

    But not all men are good at verbally expressing their love for their other half, and some are interpreted by practical actions. Sometimes, from the small details when getting along, you can tell if a man really loves you, especially when sharing a bed.

    How much a man loves you, these behaviors of "after lights out" are obvious, in fact, they are all hidden in his body language. If you get all of them, it means that he already loves you to the bone, and women must not understand.

    Loves to sleep with you in my arms.

    Every man will be willing to stick with the person he likes, which is also an expression of affection. Therefore, when sleeping, he will also be willing to hold you to sleep. And he knows that women are always insecure when they sleep, so he will take the initiative to let you snuggle up in his warm arms.

    Only a man who truly loves you will be able to hold you carefully and gently to sleep at any time. Because only in this way can he sleep soundly and sleep peacefully.

    Cover the quilt carefully for you.

    There is a saying called "details determine success or failure", and in marriage and love, this sentence also applies. Once a guy has his heart set on you, he will always think about you and pay attention to every little detail of you. Even after falling asleep, they will subconsciously cover you with a quilt.

    Because he knows that girls are easy to kick the quilt unconsciously when sleeping, so even if he sleeps soundly, he will subconsciously get up to check and cover you with the quilt, for fear that you will catch a cold. Such a man really loves you and loves you in his heart.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    At the age of 25, it is very normal that you have never been in love, and there are many boys who are relatively late bloomers, so you have not met someone who really makes you hearty, and it is normal not to fall in love, so in the future life path, you should pay attention to finding your other half, looking for a real person, and the feelings that can make your heart move.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This has to do with personality. In fact, I prefer to take the initiative and grasp it myself, so that this life is not in vain, and I will not leave any regrets.

    In fact, if you meet someone you like, you still have to have a little hint, take the initiative to approach (not equal to pursuit), give others a chance to understand you, give others a chance to pursue you, and let yourself know if he is the prince charming in your heart. Just like the sunrise in the east and the rain in the west, the road is sunny but sunny, and nature understands this truth. If you like and act like you really don't, I guess others won't chase you, unless you're the kind of girl who looks really good.

    Do you want to know what it's like to be pursued? If it's someone you like who pursues you, of course it's pretty happy, but what if it's someone you don't like? But in the end, we are for the happiness of two people, so why should we care who once chased whom?

    Even if you take the initiative to pursue, you may not know what it feels like to be pursued.

    And now the most important thing is your age, you should face the real problem. Even though innocence is rare, you say that I am a year younger than you, I am still a little simple, but I am no longer so naïve.

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