My boyfriend did something bad behind his back, can I find out directly?

Of course you can, because if he has betrayed you, then there is nothing to hide. Say it directly and clearly, and then break up decisively. Because there is no point in going on.

I think you should give your boyfriend a step, talk to your boyfriend calmly, and let your boyfriend take the initiative to speak out more face-saving.

First of all, let him say it himself, and if he pretends not to understand, you can give him appropriate prompts, let him say it himself, and admit his mistake!

Of course you can, don't think about his face at this time, he is the one who did the wrong thing.

In terms of feelings, the last thing a boyfriend can do to betray his feelings is to step on two boats, and what he can't tolerate is to have sex with a third party, which is a serious betrayal of feelings.

Loyalty is the most basic principle of getting along with couples! If you can't even do this, then what kind of love is there to talk about! Therefore, you can't easily forgive your boyfriend's behavior, you must show your own resolute attitude and let him know that you have principles and bottom lines.

Hooking up with others and playing ambiguously, having improper sexual relations with others, and splitting legs directly are all betrayal of feelings.

Emotional inattentiveness, indulging one's own behavior, this is something that the other party cannot tolerate.

Pedal on two boats, not firm for girlfriends and others, and mess with flowers and grass everywhere.

Disloyalty, not single-mindedness, stepping on a few boats, seeing one and loving the other, too attentive.

Ambiguous with other women, ignoring their own existence.

Not sincere to you, stepping on two boats, not being honest with you.

Stepping on two boats and having an ambiguous relationship with other girls are all betrayals of feelings. If you have sex with other girls, it's even more unreasonable.

Ambiguous with other women, not going home at night, cold to themselves.