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If two people who have an object fall in love with each other, then I think it is very abnormal, and there are problems with the three views of both people, so they should reflect on it.
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Two people who have a partner are in love, and I think both of them are very irresponsible and not qualified to marry the current person.
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In fact, if they are about to get married, then I don't think you should disturb their lives, and I can let them live well.
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This is a particularly bloody thing, maybe such a plot will only appear in TV series, so two people who love each other will not have such a problem.
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If you really feel that the person you want to marry is not suitable for you, you must say it in advance, make a decision in advance, and don't delay yourself or others.
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I think it's purely sick, you're getting married, why do you still like people, don't you? I think it's better not to do that.
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I think it's right to suddenly know who you love, so that you won't regret it later. But I'm sorry for you.
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I think it's a very amazing thing, because they all have their own objects, but they are addicted to other people at the same time, and I think it's very amazing.
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I think that since you are not married, you must pursue your own happiness, and I think this is the most important thing.
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Should the person to marry choose the person you love or choose the right person? Why? Love is a prelude, testing whether two people can come together, life is a theme that requires the harmony of two people, no matter how loud one person's voice is, or if it is said bluntly, the other person can only follow.
At this time, love no longer has its enthusiasm and attractiveness, and what it needs is tolerance, tolerance, following and support. What do you think.
If marriage is for marriage, then, I think that the most suitable person for yourself is the best, but if they can like each other, it is even more rare, a suitable person, not only has the same feelings, but also has life experience, social status, knowledge, family, morals, only emotionally, they can better face the difficulties that may arise in life, and not collapse because of love. Because life is more real, better, and more cruel.
Love may make you feel sweet and happy before you get married, because there is love. And the right person for you will make you feel happy and sweet after you get married. Of course, nothing can be absolute, but the person who suits you is suitable for you, because he fits your lifestyle, and the person who loves you, after marriage, if your love is still there, congratulations, what do you say?
If you can find someone who is nice to you and likes it very much. If you can find you in the vast sea of people, it is the luckiest thing in your life, looking for you in the vast crowd, thank God for letting me meet you, let my life be full of value, with you, my life is no longer lonely, the seasons change, my happiness and sorrow will accompany you, together with the ups and downs of the future, I have nothing to fear.
Love is a lifetime, you don't need so many commitments, happiness is to see you every day, love is the spark of two hearts. Not whoever wants can get whom, love is equal, as long as you have love in your heart, you will always be happy.
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The person to marry should choose the person you love; In this way, you will be happier after getting married, and the relationship between the two of you will become better.
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Of course, you should choose the right person, so that you can live very comfortably, and at the same time, you can avoid quarrels.
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Once you decide to enter into marriage with another person, it means that you have to live with each other for the rest of your life, and two people have been together for so long, why not choose one that satisfies you? So we have to avoid being with someone we don't like, and also avoid being with someone who doesn't like us.
Love is the foundation of marriage, try to marry someone who loves each other. Although we have no way to guarantee that in the future life, this relationship will not become, and it will be able to withstand the wear and tear of time, but if we have a good emotional foundation with each other, it will make us more tolerant of each other when facing complex trivial matters after marriage, and we will feel that with each other, even if life is not easy, it will not be so difficult, so that each other will go together for a longer time.
Don't be with someone who hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet, it's irresponsible for both of them. Maybe the other party just has gratitude and gratitude to you, but this feeling is not love, don't let this feeling be mistaken for love. After all, life-saving straw is only useful at the moment of need, and it is not needed after being rescued.
Touching is only temporary, feelings are lifelong. Touching without an emotional foundation is not love.
Love is also unfair, don't think that you are good enough, you are good enough personally, so you will definitely win the other person's heart. Love is mutually attractable, it will not make the other person attractive to you just because you are good to the other person, if you don't love, you don't love, no matter how good you are in front of someone who doesn't love you, it doesn't mean anything to him.
Marriage is serious, it must be well thought out, and don't let yourself regret it because of the impulse. A person's life itself is a difficult practice, and feelings are not a necessity, we must gain and lose, after all, we can never have both. So be yourself, don't lose yourself, don't lower your self-standards, love yourself first, and then someone will love us.
I also hope that people who love each other can be together in the end and have a good outcome.
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<> many of the problems to consider are very real problems, not that they can be overcome as long as two people love each other. Love and married life are two different things. The first thing to consider is the issue of parents.
Falling in love is a matter of two people, while marriage is a matter of considering two families. Therefore, the parents of both sides must be involved, to know the attitude of both parents towards each other, and to have more contact with each other if there is a chance, in order to understand what the family is like, and also to pave the way for future relationships. In marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also crucial, affecting the quality of marriage.
The house is also an important condition in marriage, and it is the foundation of a small family, so before getting married, it is necessary to make it clear whether to get married and buy a new house, or what? Of course, it is necessary to decide according to their respective family conditions, whether to live with their parents after marriage, etc., these seemingly very realistic and cheesy issues are often the basic issues that determine whether a marriage is stable. The next thing is about children, young people and parents have different ideas, and there may be differences in ideas between two people, some people want to have children after marriage, some people want to have a few years, one person thinks that one child is enough, and some want to have more.
Reach a consensus before marriage to avoid conflicts after marriage.
Work is an important part of our lives, and the questions about work between the two people after marriage are also the top priority. All work should be well planned, whether to go to a city after marriage, or stay at home, whether the nature and time of each other's work are acceptable, and whether the work is about the income of the whole family, so a stable income ** is also the foundation for the healthy development of a family. Before getting married, you should also understand each other's physical health problems, whether there are infectious diseases, family genetic history, etc., marriage is responsible for each other, and it also requires absolute frankness and loyalty, so premarital examination is the best way to be responsible for each other.
These questions seem realistic and mundane, as if they defile the divine and pure love. But if you think about it carefully, it is a series of questions to test whether the three views of the two parties are consistent, and only when the three views of two people are consistent can they better run in after marriage.
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