He finally let go, I don t know if he was weak or filial?

All these things you said should be listened to by him, but there is really such a man in this world, maybe in his heart it is really his parents who take the first place, if this is really the case, you might as well let go, this is the first time I persuade others to let go, his parents said that you are small is just an excuse, if it is my own son who finds his beloved, I will not care about the height of my daughter-in-law or anything, because it is my son's choice! If you are reluctantly together, even if you get married in the future, you will not have a good time, and your mother-in-law or guild will find a way to make things difficult for you, unless you are confident enough to change their opinion of you, otherwise let it go.

ps: I've solved a lot of emotional problems, but it's really the first time to persuade others to let go!

The worldly door is right! Maybe he did it because of filial piety! also considered that in the future, if his parents don't agree with you being together, you will only be angry in the future!

Since, he has chosen! You should give up too! Don't be unwilling!

I believe that tomorrow will be better! I believe that the better one is the latter one! That's how life is full of hope, isn't it?

Personally, I like small people, as the saying goes, stupid big guys, silly big guys. The nutrition of the big man has grown. It's stupid.

It's a small person, smart and capable. So I advise you friend! Don't feel inferior just because you're small.

It's not your problem. If your boyfriend really loves you, he'll come back to you. He's not coming to you anymore.

Then he just doesn't love you. You don't have to feel heartache for someone who doesn't love you, okay? There is no grass at the end of the world, and the people who really love you are looking for a hand for you in front!

I know it's weakness.

If he said he would love you forever, then if he was a strong man who wouldn't break his promises. Since he can't keep the promise he gave you, what do you have to heartache about? Forget about him.

This is the sadness of the post-80s.

In the process of growing up, I relied too much on the arrangements of my parents, and I was at a loss without my parents.

Your boyfriend is such a person, don't hate him, maybe his heart is also full of endless pain and sorrow at this moment.

People can never deviate from the environment in which they grew up, try to understand him! Each of us must learn to be understanding and tolerant.

If you love him, you should understand him, but if you really have fate, you will definitely come together. Don't worry too much about how you can continue to do well. You don't want to put too much pressure on him, just let it be.

I think it's not weakness or filial piety, it should be that your love hasn't reached that level yet, forget about him, you will have true love, real happiness is waiting for you

If he was sincere, he should have persevered to the end, but he didn't, he succumbed to his parents' arrangement, this is not filial piety or not, the relationship needs to be fought for by himself, not to obey the arrangement of others.

It depends on whether his parents' opinion is reasonable, his parents' opinion is right, he is not a coward, if it is just the old man's own blind thinking, this man is too stupid...

There are still too ......few persistent people who abandon their families and stay with their lovers

But if he really loves you, he'll definitely try to be such a person!

And if he doesn't even try and says to give up, then the landlord should feel lucky, the farther away from this kind of hypocritical person, the better!

He's a complete idiot. No courage, no assertiveness.

I have a girlfriend by myself, and I am not a girlfriend by my parents.

Have a nice talk with him (in the absence of his parents). If it's time to break up, just break up.

There's not much room to hold on to.

This kind of thing is not a good thing for anyone to happen, according to the mentality of our young people, he is a coward, but according to the mentality of parents, he is a filial son

Yes, it depends on whether his parents' objections are justified!

You might as well give up! In fact he was in pain too! But he has to break up with you!

I'm in the same situation as you now, and it's painful for two people to love each other and not be acknowledged. The tears of grievance can only be wiped by yourself. The last person they choose to hurt is us.

He may feel that he can't love you and wants you to be freer.

The most important thing is that he still doesn't love you enough.

I suggest you have a conversation with his parents.

His parents gave birth to him and raised him, his wife is gone, he can be found, but what about his parents?

Alas, the understanding is different.

But I wish my husband wasn't so cowardly!

A promise is a debt.

Maybe it's something else.

To be honest, there is a difference in age.

Du adults can only be together.

zhi is built on money to be able to dao

Maintain, there is also a kind of family pressure that does not have the ability of the family, such as both parties are above without parents. The pressure from the outside world is the most important reason why you can't be together. Whether to persist or give up mainly depends on whether the man can make up his mind.

In fact, it is not difficult to see that the man does not want to get married, and the reason is very simple. What a man thinks and a woman can't guess either.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read! What you said about leaving reality together, are you willing to give up your family, are you willing to be your friends! I don't think women are reluctant, and besides, if your boyfriend is filial, he can't go out with you!

Your boyfriend loves you so much, you won't be separated! It is impossible for the older generation to break up the lovers who are truly in love! You shouldn't let go, that's weak, not firm in love!

You should stick with it and your boyfriend!! Time can change everything!

Alas! In this case, even if you marry in the future, you won't have a good life, so let it go! If your boyfriend really loves you, he will stick to it no matter what! If you let go and he doesn't ask you to stay too much, it means that you are right to let go.

Personally, I think you should insist that there is no hard-hearted person in this world, as long as you and your boyfriend are truly in love, you will definitely have a good result, and use your true feelings to move his mother. I'm sure you'll be able to do it. Go hard for your happiness.

Think about it! After all, mother and son are connected.

I think it's time for him to try to change his mother's mind Bless you!!

Modern Society 1 Free Love1 If you are really too much of him, he also really loves the year1 You guys go and don't worry too much about the problems1 1

Whatever you say, you're the one who makes the final decision, aren't you?

I just want to say that the society is very realistic, some people will choose between feelings and money, what kind of people have money, the key is to see what you think, as a man he has filial piety, this is an advantage, maybe for you he is really a little ruthless or helpless, in fact, what he said is also difficult to deal with the relationship between the two families living together, really no good for your future life, the original mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is difficult to deal with in plus your parents are married at that time, many problems are you can not think of now, The practical problems of many friends around me make me want to tell you that "the problems of the two families will appear again and again", as for solving the house problem, you also know that he will be very stressed, so if you love him, you must learn to be tolerant of problems and be sure to communicate with him.

From your standpoint, his lack of insistence on your relationship is chilling, but you also said that you love him, don't you? So if you think he is a man who can be entrusted for life, then you should also complain less and be more tolerant and communicate together to face and solve, don't give up easily, cherish every day together, even if you really want to separate one day, I think he will definitely regret it in the future.

This is all my own experience.

I didn't stick to my previous feelings.

I didn't feel numb in the relationships I encountered after that, I won't love it, and the pain of breaking up for four years and all night made me regret it.

What I regret the most is not that I broke up, but that I didn't cherish it when I had it.

There is no regret about losing such a man.

Say break up at every turn.

He doesn't cherish you so much, and he keeps your love again and again, and you are really filial

It's so touching that it's worth learning from.

You should be my sister

Call you sister here, even if there are thousands of people who don't want to.

Before you get married, let yourself go.

I think everybody thinks he's not a good man, and he's not going to be a good husband in the future.

Can't say you despise someone like your boyfriend.

But I can only say that it's a pity that you marry him.

Have you seen double-sided tape?

In the end, what has become of him, his mother, just don't be too mean.

Although what you said is really realistic, but it is really difficult for you to be a kind of invisible pressure, or he is an invisible pressure, a little breathless, not to mention a person who has no savings and can't pay a down payment, that is, there are these before, it is difficult to ......After all, you're still young and you're going to feel a lot of pressure.

If you really love him, try to let go of some, don't care too much, you can see that you are very filial, as long as you use the most sincere heart to manage your love and family affection, I think both his family and your family will feel grateful, because you really put your heart into it, really for them, of course, but also for your own happiness has worked hard, it is enough.

Not everything will be as good as you think,,So smooth I don't think you need to break up with him for these,After all, two people from the beginning to the love,,It is not easy to think about entrusting it for life,Besides, you love him so much,,,Think about it,,,Good luck,

I advise you to divide it.

He was too weak to have his own opinions, and he listened to his mother.

And he is not firm in your feelings at all, he originally promised you to go to the north, and when he graduated, he changed his original intention, so he deceived you. Hehe, I think a big part of his change was that his mom was playing tricks on him.

I reckon he said he backed off.

It's a sign that he wants to plan a breakup.

How many college lovers have given up on love in the face of real problems, and if he wants to be with you, these difficulties are not difficulties

You try to open it now, don't give up the whole forest for a tree, you can only suffer yourself if you blindly compromise.

Everything goes with the flow.

He is a child in a single-parent family, and the family has a great influence on him, if he is really superstitious as you said, if the birth date is not compatible, even if you enter the palace of marriage, the differences between your families will make it difficult for you to live in another family, which is an irreconcilable contradiction, not to mention that his mother is also more conservative, which can not go on no matter what.

If the birthday is compatible, the two of you get married, you have to live in his family, and then consider the problem of the house, for people who have just come out to work for a few years to buy two suites is equivalent to digging the bottom of the pot, life will fall into a dilemma, the key issue is the maintenance of the elderly, their family is a single parent, the maintenance problem must be his responsibility, so his mother must live with him, need to take care of, you have to negotiate what is going on, it is best for the two parents to talk together, negotiate, After all, you are their children, and they should be considerate of you, no matter what the outcome, I wish you happiness!

I think it's a little ruthless to you, it's a little selfish, after all, marriage is a matter of two people, you must be considerate of each other, in order to be happy, you just started like this, it's hard to imagine how to be happy in the future, although there will be a lot of small bumps in life, but breaking up and divorce at every turn is still unbearable, walk and break up, after all, long pain is not as good as short pain, and it is not a solution to drag it on, not to mention that he is so cold.

I can only say that this man is really useless, and filial piety is not blindly obedient. Since he was so indifferent to your previous love, you can also be indifferent. When the time comes, it will be up to you to see who can't stand it first. Give him up. Find a better one.

Since you love each other, you should last a long time! There is friction in life, but it will be smooth after a long time, please tolerate each other, talk calmly, the road is out! Remember, it's heart-to-heart talk!

Forget it, you'll find the right one.

It's no fun to torture each other like this.

If the two are in the same city, it's okay to say.

In different cities, the man refused to let him go.

Such domineering will become even worse after marriage.

That's just an excuse, don't be stupid, you love him, you don't owe him, good men have.

I think that men who don't know how to deal with the relationship between their wives and mothers can simply be described as "costly". Even if you get married in the future, he will still stand on his mother's side when you have a conflict with his mother (of course, this is understandable, after all, it is his own mother, a relative who single-handedly brought him up, which is understandable, but you can't do without your own views and positions). Why put your happiness in the hands of someone who can't control yourself!

Final advice: know how to let go at the right time to avoid yourself from being hurt more in the future!!