My boyfriend is constantly staring at others, how can I be attractive enough to attract my loved one

Updated on psychology 2024-06-14
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In my opinion, everyone likes beautiful people, so I might as well take a second look. Since the other party has not left you, it proves that there are still people who are attracted to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think no matter how attractive you are, your boyfriend will stare at others from time to time, which is human nature.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Learn to invest in yourself, dress yourself up beautifully, and make yourself better.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I used to think so, as long as I become excellent, she will like me, but later I learned that she doesn't like you and whether you are excellent or not has anything to do with it, girls like to care about them all the time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Improve your economic level, work hard, and improve your horizons, and you will naturally be attractive.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Money, power, and appearance, one of them wins the world.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Constantly improve yourself, including ability, salary, social status and other attributes.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I thought it was a free country, but because of your question, I felt constrained and frightened.

    It stands to reason that people's facial features are shown to others, and you have no right to interfere with others' right to see you. You have to know that going out to meet people is as simple as "seeing others" and "letting others see". If you feel uncomfortable because others are looking at you, why do you go out?

    In fact, the reason for your discomfort is nothing more than 2 psychological loopholes: low self-esteem and introversion. Those confident people are eager to take off their clothes and let others see them, because they think they are attractive, and if you don't look at me, you feel empty in your heart.

    Let me start by saying that my answer won't necessarily give you the answer you want. I'm just going to talk about things based on the questions you provided. If you are running to the Internet to show off and tease netizens because you are beautiful, then I suggest you give up the following reading because it is a waste of time.

    If the above questions are true, and there is indeed confusion, then please ignore the previous sentence... You say (some people are really rude to stare at you), so now you come and tell me, what is considered polite staring at you?

    So I don't know, how exactly do you say that strangers are staring at you? Do you want to see through your clothes, or simply admire them? And do you have the 2 loopholes I mentioned earlier in your heart, in fact, these problems are clear in your heart better than anyone else.

    But you also have to reflect on yourself: (Did I wear my clothes backwards today?) (Is there something dirty on my face?)

    And so on, we don't judge how we look, because beauty and ugliness are born naturally, given by our parents, and we are not qualified to evaluate them. But you should always pay attention to your dress. Anyway, I personally think that there is nothing wrong with others looking at you.

    If you don't want people to stare at you, then you don't go out. And that's why I said the meaning of the first sentence, since this is a free country, you have your freedom, and people have their freedom, and you can't interfere with other people's freedom because of your freedom, and others don't have the right to interfere with your freedom with their freedom. So the key is the word "respect", why should others stare at you?

    In what ways do people stare at you? [That's all I say, I hope you think twice.] Please forgive me if the words are inappropriate! 】

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't know if you're a man or a woman, if a lot of people are staring at you maliciously in public, you have to look at what's going on around you, it's estimated that there are few comfortable people staring at, so it's better to be careful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Really, others keep watching and feel uncomfortable, and if you pretend not to care, she rolls her eyes, it's really rolling.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because the heart is empty, only staring at people for fun!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The main thing is that you have to put your clothes on.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, you are good-looking, and no matter what you do, you are super attractive to the opposite sexIn fact, as long as you look good enough, you don't need to make any small moves, if you want to attract him, a look is enough, for us ordinary-looking girls, no matter what you do, you will not have any charm to attract the opposite sex, and a hip-hop dance in public may attract people.

    Okay, let's start answering the questions seriouslyIn fact, I feel that the most attractive thing for the opposite sex is not actually the hair, the biting of the lip, the most attractive is the eyes, you just stare at him, and then laugh, it's enough, of course, don't be too weird, you will behave strangely, because you are actually actively attracting him, not passively attracting him, believe me, if you stare at him, and then smile sweetly, this boy will definitely think of you before going to bed at night.

    In fact, many girls do not have the beauty to stand out in the crowd, and most girls are ordinary and good-looking even if they are good-lookingSo how can ordinary good-looking girls make people notice, thinking that others are taking the initiative to see you, the probability is really too low, if you want to be in love, the most important thing is to take the initiative, you take the initiative, he is passive, the rhythm is that you grasp it, this is not that you take the initiative to chase him, but just a look.

    Then this boy starts noticing you, and believe me that the next time you meet, he'll have an impression of you, and then you can start pretending not to know himPicking up your hair or something.,Of course, it's shown when someone is watching.It's just the performance now, and then he will feel, how strange and cute this girl is, and then, successfully attract a man.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    These four behaviors of women have a "fatal" attraction to the opposite sex!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    These three behaviors of women have a great attraction to the opposite sex, do you want to know?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The first is to speak very decently, and I am very good at dressing up and often doing some ambiguous movements.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    For example, although he is not very good-looking, he has a very good temperament.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Natural beauty is the most attractive thing for men.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Life insight: Don't envy the happiness of others.

    No matter who we meet in our lives, he is the right person. Whatever happens, that's the only thing that happens; Seize the moment! No matter how nostalgic the past is, it has passed, and no matter how beautiful the future is, it has not yet come, and the end should be drawn to a perfect end.

    When it's time to start, greet it with the best attitude. Living in the present with gratitude is not only a respect for life, but also a great blessing. How good it is to have experienced it and cherished it.

    There is nothing that cannot be passed, only that there is no way back. Your figure is in the desolate twilight, and there is only an afterimage. Think about it a thousand times, it's better to do it once.

    A gorgeous fall is better than a senseless wandering. There are too many people in this world who are smiling at you. There are too few and too few who truly tolerate you.

    Many couples in love want each other to treat themselves how they want each other, or when they are single, they set up a series of payment lists for each other. In fact, love is a seed, and only when you know how to give can it blossom and bear fruit.

    We all long for the love of growing old together, but sometimes growing old together has nothing to do with love. The saddest thing in life is that you love someone deeply, but you can never be together. Those who cry out for love will only understand after being hurt by love that patience is a deep love that not everyone can know how to cherish.

    Holding hands with someone who is willing to endure you will last far longer than someone who will only give you a storm.

    Sometimes tears can't replace the hurt ...... in my heartSometimes tears can't replace the pain ...... in my heartSo tell yourself that you can't cry, you can't cry, you can't cry, even if it's hurt, it's painful, it's wronged, ......It may not be because the heart of the truly sad person has long been numb. A goodbye, isolating too many memories. I'm a person who is afraid to reach out to others.

    If I take the initiative to find you, it is because you are important to me. If I don't take the initiative to look for you, it's not because you're not important, it's because I don't know if I'm important in your heart.

    Don't envy the happiness of others, belong to yourself, and don't wait until dawn. What you thought you didn't have might be on your way; What you thought she had, might be on her way there. Some people are good to you because you are good to them; Some people are good to you because they understand your goodness!

    Maturity is not about getting old, but tears are rolling in our eyes, but we can still keep smiling; There will always be a tear that makes us grow up in an instant.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think when your boyfriend envy other people's feelings, the relationship between the two of you may be wrong, you can communicate with him well, in the end, there is a problem.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No one is the same! The same is true of feelings, do you like your feelings to be maintained by money? Those who blindly curry favor with external objects show that this person is not inherently unattractive. But people love to compare, and there are some gaps in their hearts that do not hurt their feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you have a boyfriend who still envy others, it is also possible that you really don't like your boyfriend very much, and your boyfriend may not be in place, if you can't feel love, you envy the love of others, and it is also possible that your boyfriend is very good to him, but he may yearn for that kind of better love, just like Li Xiaolu, he is not satisfied, it also depends on the situation.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A person who has a boyfriend, but he is always envious of other people's love, which means that he is not very satisfied with his love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you compare everywhere, then of course you will continue to envy others, even if you are a boy, other people's girlfriends will be envious of buying a mobile phone. How to say it, this is a matter of mentality, not a matter of feelings, some people's boyfriends and girlfriends will get a lot of benefits, but the purpose of the relationship is not the purpose at all in the first place, isn't it?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After reading what you said, I think you already don't like your boyfriend a little, maybe some aspects of him, you are already dissatisfied, otherwise you wouldn't envy others, is there a problem in the relationship, you know best in your own heart, where to go and make your own decisions.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It could also be that you want your boyfriend to get better. There is nothing wrong with having to pursue things in life. But don't be overly demanding.

    Properly considerate of the other party, you can also talk to him about your thoughts, maybe you don't do it well, you can't feel love and envy other people's love, or maybe your boyfriend is very good to him, but he may yearn for that better love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    A person who has a boyfriend always envy others, in my opinion, this relationship does have problems, you didn't receive anything on Valentine's Day, but your dorm friend received a bouquet of flowers, and her boyfriend also gave her a new mobile phone, you are envious, maybe you don't want to take advantage of your boyfriend, maybe you are not looking for a boyfriend or let him spend money for you, you just simply want to be with him, just simply want him to use snacks on you, not that having a boyfriend is equal to not having a boyfriend.

    Even if the things you send are not valuable, it's good to be willing to work hard, but your boyfriend doesn't send anything, this kind of boyfriend is equal to nothing, you can ask him, what do you think, you can't break up.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Not necessarily. You may also want your boyfriend to get better. There is nothing wrong with having to pursue things in life. But don't be overly demanding. Be considerate of the other party, and you can also talk to him about your thoughts.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    A person with a boyfriend always envies others, this question shows that the material life and spiritual enjoyment she wants to pursue The other half does not meet the standards she likes, so that she envies others and even doubts whether there is a problem in this relationship, I think couples can't only care about material things, more importantly, the feelings between two people, as long as the other party has always had their own in their hearts, even if there is not so much material satisfaction, we should also feel satisfied, because people can't compare with each other, Always compare yourself with others, then your life will not be so good, to be content, as long as the other person really likes you, this is very important.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Prove that your boyfriend didn't do what you expected, and if it goes on, there will be problems, and you have to think about it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, I'm the same, especially my girlfriend who has a little affection for me, this is a normal reaction.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The premise is that someone else has a girlfriend, if you really love him, don't be a third party, his happiness is also a good thing for you, relax your heart.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you are attracted to you, you just don't like you, and those who really like you will only be cautious, not to mention that he has a girlfriend.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Got you. Keep your distance and try to forget your feelings.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Say to the girl you loved deeply but couldn't be together again:

    Yunfeng, I have been paying attention to you and thinking about you for the past 4 years, and my love for you will not end until I die. I know we can't be together again, so I'll always bless you!

    Say to the girl you are loving right now

    Rui, I have loved two women, you are the second and last, losing you I believe I will never have the courage to love again. Is it good to be the only one in my life?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Love is given to you and I never regret it

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    What man is the most attractive? Mature and steady men are the most attractive to women, because they are very in line with their mate selection criteria, so if you want to become attractive, the first thing you have to do is to be mature, don't take out the temper of a child at every turn, and then you must not let others understand it thoroughly, and men who are full of mystery are the most likely to provoke women to explore!

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